Monday, September 21, 2026

Randy's Genealogy Pot-Pourri - Week Ending 20 September 2026

Here are the highlights of my family history and genealogy related activities over the past week (ending Sunday, 20 September 2026). 

1)  Hosted and moderated the Chula Vista Genealogical Society (CVGS) Family History Roundtable p Meeting on Wednesday and we told our stories about our occupations, and then I reviewed using Google Search AI and AI LLMs to describe family life in a palce and time. 

2)  Attended the San Diego Genealogical Society (SDGS) British Isles Interest Group on Zoom on Saturday, with Colin Whitney discussing "Records Between the Censuses."  

3)  Presented my "From Census to Story: Bringing Ancestors To Life With Evidence, Context, and AI” talk to the GeneaBloggers group on Zoom on Sunday.  

4)  Curated genealogy-related articles to keep myself and my readers updated on the genealogy world in:

9)  Wrote an AI-assisted short story about my maternal grandparents lives and romance on Genea-Musings and Substack:
10)  Housekeeping -- updated my Randy's AI and Genealogy page and added to the AI-assisted story  compendiums. Added a number of the recent Google Notebook Videos to my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@RandySeaver (now 485 videos).

11)  Searched for more records of ancestral families on Ancestry, FamilySearch and MyHeritage, downloaded record images to my digital file folders, and added research notes, events and sources to RootsMagic profiles.  My RootsMagic family tree now has 75,138 profiles (up 3 from last week)  and 148,156 source citations (up 5).  

12)  My AncestryDNA test now has 52,527 DNA matches (up 43 from last week) with 2,223  "close" matches (20 cM or more) today (up 1), with two new ThruLines.  Added Notes to no Matches, and added no new DNA match lines to RootsMagic. MyHeritageDNA test now has 14,966 DNA matches (up 25 from last week) for me, with 26 Theories of Family Relativity.  

13) Wrote 21 Genea-Musings blog posts last week (Sunday through Saturday), of which two were a press release. The most viewed post last week was  Added and Updated FamilySearch Record Collections - Week of 12 to 18 September 2026 with 444 views.  Genea-Musings had about 152,000 page views last week and over 626,000 views over the past month (lots of bots I think). 

14)  Real life events:  Visited Linda several days this past week at her memory care facility.  Went to the grocery store on Monday and Friday.  Continued reading The Dover Trunk Murder by Nathan Dylan Goodwin. Watched the Padres games - they were 6-1 this past week and are 87-69. Watched the San Diego State Aztecs football gmw and they lost to James Madison 26-13 so now 1-2.  Watched the Chargers game and they lost 26-14 to the Raiders (so now 0-2).. 

NOTE:  I spent about 30 hours on these genealogy activities this week,  learned quite a bit, and had some genealogy fun!

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Henry Carringer’s Pennsylvania Farm in Summer 1850 – Cultivating the Crops

My 3rd great-grandfaher Henry Carringer (1800-1879) had married Sarah Feather (1804-1848) in about 1825 and they had ten children by 1850. Henry's biography is in ABC Biography of #48 Henry Carringer (1800-1879) of Pennsylvania and Iowa based on my genealogical research.

I wrote A Day In the Life of Farmer Henry Carringer in the Spring of 1850 about plowing the fields before planting the crops.  Following that, I wrote Henry Carringer’s Pennsylvania Farm in Spring and Summer 1850 – Planting and Haying.

I wondered what what Henry Carringer and his sons would do after planting and haying the fields in 1850.  My prompt to OpenAI ChatGPT5 was: "Please write a story about Henry and his boys cultivating the crops in the summer of 1850."     

(Google Gemini Notebook Infographic -Henry Carringer Cultivates the Crops in 1850)

Here is the ChatGPT5 story: 

Henry Carringer and His Boys

Cultivating the Crops in the Summer of 1850


This is the part of farming that can easily disappear from the historical record because there is no dramatic event attached to it. But for Henry Carringer, summer cultivation was the long, repetitive battle between the crop he wanted and everything that wanted to grow instead.

Sandy Creek Township, Mercer County, Pennsylvania

By the time summer arrived on the Carringer farm in 1850, the excitement of planting was long gone. The seeds had been put into the ground. The fields were green. The hay had begun to grow tall. To someone passing along the road, the farm might have looked as though the hardest work of the year was over. Henry Carringer knew better.

Now came cultivation. The crops had to be protected from weeds, protected from livestock, watched for insects and weather, and kept growing until they were ready for harvest. There would be no days off simply because the fields were green. In fact, the green fields meant that Henry and his boys had plenty of work ahead.

