Sunday, March 8, 2026

Best of the Genea-Blogs - Week of 1 to 7 March 2026

Scores of genealogy and family history bloggers write hundreds of posts every week about their research, their families, and their interests. I appreciate each one of them and their efforts.


My criteria for "Best of ..." are pretty simple - I pick posts that advance knowledge about genealogy and family history, address current genealogy issues, provide personal family history, are funny or are poignant. I don't list posts destined for most daily blog prompts or meme submissions (but I do include summaries of them), or my own posts.

Here are my picks for great reads from the genealogy blogs for this past week: 

*  Ancestry Finally Adds “Add Range” to Year Fields — And It’s About Time by Diane Henriks on Know Who Wears the Genes In the Family.

*  “I Do Not Like My DNA Results, Sam-I-Am”: What If Dr. Seuss Wrote Genealogy Books? by Thomas MacEntee on Genealogy Bargains.

*  When to Use Which AI Tool for Genealogy by Heidi Buck on The Technical Genealogist.

*  23andMe New Clustering Feature and Returning Chromosome Browser by Nicole Elder Dyer on Family Locket.

*  Use a Spreadsheet to Analyze Your Family Tree by DiAnn Iamarino Ohama on Fortify Your Family Tree.

*  Free Genealogy Websites: U.S. National Archives by Linda Stufflebean on Empty Branches On the Family Tree.

*  Preserving Family History: Beyond Names and Dates on Legacy Tree Genealogists.

*  From Foxhole to Hospital: My Father's Experience with Trench Foot in World War II by Brenda Leyndyke on Journey To the Past.

*  Agentic Browsers and Native Integrations: Inside the New Edition of Research Like a Pro with AI by Nicole Dyer Elder on Family Locket.

*  Not At RootsTech But Downloading Handouts by Marian B. Wood on Climbing My Family Tree.

*  Introducing Scribe AI: Transcribe, Interpret, and Receive Fascinating Insights About Your Family’s Historical Documents and Photos, and MyHeritage Records by Daniella on MyHeritage Blog.

*  MyHeritage Reinvents Russian Handwriting Translation by Louis Kessler on Behold Genealogy.

*  MyHeritage launches Scribe AI — and it’s impressive by Gail Dever on Genealogy a la Carte.

*  Introducing Country Coding for Family Trees by Erica on MyHeritage Blog.

*  Failure of the Genealogical Proof Standard by John Reid on Anglo-Celtic Connections.

*  RootsTech 2026 Day 1: Fifteen Sessions, Zero Regrets, One Tired Genealogist and RootsTech 2026 Day 2: Five Advanced Sessions and One Very Tired Brain by Kirsten M. Max-Douglas on Our Growing Family Tree.

*  Testing MyHeritage's Scribe Ai by Marie Cooke Beckman on MarieB's GenealogyBlog  - Southeastern USA.

Here are pick posts by other geneabloggers this week:

*  Friday’s Family History Finds [6 March 2026] by Linda Stufflebean on Empty Branches on the Family Tree.

*  This week’s crème de la crème -- March 7, 2026 by Gail Dever on Genealogy a la Carte.

*  GenStack [7 March 2026] by Robin Stewart on Genealogy Matters.

Readers are encouraged to go to the blogs listed above and read their articles, and add the blogs to your Favorites, Feedly, another RSS feed, or email if you like what you read. Please make a comment to them also - all bloggers appreciate feedback on what they write.

Did I miss a great genealogy blog post? Tell me! I currently am reading posts from over 900 genealogy bloggers using Feedly, but I still miss quite a few it seems.


Read past Best of the Genea-Blogs posts here.


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Betty and Fred's Story: February to April 1943

 The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my mother, Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #3 Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver (1919-2002) of San Diego, California. I also  wrote Betty's Story: The First-Year Art Teacher about the start of her teaching career.

The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my father, Frederick Walton Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #2 Frederick Walton Seaver Jr. (1911-1983) of Massachusetts and San Diego, California.  I also wrote Fred's Story: The Three-Day Cross-Country Escape  and Fred's Story: "I Need A Girl" about him coming to San Diego, and then wanting for a girlfriend.

Then I wrote:


And now: 

                (AI NotebookLM Infographic - Betty and Fred's Story - February to April 1943)

1)  Based on the biographies and the earlier stories, I asked Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to tell another story - what happened next (I offered some suggestions!)?  Here is the next story (edited for more detail and accuracy):


Building a Life Together: February - April 1943

February 14, 1943 - Valentine's Day

The Lyons had moved to a small house in Chula Vista in January, just a few blocks from Fred and Betty's place. Sally was thrilled to have friends nearby and immediately offered to host a Valentine's Day dinner for their group.

"Nothing fancy," Sally said when she invited them. "Just the six of us—you two, the Steddoms, and the Tazelaars. Phyllis needs a break from being cooped up with the baby, and I want to show off our new house."

Betty spent Saturday afternoon baking a chocolate cake to bring, using precious sugar ration coupons she'd been saving. Fred came home from his half-day at Rohr to find the kitchen smelling of chocolate and Betty covered in flour.

"You're taking this very seriously," he observed, kissing her cheek.

"It's our first Valentine's Day as a married couple. And Sally's hosting, so I want to bring something nice."

"Did I tell you I love you today?"

"Not yet."

"I love you, Mrs. Seaver. Even covered in flour, you're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen."

