Friday, August 22, 2025

Amy (Champlin) Oatley's Life Memories - An AI-Assisted Memoir

I wrote an AI-assisted ABC Biography of my 3rd great-grandmother Amy (Champlin) Oatley  in ABC Biography of #47 Amy (Champlin) Oatley (1798-1865) of Rhode Island and Connecticut based on my genealogical sketch of her life.


(AI ChatGPT4o image of the Oatley family  in 1840)

1)  Based on the genealogical sketch, I requested Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4 to create a memoir written by Amy Oatley talking about her life in 1865.  The prompt was:  Please write a memoir for Amy (Champlin) Oatley, based on the attached genealogical sketch, as she might tell to her grandchildren in January 1865.

The AI Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4 memoir (lightly edited for accuracy) is: 

My Story: A Memoir by Amy Oatley

As told to my dear grandchildren in the winter of 1865


My precious grandchildren, as I sit here in our home in East Killingly this cold February day, feeling the weight of my sixty-seven years, I want to share with you the story of my life—your grandmother's journey from a young girl in Rhode Island to the woman you know today.

Growing Up Among the Champlins

I was born Amy Champlin on March 9th, 1798, in South Kingstown, Rhode Island, the seventh of twelve children blessed to Joseph and Nancy Champlin. What a bustling household we were! My father was a hardworking man, and my mother Nancy—born a Kenyon—kept us all in line with her gentle but firm hand.

I had so many brothers and sisters that our house was never quiet. My oldest brother Samuel was already thirteen when I came into this world, and little Alice wouldn't join us for another ten years. We girls—Phoebe, Mary, Nancy, Elizabeth, and I—learned early how to help with the cooking, mending, and caring for the younger ones. My brothers Samuel, Joseph, George Hazard, and John Kenyon worked alongside father, while Frances, Abigail, and Alice filled our days with laughter and occasional tears.

Growing up in a large family teaches you many things, dear ones. You learn to share, to help one another, and that family is the greatest blessing the Lord can bestow. These lessons served me well throughout my life.

Finding Love at Church

When I was fourteen years old, in February of 1813, I was baptized at the Baptist Church in Exeter, Rhode Island. It was there, just two weeks earlier, that I first truly noticed Jonathan Oatley. He had been baptized on February 6th, and I on the 20th—both of us making our commitment to the Lord in those cold winter days.

Jonathan was the son of Joseph and Mary Hazard Oatley, a good Christian family. He was handsome and kind, with gentle eyes and a heart for serving God. We began to know each other during church gatherings, and I found myself looking forward to Sundays with an eagerness that had little to do with the sermon!

By spring, Jonathan had asked for my hand, and on May 29th, 1813, we were married in that same church where we had both been baptized. I was barely fifteen years old, but I knew with all my heart that Jonathan was the man God intended for me.

The Blessing of Children

Oh, my dear grandchildren, how can I describe the joy that came with each of your parents and aunts and uncles? The Lord blessed Jonathan and me with fourteen children, though we lost our youngest, little George Whittier, when he was just an infant in 1837.

Our first child, John Alfred, was born on January 15th, 1815, when I was not yet seventeen. How frightened I was, and yet how wonderful to hold that precious baby in my arms! Then came Joseph, Almira, Nancy, and one after another, the Lord filled our home with the patter of little feet and the music of children's voices.

Each birth brought such joy, and yet such responsibility. I learned to manage a household that seemed to grow larger each year. By the time we moved to Connecticut, we had twelve children ranging from babies to young adults. Imagine the cooking, the washing, the mending, the teaching, and yes, sometimes the scolding that was required!

Your parents were good children, each with their own special gifts. John Alfred was serious and responsible, always helping with the younger ones. Joseph was clever with his hands and had a quick mind for figures. The girls—Almira, Nancy, and Amy Frances—were my right hands in keeping house and caring for the family.

Our Move to Connecticut

In 1834, when our family had grown to twelve children, the Lord called Jonathan to serve as pastor of the Baptist Church in East Killingly, Connecticut. What an undertaking that move was! Can you imagine packing up a household of fourteen people and all our belongings?

But we trusted in the Lord's plan for us. Jonathan had been called to preach, and East Killingly needed a pastor. We loaded our wagons and made the journey from South Kingstown to Connecticut, where we would spend the rest of our days.