The Home

There were 11 people in the Carringer household, including Henry and his three older sons. Henry’s three older daughters, Eliza (age 23), Mary (age 16), and Sarah (age 13) were responsible for the housework – preparing food, cooking meals, cleaning the house, washing and mending clothes, working in the garden, preparing for winter, and child care of the four younger children, Henry (age 11), Louisa (age 8), Matilda (age 5), and Harvey (age 2). Each of them, except Harvey, had daily chores in the house, the kitchen, the woodpile, the garden and the barn to help the family to thrive.

Morning in the Barn

Henry was usually awake before the sun had fully risen. At forty-nine years old, he had spent most of his life following the rhythm of the farm rather than the clock. He knew that horses needed to be fed before they could work.

David, twenty-one, was already capable of handling much of the morning work. George, about seventeen, was learning to do the same. Cornelius, fifteen, was old enough that Henry expected him to work like a young man. The boys fed and watered the horses.

Henry checked the harness. There was no question about what they would be doing that morning. The corn needed cultivating.

The Enemy in the Cornfield

A newly planted field could look beautiful. A few weeks later it could look frightening. The weeds grew just as enthusiastically as the crops. In fact, weeds had several advantages. They did not have to be planted. They did not have to be cultivated. And they seemed to thrive regardless of whether Henry wanted them there.

If Henry allowed them to grow unchecked, they would compete with his crops for moisture and nutrients. So the boys hitched the horses to the cultivator. The implement was designed to work between the rows of growing plants. Henry led the team into the cornfield. The boys followed.

Between the Rows

The horse walked steadily down the row. Behind it came the cultivator. Its teeth or blades entered the soil between the plants, cutting and disturbing the weeds. The objective was simple: Kill the weeds without killing the corn.

That required skill. Too far toward the corn, and the cultivator could damage the crop. Too far away, and weeds would survive. Too deep, and the farmer disturbed more soil than necessary. Too shallow, and the weeds remained rooted. Henry watched carefully. "Keep her over a little."

George adjusted the team. The cultivator moved closer to the row. The weeds disappeared beneath the teeth. The corn remained standing. That was what Henry wanted.

Corn Was a Demanding Crop

Corn required repeated attention. After the first cultivation, the weeds would return. Henry knew they would. So they would cultivate again. And again. The exact number of cultivations depended upon the weather, soil and condition of the crop. A good farmer did not simply cultivate according to a fixed schedule. He cultivated when the field needed it.

After a rain, the weeds might grow rapidly. A period of dry weather could make cultivation especially valuable because disturbing the soil could help manage weeds and conserve moisture. Henry had no soil-moisture gauge. He had experience. He could look at a field and know.

David Takes the Team

David often handled the horses. At twenty-one, he was strong enough to work all day. He had learned much of the work from his father. Henry watched him from time to time. A son eventually became a partner in the farm. That transition happened gradually. One day a boy carried a bucket. Another year he held the reins. Eventually he could manage a team and a field without his father standing nearby. David was getting there.

George and Cornelius

George and Cornelius had their own jobs. They might walk behind the cultivator, checking the rows. They might use hoes to remove weeds that the horse-drawn implement could not reach. This was one of the unavoidable realities of nineteenth-century farming.

Machines could help, but they could not do everything. A cultivator could work between rows. It could not necessarily remove every weed growing close to each plant. That meant people had to do the work.

Henry might send the boys into the corn with hoes. They would walk slowly down the rows, bending repeatedly to chop weeds from around the plants. It was hot. The sun beat down. There was little shade. The work seemed endless. But gradually the cornfield became cleaner.

The Garden

The crop fields weren't the only things that needed attention. The family garden also demanded work. Vegetables had to be cultivated and weeded. Beans, potatoes, onions and other garden crops required attention.

Someone had to keep weeds from taking over. Someone had to harvest vegetables as they became ready. Someone had to carry water when necessary. The garden was particularly important because it provided food for the household.

Henry's farm was not simply producing a cash crop. It was feeding his family.

Watching the Weather

Every day Henry looked toward the sky. Summer weather could be both blessing and threat. Rain was necessary. Too little rain could stunt the crops. Too much rain could create muddy fields, encourage weeds and interfere with haymaking. A thunderstorm could bring damaging wind or hail.

A farmer had no weather service sending a forecast to the house. Henry depended upon observation. He watched the clouds. He felt the wind. He noticed changes in temperature. He listened to the old farmers around him. And he relied upon experience.

When Henry decided that a field needed attention, he did not need to consult a calendar. He walked out and looked at it.

The Hay Fields Need Attention Too

Even while the boys cultivated the crops, the grass continued growing. Haymaking was not a single event. After the first cutting, the meadows might produce another crop of grass. The horses had to be fed. The cattle had to be fed. Winter would eventually arrive. Every load of hay put into the barn represented one more portion of the coming winter's feed supply.

Henry therefore had to divide his attention. Corn needed cultivating. Grain needed watching. Meadows needed cutting. Fences needed repair. Livestock needed care. Tools needed maintenance.