That evening, they walked to the Lyons' house—close enough that driving seemed wasteful with gas rationing. The February night was cool but pleasant, and Betty wore the blue cardigan Fred had given her for Christmas.

The Lyons' house was slightly larger than theirs, with a proper dining room and a small backyard. Sally had decorated with red and pink crepe paper streamers, and candles flickered on the dining table.

Rod and Eleanor arrived just after them, and the Tazelaars came last, Phyllis looking exhausted but happy to be out of the house. Baby Richard was staying with Dick's mother for the evening—Phyllis's first night away from the baby since his birth.

"I almost didn't come," Phyllis admitted. "I kept thinking about leaving him. What if he needs me? What if something happens?"

"He'll be fine," Eleanor assured her. "And you need this. Trust me—mothers need breaks too."

Over dinner—Sally's pot roast with mashed potatoes and green beans—the conversation flowed easily. They talked about work, about the war news (Allied forces were making progress in North Africa), about the challenges of wartime life.

After dinner, while the men cleaned up (a routine they'd all adopted—the women cooked, the men cleaned), Eleanor pulled Betty and Sally aside in the living room.

"I have news," Eleanor said, her eyes sparkling. "Rod and I are expecting. The baby should come in August."

"Eleanor! Oh, how wonderful!" Betty hugged her friend tightly.

"How far along are you?" Sally asked.

"About three months. I wanted to wait until I was sure before telling anyone. But now I'm starting to show, and I couldn't keep it secret any longer."

The men returned from the kitchen to find the women chattering excitedly. Rod looked proud and slightly terrified.

"Congratulations," Fred said, shaking Rod's hand. "How are you feeling about becoming a father?"

"Excited. Scared. Grateful I'm still here and not overseas." Rod's voice caught slightly on the last words.

It hung in the air—the unspoken reality that any of the men could be drafted at any time, that fatherhood might not protect them from military service.

But tonight was for celebration, not worry. They ate Betty's chocolate cake, exchanged small Valentine's gifts (Fred had gotten Betty a beautiful scarf, Betty had gotten Fred a new tie), and enjoyed being together.

"To love in wartime," George said, raising his glass. "To the families we're building despite the uncertainty. To all of us making it through together."

"To making it through," they echoed.

Walking home later, Fred took Betty's hand. "Someday that'll be us. Announcing a pregnancy, preparing for a baby."

"Someday," Betty agreed. "But not yet. Let's wait a little longer."

"Agreed. Though I have to admit, seeing Phyllis with baby Richard, and now Eleanor expecting—it makes me think about what our children will be like."

"Patient, like you. Organized, like me. Hopefully with better eyesight than both of us."

Fred laughed and pulled her close. "Perfect, in other words."


Late February 1943 - Changes at Rohr

Fred's new supervisory position was proving both rewarding and challenging. Rohr had won additional contracts for B-24 bomber components, which meant significantly increased production targets. Fred's material control team had grown from five people to twelve.

"We're hiring anyone who can pass a basic competency test," Fred told Betty over dinner one evening. "Women, older men who've come out of retirement, kids barely out of high school. And they all need training."

"What are they like? The new workers?"

"Varied. Some of the women are fantastic—detail-oriented, careful, quick learners. One woman, Mrs. Patterson, is fifty-five and used to be a librarian. She's incredibly organized. Then there's a kid named Jimmy who's eighteen and thinks he knows everything. I spent an hour today explaining why we can't just 'eyeball' measurements on aircraft parts."

"Sounds frustrating."

"It is. But it's also necessary. We need bodies to meet production goals. So I train them, correct their mistakes, and hope they improve before they cause any serious problems."

Betty understood the challenge. She'd dealt with similar issues as a teacher—students at different skill levels, different attitudes, different capacities for learning. Managing people was never easy.

Her own work continued to expand. Frank McCreery now sent her to meetings as his representative when he couldn't attend. She'd take notes, make decisions on routine matters, and report back to him.

"I'm essentially a junior engineer without the title or the pay," she told Eleanor during lunch one day.

"Have you asked for a raise?"

"I just got one in January. I don't want to seem greedy."

"It's not greedy to be paid what you're worth. Men ask for raises all the time."

Betty filed this advice away, planning to approach McCreery after she'd been in the role for a full year.


Early March 1943 - Exploring Coronado

Sunday, March 7th, was one of those perfect San Diego days—sunny, warm, with a gentle breeze off the ocean. Fred suggested an adventure.

"Let's drive to Coronado. We haven't been since before we were married, and I want to show you the whole island, not just the Hotel Del."

They packed a picnic lunch and drove south through Chula Vista, then west through Imperial Beach. The road to Coronado ran along the Silver Strand—a narrow strip of land between San Diego Bay and the Pacific Ocean.

"Look at the view," Betty breathed, seeing water on both sides of the road. "It's like we're driving across the ocean."

They explored Coronado Village, walking the quiet streets lined with Victorian houses and small shops. Everything was more relaxed here, more resort-like than the mainland.

For lunch, they found a coffee shop near the ferry landing and ordered sandwiches and coffee. Through the window, they could see San Diego across the bay, the downtown buildings visible in the distance.

"I love this," Betty said. "Just being together, exploring, not thinking about work or the war for a few hours."

"We should do this more often. Make time for adventures, even small ones."

