Sunday, November 15, 2026

Best of the Genea-Blogs -- Week of 8 to 14 November 2026

 Scores of genealogy and family history bloggers write hundreds of posts every week about their research, their families, and their interests. I appreciate each one of them and their efforts.


My criteria for "Best of ..." are pretty simple - I pick posts that advance knowledge about genealogy and family history, address current genealogy issues, provide personal family history, are funny or are poignant. I don't list posts destined for most daily blog prompts or meme submissions (but I do include summaries of them), or my own posts.


Here are my picks for great reads from the genealogy blogs for this past week:
 









Here are pick posts by other geneabloggers this week:

*  The Chiddicks Observer Edition 77 [9 November 2026] by Paul Chiddicks on Stories Behind the Records.

*  Friday’s Family History Finds [13 November 2026] by Linda Stufflebean on Empty Branches on the Family Tree.

* This week’s crème de la crème -- November 14, 2026 by Gail Dever on Genealogy a la Carte.

* GenStack (14 November 2026] by Robin Stewart on Genealogy Matters.


Readers are encouraged to go to the blogs listed above and read their articles, and add the blogs to your Favorites, Feedly, another RSS feed, or email if you like what you read. Please make a comment to them also - all bloggers appreciate feedback on what they write.

Did I miss a great genealogy blog post? Tell me! I currently am reading posts from over 900 genealogy bloggers using Feedly, but I still miss quite a few it seems.

Read past Best of the Genea-Blogs posts here.


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Betty and Fred’s Story: Fred Goes To Sea -- April and May 1945

Here is the latest chapter in the story of the married life and times of my parents, Fred and Betty (Carringer) Seaver, who married in July 1942. The background information and the list of chapters of their life together are listed at the end of this post.  This is historical fiction with real people and real events, and is how it might have been.

And now we are up to April and May 1945, over three years into World War II.  Betty and Randy are living with Betty's parents, and Fred is in the U.S. Navy assigned to the Fleet Post Office in San Francisco.  Life changes quickly now ...

(AI Google Gemini Notebook Infographic - Betty and Fred's Story, Fred Goes To Sea)

Based on the biographies and the earlier stories, I asked Anthropic Claude Sonnet 5 to tell another story - what happened next (I offered some suggestions!)?  


Betty and Fred’s Story: Fred Goes to Sea -- April and May 1945

Treasure Island, April 1945

The promotion came quietly, in the first week of April, in the form of a typed notice passed down the tables with the morning mail. Fred read it twice. Mailman Third Class. A new rating, a new patch for his sleeve, and a little more pay, and when he looked up the petty officer from Boston was watching him with his arms folded and the nearest thing to a smile that Fred had ever seen on that face.

"About time," the petty officer said, and went back to his bags.

It was a spring of heavy news. On the twelfth of April word came through that President Roosevelt had died in Georgia, and the sorting tables fell silent as the news ran down the line. Men stood with letters in their hands and did not move. Fred thought of Betty, and of Lyle at Marston's, and of the house on Fern Street where the radio would be on. Then, because there was nothing else to be done, the men went back to work, a good deal more quietly than before.

On the twenty-fourth, his orders arrived. He was to report to the USS Halford, a destroyer then undergoing repairs at Mare Island, up the bay near Vallejo. It was a ship. A real one, with guns and a crew and water under her keel, and Fred read the orders slowly, standing at his locker, feeling something that was not quite fear and not quite excitement.

He had a week to prepare. He packed his sea bag the way the Navy had taught him, rolling and tying each item and squaring everything away in its place, and went through his locker a last time. The photo wallet, the Zippo with his initials, the waterproof watch, and Betty's leather writing case went in last. The men from the tables shook his hand one by one. The streetcar conductor from Oakland slapped him on the back. The schoolteacher from Ohio told him to write, and Fred promised that he would.

The petty officer from Boston said only, "Take care of the mail, Seaver. Somebody out there is waiting on it."
Dear Betty,

Big news. I've been promoted to Mailman Third Class, and I have orders to report to a ship. She's the USS Halford, a destroyer, and she's at Mare Island for repairs. I report on the first of May.

I'm both nervous and glad. It's time. I'll write the moment I know more, and I'll send you the new address as soon as I have it. Please tell Randy his father is going to sea, and give him a kiss from me.

All my love, Fred
Mare Island, 1 May 1945

The bus took him north on the first of May, through the foggy morning and over the water, with the sea bag across his knees. He was not alone. Two other sailors with Mailman ratings were on the same orders, a quiet man named Clarence Noyer and a cheerful one named William Couvillion, and the three of them found each other at the gate and fell in together as men do who have been handed the same piece of paper.