The farm was a collection of jobs that constantly created more jobs.

A Hot Afternoon

One afternoon in July, the heat became oppressive. The horses were sweating. The boys were sweating. Henry's shirt was soaked. The corn stood taller now. The rows that had seemed so small in May were becoming a substantial crop. Henry stopped the team.

"Water." The boys led the horses to water. They themselves drank deeply. Nobody complained. They knew that the work would continue. After a short rest, they returned to the field.

The cultivator moved down another row. The horses walked. The boys followed. The sun moved across the sky.

The Importance of Fences

There was another job that could not be ignored. Fences. Henry kept livestock, and livestock had to be kept where they belonged. A broken fence could turn a productive crop into a disaster. Imagine discovering that cattle had broken through during the night and were standing in the cornfield. The Carringers would have to drive the animals out, repair the fence and inspect the damaged crop.

Fence maintenance was therefore part of crop production. The boys carried posts and tools. They repaired rails or replaced damaged sections. It was not glamorous work.

But a farmer knew that a good fence could be worth as much as a good plow.

The Growing Season

By August, the farm looked different. The corn was tall. The grain was approaching maturity. The hay had been cut and stored. The weeds had been beaten back. The fields that had looked bare and brown only a few months earlier were now green and full.

Henry could see the results of months of labor. But he wasn't celebrating yet. Farmers knew better. A crop was not safely in until it was harvested and stored.

A hailstorm could come. A drought could come. An early frost could come. Animals could get loose.

There were still weeks of uncertainty.

Henry's Quiet Satisfaction

One evening Henry stood at the edge of the cornfield. David was nearby. George and Cornelius were finishing another job. Henry looked over the farm. He thought about his father, Martin Carringer, who had worked this land before him. He thought about how much had changed since he was a boy.

And he thought about his own children. David was twenty-one. George was nearly grown. Cornelius was fifteen and learning the work that would sustain him as a man. Henry's wife, Sarah, had been gone for more than two years. The family had carried on. The farm had carried on. And now his sons were becoming capable young men.

Henry didn't need to say much. A farmer could express pride without words. The evidence was standing in the field.

Another Day Begins

The following morning, the routine began again. Feed the horses. Water the livestock. Harness the team. Check the fences. Inspect the fields. Cultivate the corn. Pull weeds. Repair equipment. Watch the weather. Work until the light began to fade.

There was nothing spectacular about it. No great historical event would record the day. No newspaper would mention that Henry Carringer spent ten hours cultivating corn with his sons. But this was how farms survived.

One furrow. One row. One load of hay. One repaired fence. One long summer day after another.

Henry and his boys were not simply waiting for the harvest. They were making the harvest possible.

And somewhere beyond the fields, autumn was coming. Soon the green grain would turn golden. The corn would harden. The weather would cool. The tools of harvest would come out. And then Henry Carringer and his sons would begin the hardest work of the agricultural year.

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The AI Google NotebookLM Video Overview of this story is in (and on  my YouTube channel):  

This is historical fiction based on known events and social history in the lives of my ancestors -- it might have been this way. Henry and Sarah (Feather) Carringer are my 3rd great-grandparents through their son David Jackson "D.J." Carringer (1828-1902), and I have significant information about this family from the available records, but I know nothing about their day-to-day lives.

As always, I am amazed at what life was like in any place over 170 years ago. This description of Henry's farm activities life in 1850 Pennsylvania is interesting and so different from our current daily activities.

After I read these types of social history summaries, I wish that I could be a time traveler for one day to visit this Carringer family in 1850 Pennsylvania and witness their daily lives.  I'm glad that the general lifestyles and occupations are known from historical records and witness accounts.

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Amanuensis Monday -- 1841 Deed of Elizabeth H. Smith to Lucy Butterfield For Land in Medfield, Norfolk County, Massachusetts

This week's document for transcription is the 1841 Deed of Elizabeth H. Smith of Medfield, Norfolk County, Massachusetts, selling her dower rights to 3/4 of an acre of land in Medfield to Lucy Butterfield of Dedham for $100.

*  Norfolk County, Massachusetts, Deeds 1842-1843, Page 109 (penned in upper right corner), Image 440 of 663

The transcription of this deed (with help from FamilySearch Full-Text Search, with a few errors corrected) is:

[Page 109, Starting at the top of the left-hand page of the image]