After lunch, they walked through the grounds of the Hotel del Coronado, remembering their dinner there last year when they were still dating. The hotel looked slightly shabby now—wartime had reduced tourism, and maintenance was deferred for the duration.

"Think we'll come back here someday?" Betty asked. "After the war, when things are normal again?"

"Definitely. We'll celebrate our tenth anniversary here. Twentieth. Fiftieth."

"You're very confident we'll make it to fifty years."

"I'm very confident about us."

That evening, they saw a movie at the Village Theater—a comedy, Air Raid Wardens starring Laurel and Hardy, that made them both laugh until they cried. Driving home down the Silver Strand in the dark, Betty felt peaceful and content.

"Thank you for today," she said. "I needed this."

"Me too. Work has been so intense lately. It's good to remember there's more to life than production quotas and material shortages."


Mid-March 1943 - Not Feeling Well

Betty woke on Monday morning feeling nauseous. She made it to the bathroom just in time, her stomach rebelling against nothing—she hadn't eaten yet.

"Are you all right?" Fred asked from the bedroom doorway, concerned.

"I think so. Must have been something I ate last night."

But the nausea returned the next morning. And the next. By Thursday, Betty was exhausted and queasy all the time. She took a sick day, something she almost never did.

"You should see a doctor," Fred said.

"It's just a stomach bug. It'll pass."

But it didn't pass. The following week, she took another sick day. Then another. The nausea was worst in the mornings, but it lingered throughout the day. The smell of coffee—which she'd always loved—made her want to vomit. Meat smells were unbearable.

"I can't keep anything down," she told Fred one evening, nibbling on dry toast. "Everything makes me sick."

"Betty, you need to see a doctor. This isn't normal."

"I will. Soon. I just need to get through this week at work. We're behind on the production reports."

She was also exhausted—bone-deep tired in a way she'd never experienced. She'd come home from work, intending to make dinner, and fall asleep on the couch before even changing out of her work clothes.

Fred had taken over cooking and most of the housework, worried about his wife's mysterious illness.


March 17, 1943 - St. Patrick's Day at the Steddoms

Eleanor and Rod hosted a small St. Patrick's Day gathering despite Eleanor's pregnancy fatigue. She'd made corned beef and cabbage, and everyone wore something green.

Betty arrived feeling queasy and exhausted. The smell of the corned beef made her stomach turn, and she excused herself to the bathroom twice during dinner.

"Are you all right?" Eleanor asked quietly when Betty returned the second time.

"I don't know. I've been feeling sick for weeks. Nauseous, tired, can't keep food down."

Eleanor and Sally exchanged a knowing look.

"Betty," Sally said gently, "when was your last monthly?"

Betty froze, thinking back. She'd been so busy with work, so distracted by Fred's long hours and her own responsibilities, that she hadn't paid attention. When was the last time...?

"I... I don't remember. January, maybe? Late December?"

"Oh, honey," Eleanor said, taking Betty's hand. "I think you might be pregnant."

Betty felt the room spin. Pregnant? She couldn't be pregnant. They'd been careful. Well, mostly careful. There had been a few times when they'd gotten carried away, when passion had overridden caution, but...

"I can't be pregnant. We weren't planning..."

"Babies don't always wait for plans," Phyllis said from her seat, bouncing baby Richard on her knee. "Trust me on that."

"The nausea, the exhaustion, the sensitivity to smells—those are all pregnancy symptoms," Eleanor added. "I'm experiencing the same things."

Betty's mind raced. Pregnant. A baby. Due when—if she'd missed January and February, that would put her three months along. Due in... October?

"I need to see a doctor," she said faintly.

"Yes, you do," Sally agreed. "Make an appointment tomorrow."

Betty found Fred in the living room, talking to the other men about production challenges at Rohr. She pulled him aside, her face pale.

"Can we go home? I'm not feeling well."

In the car, Fred glanced at her with concern. "What's wrong? You look like you've seen a ghost."

"Fred, I think... the women think... I might be pregnant."

Fred nearly drove off the road. "What?"

"The nausea, the exhaustion, missing my monthlies. Eleanor and Sally think I'm pregnant."

Fred pulled over to the side of the road and turned to look at her, his face a mixture of shock, fear, and wonder. "Are you sure?"

"No. That's why I need to see a doctor. But Fred, if I am... we weren't planning this. Not yet."

"I know." He took her hands, his mind clearly racing through the implications. "But if you are, we'll figure it out. We'll make it work."

"How? I'm working full-time. You're working twelve-hour days. We don't have family nearby to help. And there's the war—what if you get drafted?"

"Betty, breathe. Let's take this one step at a time. First, you see a doctor and find out for sure. Then we'll make plans. Okay?"

"Okay." But Betty's hands were shaking as Fred drove them home.


April 15, 1943 - The Doctor's Appointment

Betty made an appointment with Dr. Harrison, a general practitioner in Chula Vista. She took a half-day off work, telling McCreery she had a personal appointment.

The doctor's examination was thorough and somewhat embarrassing. He asked about her symptoms, her last monthly, her intimate relations with her husband. Then he did a physical examination.

"Mrs. Seaver," Dr. Harrison said when he'd finished, "congratulations. You're definitely pregnant. Based on your last monthly, I'd estimate you're about three months along. That puts your due date around mid-to-late October."

Betty felt tears spring to her eyes. "I'm really pregnant?"

