I recently received an email from Christine that said (edited a bit below):
"I found your blog post somehow while looking for ancestry.com ... I was thinking you might be able to help me. You know when people ask "where are you from?" And I reply with 'originally? Or currently?' Which in turn causes me to say well I was born in Michigan, grew up in Texas but came to California at 17.
"Then they say 'no, your last name...it's Italian. ..' 'Yes,' I reply...'I married into that name...how Italian can you get? Right?' Well, lucky for my ex husband and my sons, he and his family know a lot about their ancestors.
"So then the polite response is usually 'so what is your maiden name?' 'PALMITER' I reply... and they ask'hmmm where is that from? Is that German? French?'
"There lies my reason for contacting you....I don't know. I don't have anyone to ask. I know the names of my father and grandfather. What else would be useful to get the best representation of my Heinz 57 recipe?
"Anything you can do to lead me in the right direction would be great. Every site I go to requires me to spend upwards of $100 for each inquiry. ..and I'm not sure if I'm even at the right place. Thanks for your time!!"
Well, Christine, I have some help for you:
It links to the Palmenter name page which says:
"English (mainly Essex): occupational name for a maker of facings and trimmings, Middle English, Old French par(e)mentier (from parement ‘fitting’, ‘finishing’, Late Latin paramentum, a derivative of parare ‘to prepare or adorn’)."
3) You can access Ancestry.com databases for FREE at LDS Family History Centers around the world (4,600 of them) or at some public and private libraries that have a subscription to Ancestry Library Edition. If you go, take a flash drive to save documents that you find.
5) You may find online family trees with the Palmiter name in some free family tree sites, one of the best is WorldConnect at wc.rootsweb.ancestry.com. Enter a name of a historical person (not living) into the search fields and look for trees that may have useful information.
6) The FamilySearch Family Tree may have information about your ancestral families contributed by many researchers in one large shared tree - see https://familysearch.org/tree/. You will have to register to see information - it's free.
7) Look for graves for your ancestral families at Find A Grave - www.findagrave.com. This is a free site.
9) In addition, there is a large genealogy mailing list archive for surnames and localities at http://lists.rootsweb.ancestry.com. You can search the entire archive or specific lists for your families.
10) There are many other genealogy based websites that are free, and some are commercial. almost all of the commercial websites are available to search for free at the LDS Family History Centers - you can find a list at https://familysearch.org/locations/centerlocator
11) You may find very helpful information about your ancestral families in published books and periodicals available at local, regional or national libraries. Many books published before 1923 are available online at Google Books (http://books.google.com) and the Internet Archive (http://www.archive.org).
12) As you can see, there are many websites with useful family tree and record information, and you can access commercial websites for free by visiting a local library or center.
What else would you recommend for Christine to use online or offline to find more information about her ancestry?
I hope that helps you, Christine.
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