 Know all men by these Presents that I Elizabeth 
H. Smith of Medfield in the County of Norfolk and Com-
monwealth of Massachusetts. Widow, in consideration of one 
hundred Dollars to be paid by Lucy Butterfield of Ded-
ham in said County of Norfolk the receipt whereof I do 
hereby acknowledge have remised released, and forever quit-
claimed and do for myself and my heirs by these presents 
remise release and forever quit claim unto the said Lucy
Butterfield her heirs and assigns all my right title and in-
terest to Dower in my late husbands estate as set off by 
Order of the Court of Probate. consisting of a house 
and barn with about three quarters of an acre of land and 
bounded northerly and Easterly on land of the heirs of 
Elisha Clark Southwardly on the land sold to said Lucy 
and westwardly on the road leading from Medfield to 
Walpole.    To Have and to Hold the afore mentioned 
premises, with all the privileges and appurtenances thereunto 
belonging to her the said Lucy Butterfield her heirs and 
assigns forever: so that neither I the said Elizabeth H. Smith 
nor my heirs or any other person or persons claiming from 
or under me or them or in the name right or stead of 
me or them shall or will by any way or means have claim 
or demand any right or title to the aforesaid premises, or
their appurtenances, or to any part or parcel thereof forever.
 In witness whereof, I the said Elizabeth H. Smith have here-
unto set my hand and seal this Eighteenth day of August
in the year of our Lord one thousand eight hundred and 
forty one.       Elizabeth H. X [her mark] Smith  {seal}  Signed Sealed 
and delivered in presence of us Hinsdale Fisher, Norfolk ss.
Sept 23. 1842. Then the above named Elizabeth H. Smith 
and acknowledged the above instrument to be her free act 
and deed before me. Jon'a P. Bishop Just. of Peace 
Jan'y 2- 1843. Rec'd Entered & Examined 
                                                       By Enos Foord Reg 

The source citation for this deed is:

"Norfolk County, Massachusetts, United States land records," Deed of Elizabeth H. Smith to Lucy Butterfield,  executed 18 August 1841, recorded 2 January 1843; imaged, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9ZH-VVF7?view=fullText : accessed 9 September 2026), Image Group Number: 007459119, "Norfolk Deeds, 1842–1843, 1842, Land Records 1842, 1842–1843," page 109 (penned), image 440 of 663; original papers at Norfolk County (Massachusetts) Register of Deeds.

By this record it appears that widow Elizabeth H. Smith, sold her dower rights to land in Medfield, Norfolk County, Massachusetts, to Lucy Butterfield of Dedham for $100.

Alpheus B. Smith (1802-1840) married Elizabeth Horton Dill (1791-1869) in 1826, and they had two children.  They are my 3rd great-grandparents through their daughter Lucretia Townsend Smith (1828-1884) who married Isaac Seaver (1823-1901) in 1851. 

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Read other transcriptions of records of my relatives and ancestors at Amanuensis Monday Posts.

NOTE: Genea-blogger John Newmark (who writes the excellent TransylvanianDutch blog) started a Monday blog theme years ago called "Amanuensis Monday." John offers this definition for "amanuensis:"

"A person employed to write what another dictates or to copy what has been written by another."

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Sunday, September 20, 2026

Best of the Genea-Blogs -- Week of 13 to 19 September 2026

Scores of genealogy and family history bloggers write hundreds of posts every week about their research, their families, and their interests. I appreciate each one of them and their efforts.


My criteria for "Best of ..." are pretty simple - I pick posts that advance knowledge about genealogy and family history, address current genealogy issues, provide personal family history, are funny or are poignant. I don't list posts destined for most daily blog prompts or meme submissions (but I do include summaries of them), or my own posts.

Here are my picks for great reads from the genealogy blogs for this past week:










Here are pick posts by other geneabloggers this week:

* Friday’s Family History Finds [18 September 2026] by Linda Stufflebean on Empty Branches on the Family Tree.

* This week’s crème de la crème -- September 19, 2026 by Gail Dever on Genealogy a la Carte.

* GenStack [19 September 2026] by Robin Stewart on Genealogy Matters.


Readers are encouraged to go to the blogs listed above and read their articles, and add the blogs to your Favorites, Feedly, another RSS feed, or email if you like what you read. Please make a comment to them also - all bloggers appreciate feedback on what they write.

Did I miss a great genealogy blog post? Tell me! I currently am reading posts from over 900 genealogy bloggers using Feedly, but I still miss quite a few it seems.

Read past Best of the Genea-Blogs posts here.

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Guest Post: The Name Was Wrong, but the Address Was Right: Solving a Scottish Genealogy Mystery, By Terry Donlan

I received this article from Terry Donlan, who writes the Irish Scottish Roots blog, and agreed to post it on Genea-Musings. 

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The Name Was Wrong, but the Address Was Right: Solving a Scottish Genealogy Mystery

By Terry Donlan

Family stories do not need to be completely accurate to be valuable. Sometimes the mistake itself becomes the clue that leads you to the truth.

For years, my family believed that my uncle, John Donlan Jr., had died in Fife, Scotland, in 1905. John was the first child of my grandparents, John Donlan Sr. and Isabel Fraser. He was born before my father, Hugh Donlan, but his short life had gradually disappeared from the family story.