"Very much so. The nausea and exhaustion are normal first-trimester symptoms. They should ease up in the next few weeks as you enter your second trimester."

"What should I do? About work, I mean. I'm a secretary at Rohr Aircraft."

"You can continue working as long as you feel able. Many women work through most of their pregnancies now. But you'll need to rest more, eat small frequent meals, avoid heavy lifting. And you'll need to come in for monthly checkups."

Dr. Harrison gave her pamphlets about pregnancy, dietary guidelines, what to expect in the coming months. Betty walked out of the office in a daze.

A baby. She was going to have a baby. She and Fred were going to be parents.

She drove to Rohr, planning to tell Fred immediately. But when she got there, she learned he was in a critical meeting with upper management—Rohr had just won another major contract, and Fred was being briefed on the new requirements.

Betty sat at her desk, trying to focus on work, one hand unconsciously resting on her still-flat stomach. Inside her, a baby was growing. Fred's baby. Their baby.

She'd tell him tonight. When they were home, alone, where they could talk and process this together.


April 15, 1943 - Telling Fred

Fred came home at seven o'clock, exhausted from his long day and the intense meeting. Betty had made dinner—scrambled eggs and toast, one of the few things she could stomach—and waited nervously.

"How was your appointment?" Fred asked as they sat down to eat.

"Fred, I need to tell you something."

He set down his fork, reading her serious expression. "What is it?"

"I saw Dr. Harrison today. He did an examination and some tests."

"And?"

Betty took a deep breath. "I'm pregnant. About three months along. The baby is due in mid-to-late October."

Fred stared at her, processing. Then a slow smile spread across his face. "We're having a baby?"

"We're having a baby."

He was around the table in an instant, pulling her into his arms, laughing and crying at the same time. "We're going to be parents. Betty, we're going to have a child."

"Are you happy? I know we weren't planning this yet."

"I'm terrified. But yes, I'm happy. Are you happy?"

"I'm terrified too. But also happy. And worried. And excited. All of it at once."

They held each other for a long time, both of them trying to absorb this enormous change. A baby. In six months, they'd be parents.

"October," Fred said finally. "October 1943. Our child will be born into a world at war."

"I know. That scares me."

"Me too. But Betty, children are born during wars. Life doesn't stop because the world is broken. And maybe our baby will help remind us what we're fighting for—a future where children can grow up in peace."

"You really think we can do this? Be parents?"

"I think we can do anything together. We'll learn, like we've learned everything else. One day at a time."


Easter Sunday, April 25, 1943

Easter fell on April 25th that year. Fred and Betty attended services at All Saints' Episcopal Church, where they'd been married ten months earlier. Betty wore a new dress that accommodated her slightly thickening waist—she wasn't obviously pregnant yet, but her regular clothes were getting tight.

Father Stevens spoke about resurrection and new life, about hope emerging from darkness, about the promise of renewal. Betty sat with Fred's hand on hers, thinking about the new life growing inside her. It felt appropriate, hearing about new beginnings on Easter while carrying their child.

After church, they drove to Fern Street for Easter dinner. Emily had prepared ham, scalloped potatoes, green beans, fresh rolls, and a lemon cake. Lyle, Emily, Georgianna, and Della were all there, along with Austin, Della and Uncle Edgar.

They ate first, enjoying Emily's cooking and the warm family atmosphere. Then, as they sat in the living room with coffee and cake, Betty caught Fred's eye.

He nodded. It was time.

"Mama, Papa," Betty said, her voice shaking slightly, "Fred and I have an announcement."

Everyone turned to look at them.

"I'm pregnant," Betty said simply. "We're going to have a baby in October."

The room erupted. Emily burst into tears, immediately hugging Betty. Lyle shook Fred's hand vigorously, then pulled him into an embrace. Georgianna and Della both cried and laughed at once.

"A baby!" Emily kept saying. "My baby is having a baby!"

"How far along are you?" Georgianna asked, the practical grandmother.

"About three and a half months. Due about October 15th."

"That's Fred's birthday!" Lyle realized. "The baby might come on Fred's birthday!"

"We hadn't thought of that," Fred admitted. "That would be something, wouldn't it?"

Uncle Edgar raised his glass. "To the newest member of the Seaver family. May he or she be healthy, happy, and inherit only the best qualities from both parents."

"To the baby," everyone echoed.

The rest of the afternoon was a blur of excited planning. Emily already thinking about knitting baby clothes. Georgianna offering advice about pregnancy and childbirth. Della reminiscing about when Betty was born. Lyle looking stunned and proud in equal measure—he was going to be a grandfather.

"Are you still working?" Emily asked with concern. "Should you be working in your condition?"

"Dr. Harrison says I can work as long as I feel able. And we need my income, especially now with a baby coming."

"But you'll stop before the baby comes?"

"Probably in August or September. We'll see how I feel."

Driving home that evening, exhausted but happy, Betty leaned her head on Fred's shoulder.

"We did it. We told everyone. Now it's real."

"It was real when Dr. Harrison confirmed it. But yes, telling our families makes it official."

"Are you scared?"

"Terrified. You?"

"Absolutely terrified. But also excited. We're going to be parents, Fred. We're going to have a baby."

"Our baby. Yours and mine. A whole new person we made together."

Betty placed Fred's hand on her stomach. "In here. Growing. Becoming. Our child."