Jonathan began his ministry on May 1st, 1834, carrying with him a letter of recommendation from our church in South Kingstown. Those early years in Connecticut were among our happiest. The community welcomed us, and Jonathan's preaching was well-received. Our younger children grew up considering Connecticut their true home.

Trials and Forgiveness

Not all of our years were smooth sailing, my dear ones. In 1847, trouble arose in our church—disagreements and hard feelings that I won't burden you with the details of now. Sufficiently to say, Jonathan and I, along with some of our children, found ourselves excluded from the church fellowship.

Those were dark days for our family. To be separated from the church community we had served and loved was a deep wound. But we held fast to our faith and to each other. We continued to pray and to live as Christians should, even when others questioned our standing.

The Lord works in mysterious ways, children. In 1853, six years later, we were invited back into full fellowship with the church. On February 5th of that year, we were unanimously restored. It was a day of great joy and thanksgiving, a reminder that forgiveness and reconciliation are possible even after the deepest hurts.

The Later Years

As the children grew and married, our house grew quieter but our hearts grew fuller. We watched our sons and daughters make good marriages—many of them to fine families right here in Connecticut. The Tafts, the Edsons, the Whites—they all became part of our extended family.

When my father Joseph passed away in 1850, he left me a portion of his estate—about eight percent of more than four thousand dollars. It was a considerable sum, and Jonathan and I were grateful for this inheritance that helped secure our later years.

Jonathan became skilled as a stone cutter and mason, honest work that provided for our needs. By 1850, we owned real property worth a thousand dollars—quite an achievement for a preacher's family with so many mouths to feed.

Lessons for You, Dear Ones

As I think back on my sixty-six years, I want to share with you the wisdom that life has taught me:

First, put your faith in the Lord above all else. He has guided me through every joy and every sorrow, every birth and every loss. When the church troubles came, when little George Whittier died, when we worried about providing for so many children—it was faith that carried us through.

Second, treasure your family. The love of a good husband, the blessing of children, the support of brothers and sisters—these are riches beyond gold. I have been blessed with Jonathan's devoted love for over fifty years, and with children who have grown into good, Christian adults.

Third, work hard and be faithful in small things. Whether tending a sick child, keeping a clean house, or supporting your husband's ministry, do everything as unto the Lord. There is dignity in honest work, no matter how humble it may seem.

Fourth, be quick to forgive and slow to anger. The years we spent separated from our church taught me that holding onto grievances only hurts ourselves. When the opportunity came for reconciliation, we were ready to embrace it with glad hearts.

Finally, remember that this life is but a preparation for eternity. The Lord may call me home soon—I can feel it in these old bones—but I do not fear death. I have lived to see most of my children grown and settled, to hold many of you grandchildren in my arms, and to serve the Lord as best I could.

A Mother's Final Words

I signed my will two years ago, leaving our property to ten of our surviving children. It's not much—a house, a barn, and several acres of Connecticut soil—but it represents a lifetime of work and love. More importantly, I leave you all the legacy of faith, family, and perseverance.

When you face your own trials in life, remember your grandmother Amy who came from Rhode Island as a young bride, raised fourteen children, weathered the storms of church troubles and family sorrows, and never lost faith in God's goodness.

Take care of each other, my precious grandchildren. Honor your parents as I have tried to honor mine. Love the Lord with all your hearts. And remember that wherever life may take you, you carry with you the prayers and love of your grandmother Amy.

May the Lord bless you and keep you all the days of your lives.

Your loving grandmother, Amy (Champlin) Oatley January 1865


[This memoir was compiled from Amy's own words as she might have spoken them to her grandchildren in the final weeks of her life, before her passing on February 8, 1865, at the age of 66.]

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Amy (Champlin) Oatley died 8 February 1865 at age 66 and was buried in Bartlett Cemetery in East Killingly, where she rests with her husband, Jonathan, who died in 1872.  All in all, Jonathan and Amy had 55 grandchildren, although a number died as infants or young children.

 2)  I think that these relatively short memoirs are poignant and would be interesting to her family members, especially to her descendants, and even to her 3rd great-grandchildren (like me!).  

This format provides a different perspective than a biography, doesn't it?  It is historical fiction,  but many of the historical facts from the genealogical sketch are included and it rings true to me.  

I will write more of these AI-assisted memoirs or life memories as told by my ancestors as time goes on.  This is great genealogy fun for me!

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