I knew that John had existed, but I did not know where he was buried. Other family members knew even less about him. The information that survived suggested that he had died in 1905, the same year my father was born.

During a 2026 research trip to Scotland, my wife Deborah and I began discussing the Donlan family while staying in Cowdenbeath. That conversation exposed how little we actually knew about John. It also gave us a clear research question:

What happened to John Donlan Jr., and where was he buried?

The Birth Record Established His Identity

The first step was obtaining John’s Scottish birth record.

The record showed that his full registered name was John Smith Donlan. He was born on May 21, 1903, at 66 Glencraig Cottages in Auchterderran, Fife. His parents were identified as John Donlan, a coal miner, and Isabel Fraser. His father reported the birth.

This record established several important facts at once:
  • John’s complete name
  • His exact birth date
  • His parents’ name
  • His father’s occupation
  • The family’s address
  • The identity of the person who registered the birth
The middle name “Smith” was unexpected. We had not previously known that John had a middle name. Later research found two other members of Isabel Fraser’s family who also carried Smith as a middle name. I have not yet established why the name appeared repeatedly, so that remains a separate research question.

The birth certificate nevertheless gave us a firm starting point. We now had more than a name and an estimated year. We had a documented child living with the correct parents at a specific address in a Fife mining community.

The Death Record Corrected the Family Story

The death record produced the biggest surprise.

John had not died in 1905. He died on December 26, 1909, at 62 Glencraig Cottages in Lochgelly. He was six years old.

His father, John Donlan Sr., registered the death. The recorded causes were microcephalus and cardiac failure.

Correcting the death year changed our understanding of John’s life. If he had died in 1905, he would have been about two years old. Instead, he lived until age six. He was part of the household while several younger siblings were born, including my father. Some family members may have remembered him personally, while others probably learned about him through stories that became less precise with each generation.

The inherited story was wrong about the year, but it had preserved the essential truth that another child existed and died young in Scotland.

That is why family stories should be investigated rather than automatically accepted or dismissed.

Why “John Donlin” Was Still John Donlan

The death certificate presented another complication. The child’s surname appeared as “Donlin,” not “Donlan.”

A researcher relying only on an exact-name search might reject the record or fail to find it at all. However, identity should not be decided by one spelling variation.

The death record contained a combination of matching evidence:
  • The child’s given name was John.
  • His age agreed with the May 1903 birth.
  • His father was John Donlan.
  • His mother was Isabel Fraser.
  • His father was a coal miner.
  • The family remained at Glencraig Cottages.
  • His father served as the informant.
Taken together, these details demonstrate that John Donlin and John Smith Donlan were the same child.

Surname spellings frequently changed in historical records. Clerks and registrars sometimes wrote what they heard. Accents, handwriting, literacy, transcription errors, and inconsistent family usage could all produce variations.

The spelling difference mattered, but it did not outweigh the complete body of evidence. The parents, age, occupation, address, and informant created a much stronger identification than the surname spelling alone.

From the Death Record to Lochgelly Cemetery

The death certificate established when and where John died, but it did not tell us where he was buried.

We contacted Fife Bereavement Services and supplied the identifying information from the birth and death records. The service located John’s burial entry and identified his resting place as Lochgelly Cemetery, Lair 20.

In Scottish cemetery records, a lair is a burial plot or grave space. A lair can contain one person, members of a family, or unrelated people buried at different times.

Fife Bereavement Services also provided information about two other people buried in Lair 20. Joan Richardson, age 52, was buried there in 1925, and Mary Richardson, age 33, followed in 1930. I found no documented relationship between the Richardson and Donlan families.

The unrelated burials suggest that Lair 20 was not maintained exclusively as a Donlan family plot. It may have been a shared burial space or may have been reused later. However, the available records do not formally describe it as a common lair, so I cannot state that as a proven fact.

Fife Bereavement Services provided a cemetery map that allowed Deborah and me to locate Lair 20. The grave was unmarked. Without the burial register, lair number, and map, we would have had no reliable way to identify the location.

The complete illustrated account of the records, cemetery search, and eventual memorial can be found in Solving a Family Genealogy Mystery in a Fife Cemetery.

Five Lessons for Your Own Genealogy Research

John’s story produced five lessons that can be applied to many family-history mysteries.

1. Treat family stories as clues, not conclusions

Write down the story as it was told, including uncertain dates and conflicting details. Oral history may preserve the correct person or event while getting the date, place, or circumstances wrong.

2. Examine original records

Do not rely exclusively on online family trees, indexes, or transcriptions. Original birth, marriage, and death records can reveal addresses, occupations, parents, witnesses, informants, and spelling variations that an index omits.

3. Establish identity from multiple facts

A spelling difference does not automatically indicate a different person. Compare ages, relatives, occupations, addresses, dates, and informants. Identity is strongest when several independent details agree.