Fred left his hand there, both of them quiet, both thinking about the life they'd created, the future they were building, the enormous responsibility and joy that awaited them.


Late April 1943 - The War Continues

The radio brought news of the war every evening. Allied forces were making progress in North Africa—Rommel's Afrika Korps was retreating, the Germans were on the defensive. In the Pacific, American forces were island-hopping, slowly pushing back Japanese expansion.

But victory was still distant. The casualty lists were long. Every week brought news of someone's son or brother or husband killed in action.

At Rohr, production targets kept increasing. Fred's team had grown to fifteen people, and he was working sixty-hour weeks trying to keep up with demand. The B-24 Liberator bombers needed parts, and Rohr was a critical supplier.

"We're building the tools that will win the war," Fred told Betty one evening as they listened to the war news. "Every cowling, every component—they all matter."

"I know. But I worry about you working so hard. You're exhausted all the time."

"Everyone is exhausted. That's just how it is now. We push through until we win."

Betty's nausea had finally eased as she entered her second trimester, but the exhaustion remained. She'd cut back to eight-hour days at Rohr instead of her usual ten, needing the rest for the baby.

McCreery had been understanding when she told him about the pregnancy. "Congratulations, Mrs. Seaver. We'll work around this. You're too valuable to lose."

"I'll work as long as I can. Probably through August."

"That's more than fair. And after the baby? Any plans to return?"

"I don't know yet. It depends on childcare, on Fred's situation, on how the war is going."

Everything was uncertain—their future, the war, even whether Fred would be home when the baby came. The draft age had been lowered to eighteen and raised to thirty-eight, but married men with children received temporary deferments. Still, nothing was guaranteed.

But in the midst of all the uncertainty, there was this: a baby coming in October. New life in the midst of death. Hope in the midst of war.

Fred and Betty Seaver, married for ten months, were about to become parents.

And whatever challenges lay ahead—and there would be many—they would face them together.

As they always had.

As they always would.


To be continued...

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2) Here is the Google NotebookLM Video Overview about Fred and Betty's life in February to April  1943: 


3)  This story is historical fiction based on real people -- my parents -- and a real event in a real place.  I don't know the full story of these events -- but this is how it might have been. I hope that it was at least this good! Claude is such a good story writer!  I added some details and corrected some errors in Claude's initial version.

Stay tuned for the next episode in this family story.

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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Saturday, March 7, 2026

Randy (Not) at RootsTech 2026 - Day 3 (Saturday, 7 March) Activities

The third day of the  2026 Conference was live in Salt Lake City, Utah with thousands of persons in attendance, and thousands more watching some of the conference classes online for free.  I chose to be an online viewer rather than an in-person attendee due to my physical restrictions.

1)  Over the past week, I selected online classes for "My Schedule" and have downloaded syllabus articles and slide decks for many of the online and in-person classes.   You can see the current list of RootsTech 2026 online and in-person speakers and presentation titles in https://www.familysearch.org/en/rootstech/schedule/preview.

2)  My activities today were sandwiched around my visit to the Men'sa Bible Study in the morning, a nap in the afternoon, but I was able to watch some of the classes on my class schedule.   Here are the classes that I watched, either partially or completely:

Are you struggling to find your ancestors’ parents? Learn how to bust those brick walls and find your family by using a variety of sources. This lecture is geared for more advanced researchers and examines two kinship case studies for an Ohio couple who moved west. This advanced-level session is sponsored by BCG and ICAPGen.
  • The Future of AI in Genealogy – Panel with David Ouimette (FamilySearch), Steve Little (NGS), Diana Elder (Family Locket), Dave Vance (FTDNA) and Mark Thompson (Moderator). 
The panel was asked these questions:
  • How AI is impacting genealogy — what is working today, and what is still on the horizon
  • What is driving the change — inside the companies building these tools and among the researchers using them
  • Are we going too fast or too slow — balancing the enormous potential of AI with the need for accuracy, privacy, and trust. 
In DNA Swim School Part 3, you’re ready to go beyond grouping matches—you want to figure out how they’re related to each other and to you. But what if your match network feels incomplete or unclear?

This session is all about what to do when the simple path doesn’t appear. You’ll learn how to take stock of what you do know, test hypotheses using tools like Shared Matches of Matches (SMoMs) and WATO (What Are the Odds?), and follow a process to move forward even when your network isn’t perfectly connected.

NOTE:  Stopped watching – no slides were shown - PICNIC happens.
No matter how long you've been a genealogist, asking yourself the right questions can transform your research and your writing. In this session, we’ll look at how questioning yourself can guide you from the beginning of your process through testing hypotheses, assumptions, deepening analysis, and refining writing. Whether you’re working through conflicting evidence, or polishing your proof arguments, these straightforward strategies will help you sharpen your work. Attendees will benefit from a thorough understanding of the Genealogical Proof Standards and BCG Genealogy Standards. This advanced-level session is sponsored by BCG and ICAPGen.

3)  I checked the Relatives at RootsTech page tonight and saw that I have 49,995 relatives listed at RootsTech 2026 (down from over 74,000 in 2025).


My closest Relative at RootsTech is a first cousin 1x removed whom I know in my Seaver line, and the next closest cousin is George, a 3rd cousin 1x removed in my Kemp line.  I am randyseaver1 if you want to see how I am related to you.  