The 
Halford lay at a dock in the yard, with scaffolding along her side and the sparks of welding flying from her decks. Fred had pictured her a hundred times since his orders came. The pictures had been wrong. She was long and gray and lean, and she was larger than he had imagined, a destroyer with a low, fast silhouette and five-inch gun mounts forward and aft, torpedo tubes amidships, and smaller guns bristling along her deck. She looked a good deal like what she was. She was built for speed and for fighting, and she carried the marks of both.

They walked up the gangway, saluted the colors and the officer of the deck, and reported aboard. A yeoman checked their names against a list. They were shown below, down a steel ladder and through a passageway so narrow that a man had to turn sideways, to the compartment where they would sleep. Fred's bunk was a canvas cot in a stack of three, hung from the bulkhead on chains, with a lip of steel an arm's length from his face. He stowed his sea bag in the locker beneath it, and when he lay down to try it, he found that if he did not move his elbows, it fitted well enough.

The next days were a blur of faces and names. The officers were young and brisk. The chief petty officers were older, and watchful. The crew, a few hundred men in all, moved through the ship's narrow spaces with an ease that Fred envied. Most had been to sea for a long time, and many had been in the thick of it already. They looked him over with polite curiosity: a thirty-three-year-old Mailman, ten years older than most of them, who had come up from a post office. He found they were friendly enough. When they learned what he did, they were a good deal friendlier. A man who handles the mail is always welcome aboard a ship.

The mail room was a small compartment, hardly bigger than a closet, with pigeonholes along one wall and a counter along another and a locked cabinet for the stamps and the registered mail. It had been running in a rough fashion while the ship was in the yard, and the three new Mailmen spent the first days going through it. They counted the stamps, checked the records, and sorted out what remained of the old mail. Noyer was precise and methodical. Couvillion was quick with a joke and quicker with his hands. Fred found that the three of them worked together easily. By the end of the week the pigeonholes were relabeled, the ledgers were in order, and the first of the day's mail went out through the little window.
Dear Betty,

I'm aboard. The Halford is a real ship, and she's bigger and faster-looking than I thought. I'm in a bunk on a chain, three high, in a compartment that smells of fresh paint and hot metal. I like her already.

There are three of us in the mail room, myself and two other Mailmen, Clarence Noyer and William Couvillion. We've been setting it up and getting to know each other. They're good fellows. I think we'll work well together.

The work is much like the FPO, only in a very small space. I'll write more when I can.

All my love, Fred
The war ended in Europe while he was at Mare Island. On the eighth of May the news went through the yard, and the welders stopped for a moment, and a cheer went up from somewhere along the dock. There was joy in it, and relief. But there was something else too. Everybody aboard knew that the other war was still going on, and that the ship they were repairing would be a part of it.

The Muster Roll, 19 May 1945

The repairs were finished in the middle of the month. On the nineteenth of May, the muster roll listed Fred among the crew, and the 
Halford cast off from Mare Island and began to move.

He stood at the rail in the gray morning and watched the yard slide by, the cranes and the hulls and the long gray docks. Then they were out in the bay with the city on one side and the bridge ahead, and he watched the Golden Gate Bridge come up out of the haze, huge and orange and close enough to touch. He had stood on it in January and looked down at the water. Now the water was carrying him. He thought of Betty and said nothing to anyone. The ship passed under the span, and the first long swell of the Pacific lifted her bow, and she turned south. He sent this letter before the ship sailed:
Dear Betty,

We are almost under way. By the time you read this, we'll be in San Diego, I think. The Halford has been ordered there for outfitting. I can't say more than that, as you know, but I can say that I'll be close to home.

My new address is:

F. W. Seaver MaM3c USS Halford (DD-480) c/o Fleet Post Office San Francisco, California

Please write at once. And tell your parents. I'll try to get a note off to you the minute I'm ashore.

All my love, Fred
San Diego, 21 May 1945

The Halford came into San Diego Bay on the twenty-first of May, in the early morning, with the long sweep of Point Loma on one side and 5,000 miles of green water on the other. Fred stood at the rail again, and this time he did not pretend to be calm. It was his city. Somewhere beyond the piers and the hills, past Balboa Park and the streets he knew, was a white house on Fern Street, and in it were the two people he loved best in the world.

The ship tied up, and the work began almost at once. She had come to San Diego to be made ready for the Pacific. Ammunition came aboard in great nets, swung down from the dock by cranes. Crates of tools and spare parts followed, and food and fresh water and fuel, and new men too, in long lines up the gangway, with their sea bags on their shoulders. The crew would grow by dozens. Every one of them would need a bunk, a locker, a place in the muster roll, and a place in the mail.