4. Contact the authority responsible for the records

Cemetery offices, local councils, churches, archives, and bereavement services may hold burial registers and maps that are unavailable online. Ask specifically for the burial date, cemetery, section, lair or plot number, other occupants, and a location map.

5. Separate documentation from interpretation

Record what the evidence proves, what it suggests, and what remains unknown. This prevents a reasonable possibility, such as a shared or common grave, from becoming an unsupported family “fact.”

Researchers beginning similar work can find additional record sources and planning advice in the Beginner’s Guide to Irish and Scottish Genealogy.

John Smith Donlan was no longer just a child attached to an incorrect date. The records restored his full name, his six years of life, his place within the family, and the location where he was buried.

That is one of genealogy’s quietest but most meaningful accomplishments. A family story leads to a record. A record leads to a grave. And a person almost lost to memory becomes part of the family again.

About the Author

Terry Donlan is the founder of Irish Scottish Roots and has researched his Irish and Scottish family history since 1985. He has made six research trips to Ireland and Scotland. He writes about genealogy, heritage travel, historical records, and the people and places that shaped Irish and Scottish family stories.

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I was contacted by Terry Donlan, who is the writer of  the Irish Scottish Roots blog, recently and I  agreed to publish a guest post. If Irish and Scottish genealogy and family history is of interest to you, you should subscribe to (or visit it often) Terry's blog.  

 I welcome Guest Posts on Genealogy and Family History topics.  

Disclosure: I have received no remuneration to publish this blog post or to use and describe this product. 

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Betty and Fred’s Story: Building a Life Together – The Next Two Weeks Apart, Early September 1944

 Here is the latest chapter in the story of the married life and times of my parents, Fred and Betty (Carringer) Seaver, who married in July 1942. The background information and the list of chapters of their life together are listed at the end of this post.  This is historical fiction with real people and real events, and is how it might have been.

And now we are up to early September 1944, almost three years into World War II.  Betty and Randy are living with Betty's parents, and Fred is in boot camp training in the U.S. Navy.  The second and third weeks in boot camp were eventful. 


    (AI Google Gemini Notebook Infographic - Betty and Fred's Story, The Next Two Weeks Apart)

Based on the biographies and the earlier stories, I asked Anthropic Claude Sonnet 5 to tell another story - what happened next (I offered some suggestions!)?  


Finding Their Feet

Naval Training Center San Diego, 2–8 September 1944

By the second week, Fred's company had traded the barracks routine for the outdoors, and the outdoors, it turned out, had its own particular way of humbling a man.

Most mornings now began on the grinder — the great flat parade ground where companies marched in formation under a sun that hadn't yet decided it was fall — and Fred spent hour after hour learning to move as one small part of a much larger machine. Left face, right face, column left, forward march, halt — simple enough as individual commands, and murderous in the way they had to be executed instantly, in step, without a man's private opinion about any of it. He'd never given much thought before to how much coordination it took for a hundred men to turn a corner together without half of them colliding into the other half, and by the end of most days his legs ached in places he hadn't known could ache, and his ears rang faintly with the sound of the Company Commander's voice.

The manual of arms came alongside it — learning to handle a rifle in formation, present arms, order arms, the whole choreography of it — and Fred, who had spent several years handling drafting tools and blueprints rather than weapons, found there was a particular satisfaction in getting the motion clean and sharp, in hearing his own rifle slap into position at the same instant as the men on either side of him.

Down at the harbor, the training turned to something closer to what Fred had actually pictured when he thought about the Navy before he'd joined it. Marlinspike seamanship, the instructors called it, and it meant knots — dozens of them, it seemed, each with its own name and its own particular use, tied and retied until his fingers stopped fumbling and started remembering on their own. Bowlines, clove hitches, splices worked into the ends of heavy line until the strands lay flat and even. He learned to handle line the way a sailor handles it, coiling it down properly, heaving a line across open water to a mock dock, the kind of small competence that meant nothing to a civilian and everything to a man about to serve aboard a ship.

And then there was the pool.

Fred had swum as a boy in the lake well enough, but nothing about growing up had prepared him for what the Navy meant by swim qualification. He climbed the elevated platform with the rest of his company and jumped, as ordered, into water that felt considerably colder and considerably deeper than any pool had a right to feel, and came up sputtering to tread water for what felt like a good deal longer than was strictly necessary. Floating on his back, treading water, swimming the length of the pool — all of it standard enough — but then came the last part, the part that separated the men who'd truly reckon with the ocean from the men who only thought they had: swimming the length of the pool in full uniform, dungarees and all, the wet cloth dragging at his arms and legs with every stroke. He made it through, more tired than he'd been in years by the time he hauled himself out, and counted himself lucky, watching a handful of men from other companies pulled aside for the intensive remediation reserved for those who hadn't managed it — extra hours in the water each day until the Navy was satisfied they could be trusted not to drown.