4)  Finally, this conference is over.  There will be more news articles about it that describe the highlights, and some blog posts, Facebook photographs, and YouTube videos.  I will report the most important ones as I wander through the genealogy weeds in the next weeks.

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Disclosure:  I am a RootsTech 2026 "Influencer" but will receive no remuneration for my support or posting of RootsTech information.  I will be an online participant this year because of my health issues.

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Saturday Night Genealogy Fun -- Your Favorite Online Class At RootsTech 2026

 Calling all Genea-Musings Fans: 

It's Saturday Night again - 

Time for some more Genealogy Fun!!


Come on, everybody, join in and accept the mission and execute it with precision. 

1)  RootsTech 2026 just finished today.  Did you watch any classes online?  

2)  Which online class was your favorite, perhaps the most informative, most helpful, or most entertaining, for you?  

3)  Share your selected online class in your own blog post, or in a Facebook, SubStack, BlueSky or other social media post.  Leave a link to your post on this blog post to help us find your post.

Here's mine:

I "attended" RootsTech 2026 online all three days, and have daily posts highlighting my viewing selections. See Randy (Not) at RootsTech 2026 - Day 1 (Thursday, 5 March) ActivitiesRandy (Not) at RootsTech 2026 - Day 2 (Friday, 6 March) Activities, and Randy (Not) at RootsTech 2026 - Day 3 (Saturday, 7 March) Activities.

My most useful online class was Daniel Horowitz's Genealogy, Upgraded: AI and Smart Tools on MyHeritage class on Thursday.  Daniel covered AI-enhanced Records, Photo enhancing, Photo colorizing, Time Machine, LiveMemory, AI Biography, the NEW Scribe AI, and the NEW Color Coding for Family Trees.  

Of most help to me was the NEW Scribe AI tool that transcribes, translates (if requested), interprets, summarizes and describes a document, image, or other record. I applied it immediately to an Italian birth record in Trying Out the MyHeritage Scribe AI Tool To Transcribe, Translate, Interpret and Describe An Italian Birth Record.

The most entertaining class for me was Steve Little's AI & Family History: Foundations & First Steps: Mastering AI Basics for Genealogy presentation. Steve is funny, and even pulled out his smart phone to ask ChatGPT some questions. 

An online classes that informed me was What’s New at Ancestry® by Crista Cowan of Ancestry.com.  She reviewed many of the new features on the Ancestry website.

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Ask AI: Describe the Courtship and Marriage of Norman Seaver and Sarah Read in 1755 in Sudbury, Massachusetts Bay Colony

The Artificial Intelligence tools (like ChatGPT, Claude, CoPilot, Gemini, Grok, Meta, Grok, and Perplexity) can provide much useful and nearly instant information about subjects in a concise format, especially when they have been pre-trained on a large volume of information about the subjects.

I wondered if the FREE AI tools could provide me with information about the courtship and marriage of my 5th great-grandparents, Norman Seaver and Sarah Read.

 My genealogical sketch for Norman Seaver is 52 Ancestors - Week 105: #128 Norman Seaver (1734-1787), based on my genealogical research.

(AI NotebookLM Infographic of the courtship and marriage of Norman Seaver and Sarah Read)

1)  My Prompt to free Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 was:  "Please describe the courtship and marriage of Norman Seaver and Sarah Read in 1755 in Sudbury, Massachusetts based on the attached sketch."

2)  The AI tool responded with this story (historical fiction, but the way it might have been): 


Norman Seaver and Sarah Read

A Courtship in Colonial Sudbury

Early Winter, 1754

Norman Seaver was twenty years old in December of 1754, and he had a problem. He had fallen in love with Sarah Read, the daughter of Isaac and Experience Read of Sudbury, but time was not on his side.

He had likely known Sarah for some time—Sudbury was a close-knit community where families attended the same meetinghouse, gathered for work parties, and saw each other at militia trainings and town meetings. Sarah, probably around eighteen or nineteen years old, came from a respectable family. Her father Isaac Read was established in the community, and her mother Experience had raised their children with the strict moral standards expected of proper New England families.

Norman had returned to Sudbury two years earlier, after his father Robert’s death, bringing his mother Eunice and his younger siblings back with him. He had spent time as a young man at Narragansett No. 2 working for the proprietors, gaining valuable experience in frontier life and carpentry. Now, as the oldest living son, Norman was the man of the house. He was working as a husbandman—farming and doing carpentry work to support not only himself but also his mother and family. He was the kind of young man parents appreciated: hardworking, skilled with his hands, from a known family, and with enough ambition and sense of responsibility to care for his widowed mother and siblings.

But Norman's problem was this: Sarah was expecting their child.

In 18th-century New England, premarital pregnancy was not uncommon—studies suggest that perhaps one in three first children were conceived before marriage. Often couples considered themselves informally engaged or "pre-contracted" and began their intimate relationship before the formal church wedding. The community generally tolerated this as long as the couple married before the child was born, though the church might require a public confession or fine.

Whatever the circumstances of their courtship, by late winter 1754, Norman and Sarah knew they needed to marry soon. He would need to approach her father Isaac Read and formally request Sarah's hand—a conversation that may have been uncomfortable given the circumstances, but one that had to happen.

Speaking with Isaac Read

We can imagine Norman approaching the Read household on a cold February or early March day, hat in hand, to speak with Isaac Read. These conversations followed certain forms in colonial New England. A young man needed to demonstrate he could provide for a wife and family. Norman would have explained his circumstances: he had his carpentry skills, he was working steadily, and he had prospects. Perhaps he mentioned the possibility of acquiring land, or his connections that might help him establish himself.