The Mailmen had their work cut out. The first job was the list. Fred, Noyer, and Couvillion sat at a table in the mail room with the muster roll and the new rosters, copying names, ratings, and divisions into a master list, so that a letter addressed to any man aboard could find him. The list changed daily as new arrivals reported and others were transferred, and every change meant a new line in the ledger. The three worked in shifts, and sometimes the lamp in the mail room burned late.

Then the mail started to come. The Fleet Post Office sent it down in canvas sacks, brought out to the ship by truck and carried up the gangway on the shoulders of the working party. Fred and the others cut the string, spread the contents across the counter, and sorted them into the pigeonholes by division. The window opened at set hours. Men lined up in the passageway and waited, shifting from foot to foot, and when a name was called, a hand went out for the envelope. Fred had sorted mail for seven months without ever seeing a face on the other end of it. Now he watched each one. He saw a gunner's mate read a letter standing in the passageway and go still. He saw a boy of nineteen get a package from his mother, open it in front of everyone, and laugh out loud at a pair of knitted socks. It was the same work. It was not at all the same.
Dear Betty,

We're in San Diego! We tied up this morning at the pier, and I could see Point Loma, Cornoado, downtown and Balboa Park from the deck. I stood at the rail a long time. It seems impossible that I'm so close.

The ship is being outfitted with supplies, and new men, and the three of us in the mail room are working day and night. We have to prepare a list of the entire crew and start handing out the mail, and there's a great deal of it.

I'm going to put in for one night's leave. If they grant it, I'll send you a telegram the day before, so you'll know when to expect me. Please don't wait up by the window, though I know you will.

Give Randy a kiss, and a kiss to your mother and father and Nana and Austin.

All my love, Fred
And later:
Dear Betty,
It's a long day and I'm almost asleep over the paper, but I wanted to say that I've put in the request for leave. The first lieutenant said he'd see what he could do. I'll know in a few days.

The new address works. Write as often as you can. Mail is the best thing in the whole ship, and I'm the one handing it out, so I can tell you how much it means.

All my love, Fred
Fern Street, 24 May 1945

Fred's first letter from the ship reached Fern Street on a Tuesday, and Betty read it standing in the front hall with her satchel still on her shoulder. She read it twice. Then she read it aloud in the kitchen, with Randy in his high chair and the whole family around her, and when she came to the part that said We're in San Diego!, Emily set down the coffeepot and Georgia put a hand to her mouth.

He was here. He was a few miles away down by the same bay and the same hills. Nobody could say how long he would stay, or whether he would get his leave night. But he was here, and the house on Fern Street, which had grown quiet and patient over nine months of waiting, filled up overnight with a bright, nervous energy. Emily began planning meals. Lyle checked the car. Georgia, who had said nothing for a minute, announced that Randy's best clothes would need pressing.

That night, after Randy was asleep, Betty sat at the kitchen table with the lamp low and wrote.
Dear Fred,

I can hardly hold the pen. You're in San Diego! You're a few miles away, across the same water, and I keep going to the window as though I might see the ship from here. Dad says I can't, and I know he's right, but I look anyway.

We're all waiting for your telegram. Mother is already planning the meals. Dad has the car ready. Nana is pressing Randy's best clothes, and I've told Randy over and over that his father is coming, though he mostly says "Da-da" and points at your picture and laughs. He says it now when you're not even in the room.

We're all well. School is fine. I'll have a good deal to tell you. But what I most want is to see your face, and to put your hand on Randy's head, and to have one whole evening with nothing in it but the three of us.

I'll be at the door. I'll be at the door the minute I know.

All my love, Betty
She sealed the envelope, set it on the hall table beside the telephone, and stood a moment in the dark hallway with her hand on the banister. Then she went up to bed, and lay a long while listening to Randy breathe, and waited for the telegram.

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Here is the Google Notebook Video Overview about this time in Betty, Fred and Randy's lives in spring 1945 (also on my YouTube channel):  

This story is historical fiction based on real people -- my parents, grandparents, and me -- and a real event in a real place. I don't know the full story of these events -- but this is how it might have been. I hope that it was at least this good! Claude is such a good storywriter! I added some details and corrected some errors in Claude's initial version.

Stay tuned for the next chapter in this family story.

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The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my mother, Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #3 Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver (1919-2002) of San Diego, California. I also  wrote Betty's Story: The First-Year Art Teacher about the start of her teaching career.

The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my father, Frederick Walton Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #2 Frederick Walton Seaver Jr. (1911-1983) of Massachusetts and San Diego, California.  I also wrote Fred's Story: The Three-Day Cross-Country Escape  and Fred's Story: "I Need A Girl" about him coming to San Diego, and wanting a girlfriend.

Here are the previous chapters in this story:

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

Copyright (c) 2026, Randall J. Seaver


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