He wrote to Betty that week that he'd never appreciated dry land quite so much in his life, and meant it more than the joke let on.

Naval Training Center San Diego, 9–15 September 1944

The third week turned harder in a different way.

The rifle range came first, out where the ranges ran long and flat and the instructors were unforgiving about anything less than careful discipline with a loaded weapon. Fred learned the M1 Garand from the ground out — how to hold it, how to sight it, the particular kick of it against his shoulder — and spent long mornings on his belly in the dirt working through round after round, correcting for windage and range the way the instructors barked at him to, until something in his hands began to understand the rifle the way his hands had once understood a slide rule. The .45 pistol came after, a shorter and louder education, and by the end of the week Fred had qualified on both well enough to satisfy the range officers, though he privately thought he'd take a drafting table over a firing line any day the Navy cared to ask his opinion, which it hadn't.

Worse, in its way, was the gas chamber. The company filed in wearing their masks, and the instructors filled the small room with tear gas and had the recruits go through the motions anyway — breathing, moving, and then, at the last, pulling the mask off entirely before they were allowed out, so that every man in the company would know exactly what it felt like and exactly how fast he needed to get the mask back on if it ever mattered for real. Fred came out of that room with his eyes streaming and his throat raw and a new and very immediate respect for the men whose job it was to think about gas warfare as something more than a training exercise.

The week closed with firefighting, and of everything Fred had done since Saturday the 26th, this was the training that seemed to settle hardest into the other men's faces, because everyone understood, without being told twice, exactly why it mattered. Fire was the great danger aboard a ship at sea — nowhere to run to, nothing but the ship itself standing between a man and the ocean — and so the instructors, veterans themselves of shipboard fires in the fleet, drilled the company relentlessly on the mock rigs: hauling heavy hoses under real pressure, learning to work a nozzle as a team rather than alone, handling the foam equipment, finding and setting the damage control plugs that could mean the difference between a fire contained and a ship lost. Fred came away from that week soaked and smoke-stained and more tired than he'd been even after the pool, but with a clear-eyed understanding, for the first time, of exactly what kind of danger he was training to face.

By the fifteenth of September, three weeks in, Fred had stopped thinking of himself, even privately, as a civilian playing at being a sailor. Something in the drilling and the discipline had begun, almost without his noticing the exact moment, to take.

Fern Street, 2–15 September 1944

Betty, for her part, spent those same two weeks discovering that a small house could feel very large indeed when the days had no particular shape to them.

Randy was the one bright, constant distraction. He was nearly walking now — up on his feet several times an hour, taking two or three wobbling steps toward whoever was nearest with his arms out for balance, and then sitting down hard, entirely unbothered, to try again. The whole house had taken to encouraging him the same way, hands held out, voices calling him on, and Lyle in particular had developed a habit of taking Randy's hand after supper and walking him slowly around the living room, matching his own long stride down to something a not-quite-one-year-old could manage, patient as anything, back and forth past the sofa until Randy's legs gave out for the evening.

Betty found herself, more days than she'd admit out loud, simply bored. It wasn't unhappiness, exactly — the house was full of people who loved her and loved Randy, and there was always something that needed doing — but the particular restlessness of a young wife whose husband was three weeks gone and whose days had no center to them the way they used to. She took to her sketchbook again most mornings, out in the garden with Randy pulling up grass nearby, filling page after page with him — reaching for a flower, standing braced against the birdbath, asleep in the shade with his fist curled under his chin.

The rest of her restlessness she walked off. She'd load Randy into the buggy most afternoons and take herself around the neighborhood, sometimes with no destination beyond the walk itself, sometimes up Fern Street to the Piggly Wiggly on Juniper Street with Emily, the two of them working through the ration books together and comparing notes on what was to be had that week and what wasn't. The drugstore next door got a good share of her business too, and it was on these walks, buggy handle in one hand and the other free to wave, that she'd begun to know a few of the neighborhood mothers by name — a nod here, then a few minutes' conversation there, comparing babies and husbands away at war, the ordinary currency of women managing a home front together.

She helped Georgia in the kitchen most evenings, more out of restlessness than necessity, and came away from those hours with a good deal more than recipes — Georgia had opinions on nearly everything, offered gently and without being asked twice, and Betty found herself, to her own quiet amusement, taking rather a lot of it to heart. And some days she made the short walk over to 30th Street with Randy to look in on her grandfather Austin, who lit up every time the two of them came through the door and made a great show, however creakily, of getting down on the floor to see what his great-grandson had learned to do since the last visit.