Isaac Read, as a father, would have had concerns. Was this young carpenter stable enough? Could he support Sarah and provide her with a decent home, especially when he was already responsible for his widowed mother and younger siblings? But Isaac also would have been practical. His daughter was pregnant, and Norman was clearly willing to do the honorable thing. Moreover, the Seaver family was known in Sudbury—Robert Seaver had been a respected member of the community before his death. And the fact that Norman had taken on the burden of caring for his mother and siblings showed his character and sense of responsibility.

Sarah's mother Experience would have had her own opinions. She would have wanted to know that her daughter would be treated well, that Norman understood the responsibility he was taking on. But she also would have seen something in the young man—perhaps his earnestness, his work ethic, or simply the way he looked at Sarah.

Whatever was said in that conversation, Isaac Read gave his consent. Norman and Sarah would marry.

March 14, 1755: The Wedding

On March 14, 1755, Norman Seaver and Sarah Read were married in Sudbury. The marriage record, preserved in both the Sudbury and Wayland town records, reads: "Norman Sever & Sarah Read both of Sudbury were Married at Sudbury March 14th 1755 ?? Israel Loring."

Israel Loring was likely the justice of the peace who officiated. In colonial Massachusetts, marriages could be performed by ministers or by civil magistrates. Given the circumstances, Norman and Sarah may have opted for a civil ceremony—simpler, quieter, and requiring less public attention than a full church wedding.

The wedding itself would have been modest. Colonial New England weddings were not the elaborate affairs of later centuries. There would have been witnesses—family members certainly, perhaps a few close friends. Sarah might have worn her best dress, perhaps in a muted color suitable for everyday wear afterward. Norman would have worn his good coat and breeches, cleaned and brushed for the occasion.

The ceremony would have been brief. Israel Loring would have asked the required questions: Did Norman take Sarah to be his lawful wedded wife? Did Sarah take Norman to be her lawful wedded husband? They would have exchanged their promises before witnesses. And then it was done. Norman Seaver, age twenty, and Sarah Read, probably eighteen or nineteen, were husband and wife.

There may have been a simple wedding dinner at the Read home—bread, cheese, perhaps a roasted fowl, cider or beer. Family members would have offered their congratulations and blessings. Experience Read, Sarah’s mother, might have pulled her daughter aside for some final words of advice and encouragement. Norman’s mother Eunice would have been there, along with his younger siblings. Eunice, now a widow, would have welcomed Sarah warmly, grateful that her eldest son had found a good woman to share his life. Norman’s siblings who still lived in the Seaver home – sister Hannah, brothers Robert, Moses, Samuel and John—would have welcomed Sarah into the Seaver family.

Setting Up House

After the wedding, Norman and Sarah had to establish their household. Given Norman’s responsibilities as the man of the house caring for his widowed mother and younger siblings, it seems most likely that Norman and Sarah resided with his mother Eunice and the rest of the Seaver family. This was common practice in colonial New England, especially for a young couple just starting out. The household would have been crowded but workable—Norman’s carpentry skills would have been useful in making whatever improvements were needed to accommodate the newlyweds.

Sarah would have brought to the marriage whatever items formed her dowry—linens she had woven, perhaps some cooking pots and utensils, maybe a chest or trunk. These would have been added to the Seaver household, where she would now be living alongside Norman’s mother Eunice and his younger siblings. For Sarah, this meant learning to navigate a new family dynamic—she was now a daughter-in-law as well as a wife, and would be sharing household duties and space with her mother-in-law. But Eunice, having raised many children herself, would have understood what Sarah was going through and likely offered guidance and support.

As March turned to April and then May, Sarah's pregnancy would have become increasingly obvious. In the small community of Sudbury, people would have counted on their fingers and known that the baby had been conceived before the wedding. There may have been whispers, sideways glances, perhaps some disapproval from the more censorious neighbors. But Sarah and Norman had done the right thing by marrying, and life moved forward.

Sarah would have been preparing for the birth—gathering baby linens, making small clothes, preparing cloths and other necessities. Her mother Experience would have been helping her, sharing knowledge about childbirth and infant care that had been passed down through generations of women. Norman’s mother Eunice, living in the same household, would have been another source of wisdom and support. As a woman who had borne many children herself, Eunice could offer practical advice and reassurance. Norman would have been working steadily, trying to provide for his growing household—his wife, his mother, his siblings, and soon, his first child.

May 3, 1755: Eunice Arrives

On May 3, 1755—less than two months after Norman and Sarah’s wedding—their first child was born. (They named her Eunice, after Norman’s mother, Eunice (Rayment) Seaver. This was a significant gesture. By naming their daughter after her paternal grandmother, Norman and Sarah honored the woman who had welcomed Sarah into the household and who would help raise this baby. For the elder Eunice, having a granddaughter bear her name must have been deeply touching—a promise that her legacy would continue.

The birth would have taken place at home, as all births did in that era. Sarah would have been attended by a midwife—perhaps an experienced older woman from the community, possibly a relative. Her mother Experience would almost certainly have been there, supporting her daughter through the ordeal. And Norman’s mother Eunice, already living in the household, would have been present as well—both as support for Sarah and as the baby’s grandmother waiting to meet her namesake. Norman would have been nearby, probably in another room with his younger siblings, waiting anxiously. Men did not attend births, but they waited and worried.