Sundays belonged to Lyle. He'd load everyone into the car and drive them around the city — down along the bay sometimes, out past the places Fred had once pointed out to her from behind the wheel, but more often than not they ended up at Balboa Park, wandering the museums at whatever unhurried pace suited a family with a baby in tow, and lingering longest in the horticultural displays, where Emily could be counted on to know the name of nearly everything growing and to share it whether or not anyone had asked.

It was, on the whole, a full and gentle kind of life, and Betty was grateful for every bit of it. But there wasn't a Sunday that went by, walking those garden paths with Randy on her hip, that she didn't find herself thinking of Fred, and wondering, and waiting for the next letter.

Letters

Fred's letter went out on the evening of the fifteenth, written in the last stretch of free time before lights-out, three weeks of training behind him and a hand that had gotten considerably steadier with a pencil than it had been with a rifle at first.

Dear Betty,

Three weeks now — I keep doing the arithmetic and it still surprises me every time. They've had us marching until my legs don't feel like my own anymore, and this week they threw me in the pool in full uniform, which I do not recommend to anyone. I qualified, though, so I suppose I'm a swimmer now, whatever that's worth.

This past week was the hard one — the rifle range, and a turn through the gas chamber that I won't describe in much detail except to say I have a new appreciation for a mask that fits properly. We finished up with firefighting, and I'll tell you, Betty, that was the training that made the whole thing feel real in a way none of the marching ever quite managed. A man doesn't forget in a hurry what it's like to hold a hose against real pressure, knowing why he's learning it.

I think about you two constantly, more than the schedule here really allows for. Tell Randy his father expects a full report on the walking situation when I'm home — is he keeping everyone on their toes yet? And thank your mother for whatever she's been telling you in that kitchen of hers; I have a feeling I'll be the beneficiary of it eventually, one way or another.

I don't know yet what comes next for me here, but whatever it is, I'll write and tell you the moment I know something worth telling. Kiss Randy for me, and save a little of that for yourself too.

All my love, Fred

Betty wrote hers the night after Fred’s letter arrived, the house quiet around her, Randy long asleep with one hand still curled around the crib rail from his evening's practicing.

Dear Fred,

Three weeks! I try to picture you marching around some enormous parade ground and swimming in your uniform and I can hardly manage it — you, who used to complain about getting his good shoes wet. I'm glad you qualified, though I'll admit the gas chamber part of your last letter made me put the page down for a minute before I could keep reading. Please be careful, even when careful isn't really up to you.

Randy is nearly walking on his own — he gets up and takes two or three steps most days now before he sits back down, very pleased with himself regardless of how it went. Your father-in-law has taken to walking him around the living room by the hand every evening, up and down past the sofa, and I don't think either of them would admit how much they both look forward to it. I suspect Randy is going to walk straight into your arms the first time he sees you, whenever that ends up being.

I've been keeping myself busy, though I won't pretend I'm not a little bored some days without you here. I take Randy on long walks with the buggy — up to the Piggly Wiggly with Mother most days, and over to see my grandfather Austin, who lights up like Christmas every time we come through his door. I've met a few of the neighborhood mothers on my walks too, which has been nice — everyone comparing notes and ration books and husbands away somewhere. Sundays your father-in-law drives us all around the city, and we usually end up at Balboa Park, which I think might be Randy's favorite place in San Diego already, though I suspect that's really about all the room he has to crawl around in.

I've kept drawing him in the garden whenever I get the chance — I have quite a stack of him now, doing everything from eating grass to falling asleep mid-crawl. I'll show you all of it when you're home. Write again soon and tell me everything, even the parts you think I don't want to hear. I'd rather know.

All my love, Betty

Both letters crossed paths in the mail the same way the first ones had — his reaching Fern Street on a quiet Monday afternoon while Betty was out with the buggy, hers finding Fred during a rare stretch of downtime between drills on Wednesdays — and each of them read the other's words twice before folding the page carefully away, three weeks further into a separation that showed no signs yet of having an end in sight, but that both of them, in their different ways, were learning how to bear.

To be continued...

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Here is the Google Notebook Video Overview about this time in Betty, Fred and Randy's life in early September 1944 (also on my YouTube channel):  

This story is historical fiction based on real people -- my parents and me -- and a real event in a real place. I don't know the full story of these events -- but this is how it might have been. I hope that it was at least this good! Claude is such a good storywriter! I added some details and corrected some errors in Claude's initial version.

Stay tuned for the next chapter in this family story.

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The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my mother, Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #3 Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver (1919-2002) of San Diego, California. I also  wrote Betty's Story: The First-Year Art Teacher about the start of her teaching career.

The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my father, Frederick Walton Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #2 Frederick Walton Seaver Jr. (1911-1983) of Massachusetts and San Diego, California.  I also wrote Fred's Story: The Three-Day Cross-Country Escape  and Fred's Story: "I Need A Girl" about him coming to San Diego, and wanting a girlfriend.

Here are the previous chapters in this story:

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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