Childbirth in the 18th century was dangerous. Women died in childbirth with sobering regularity, and infant mortality was high. Sarah would have known this, would have heard stories of women who didn't survive, babies who were stillborn or died within days. So when baby Eunice arrived, healthy and crying lustily, there must have been profound relief along with the joy.

When Norman was finally allowed to enter and see his wife and daughter, he would have been overwhelmed. Here was Sarah, exhausted but alive and well. And here was Eunice, tiny and perfect, his daughter. He was a father now, with all the responsibility and terror and wonder that entailed.

A New Family

The weeks after Eunice’s birth would have been a time of adjustment. Sarah, recovering from childbirth, would have spent most of her time resting and nursing the baby. Experience Read would have visited to help her daughter, but the person most able to assist Sarah day-to-day was Norman’s mother Eunice, who lived right there in the household. The elder Eunice, experienced with many births and babies, would have been invaluable—helping with cooking, cleaning, and laundry, offering advice on infant care, and allowing Sarah to focus on healing and caring for her namesake granddaughter.

Norman would have been working to provide for his household—his wife, his newborn daughter, his mother, and his younger siblings—but he would have also been experiencing those first sleepless nights that new fathers have endured throughout history. The baby’s cries, the need for help, the constant vigilance required to keep an infant alive—all of this was new and sometimes overwhelming. But having his mother in the household was a blessing; her experience and calm presence helped steady the young couple through those exhausting early weeks.

But there would have been moments of pure joy too. Holding Eunice as she slept. Watching Sarah nurse their daughter. Seeing the baby's eyes begin to focus, her first smiles, the way she would grip Norman's finger with surprising strength. These were the moments that made everything worthwhile.

The birth record in Sudbury notes simply: "Eunice, born May 3, 1755." Those few words capture nothing of the drama, fear, hope, and love that surrounded her arrival. But they mark the beginning of Norman and Sarah's journey as parents—a journey that would continue for thirty-two more years and encompass twelve more children.

The Years Ahead

Whatever uncertainty may have surrounded Norman and Sarah's courtship and hasty marriage, they were committed to each other now. They had married, established a household, and welcomed their first child. Eunice's birth in May 1755 was just the beginning of their remarkable partnership.

Over the next twenty-five years, Sarah would bear twelve more children. She and Norman would move from Sudbury to Shrewsbury and finally to Westminster, always seeking better opportunities. They would build farms, raise a large family, and weather the storms of the Revolutionary War. Norman would rise from sergeant to lieutenant, and his sons would follow him into military service.

But all of that was still ahead of them in the spring of 1755. For now, they were simply Norman and Sarah Seaver, young parents trying to figure out how to care for baby Eunice, make ends meet, and build a life together. They had started their marriage under less than ideal circumstances, but they would make it work. And they did—for thirty-two years, until Norman's death in 1787.

Sarah, holding Eunice in their modest Sudbury home in May 1755, could not have imagined all that lay ahead. She couldn't have known she would eventually be the mother of thirteen children, that she would follow her husband through three different towns, that she would endure his long absences during the Revolution, or that she would ultimately outlive him by twenty-one years.

But perhaps, looking at Norman as he gazed at their daughter with such wonder and pride, she knew the most important thing: they would face it all together.

Historical Notes

Documentary Evidence

The marriage record of Norman Seaver and Sarah Read exists in both Sudbury and Wayland town records, dated March 14, 1755. The birth record of Eunice Seaver is recorded in Sudbury, dated May 3, 1755. The short interval between the marriage and the birth—less than two months—suggests that Sarah was approximately seven months pregnant at the time of the wedding.

Premarital Pregnancy in Colonial New England

Historical research has shown that premarital pregnancy was relatively common in colonial New England, particularly by the mid-18th century. Studies of church and vital records suggest that between 30-40% of first children were conceived before marriage by the 1750s. The practice of "bundling"—where courting couples would lie together in bed, supposedly separated by a bundling board or with the woman in a bundling bag—was widespread and often led to pregnancy.

Colonial communities generally tolerated premarital pregnancy as long as the couple married before the birth. Churches might require confession or impose fines, but civil authorities rarely intervened if marriage occurred. The concept of "pre-contract" or informal engagement was recognized—couples who had promised to marry each other were sometimes seen as having permission to begin their intimate relationship.

Narrative Interpretation

While we have documentary evidence of the marriage date and birth date, the details of Norman and Sarah's courtship, their conversations with Sarah's parents, the wedding itself, and the immediate aftermath are based on historical context and typical practices of the era. The emotions, thoughts, and specific interactions described in this narrative are reasonably imagined based on what we know about 18th-century New England courtship and family life, but they are not documented in surviving records.

What we know for certain is that Norman and Sarah married on March 14, 1755, that their first child Eunice was born on May 3, 1755, and that they remained together until Norman's death in 1787, producing thirteen children and building a life together through some of the most turbulent years in American history.

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3)  Here is the Video Overview of this post by Google NotebookLM. 

4)  This is historical fiction based only on the facts that are available (marriage of Norman and Sarah), and the birth of their first child, Eunice Seaver).  It is historical fiction based on social history and society norms at the time and place, so it is likely fairly realistic. It might have happened this way.

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page.  Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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