Monday, November 24, 2025

Randy's Genealogy Pot-Pourri - Week Ending 23 November 2025

 Here are the highlights of my family history and genealogy related activities over the past week (ending Sunday, 23 November 2025).  

1)  Hosted and moderated  the Chula Vista Genealogical Society Familyt History Roundtable Group on Wednesday. We discussed guidelines for organizing genealogy and family history research, guidelines for writing a family story or ancestor story, and How to write a biography for an ancestor, plus the homework of "write a short story about "Where I'm From."

2)  Transcribed the 1692 Deed of Shubael and Hannah Seaver selling woodland in Roxbury, Mass. to John Davis for 9 pounds with help from FamilySearch Full-Text Search.

3) Curated genealogy-related articles to keep myself and my readers updated on the genealogy world in:

4)  Wrote two "ABC Biographies" using my AI-assisted "Ancestor Biography Creation" process,  and posted them on Genea-Musings and Substack, in:

5)  Requested free AI tools to tell me about these genealogy and family history subjects, and posted them on Genea-Musings and Substack
6)  Posted one of the AI-assisted memories of my ancestral home in the home's voice, based on my own memories, on Genea-Musings and Substack - in The Watchful House on 30th Street Remembers: "The Walls That Heard Everything."

7)  Wrote an AI-assisted short stories about my parents on Genea-Musings and Substack:
8)  Experiemented with the Google NotebookLM Historical biography, Infographic, and Slide Show features in Google NotebookLM Biography, Infographic and Slide Show for Elijah Pickrell McKnew and Jane (Whittle) McKnew.

9)  Added a number of the recent Google NotebookLM Videos to my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@RandySeaver.  

10)  Continued working on my wife's ancestral family genealogical sketches.  Wrote Genealogical Sketch of the Elijah Pickrell McKnew and Jane (Whittle) McKnew Family of San Francisco, California.

11)  My AncestryDNA now has 50,127 DNA matches (up 16 from 16 November) with 2,129 "close" matches today (up 0), with one new ThruLines.  Added Notes to 3 Matches, and added no new DNA match lines to RootsMagic.  MyHeritageDNA now has 13,912 DNA matches (up 12 from 16 November) for me.

12)  Searched for more records of ancestral families on Ancestry, FamilySearch and MyHeritage, downloaded record images to my digital file folders, and added research notes, events and sources to RootsMagic profiles.  My RootsMagic family tree now has 74,813 profiles (up 13 from last week)  and 147,922 source citations (up 8).  

13) Wrote 25 Genea-Musings blog posts last week (Sunday through Saturday), of which three were a press release. The most viewed post last week was Shubael Seaver's Life Memories in 1729 - An AI-Assisted Memoir with over 284 views.  Genea-Musings had about 83,000 page views last week and over 702,000 views over the past month (lots of bots I fear). 

14)  Real life events:  Visited Linda several days at her memory care facility and we played Uno and walked around the facility and the patio. Linbda's wheelchair fractured so i bought a new one and it was delivered on Tuesday. Went to the grocery store on Monday and Friday. Went to the dentist on Friday for cleaning. Finished reading The Rule of Law by John Lescroart and started Whispering by John Grisham.  No Charger game this week so they are now 7-4.  Watched  the San Diego State Aztecs game on Saturday and they won 25-3 over San Jose State, so they are now 9-2.  Watched the San Diego State basketball game on Wednesday and they lost to Troy 109-108, so are now 2-1 on the season.
   
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The Watchful House on 30th Street Remembers: "Fred's Patio Project"

 I  have many memories of the upstairs apartment in the two-story house at 2119 30th Street in San Diego where I grew up (from age 4 to 24).  

Did my house "watch" and "hear" and "feel" and "remember" my time living there?

I wrote a description of the layout of the 30th Street house, and the downstairs patio, as I recalled it.  I described each inhabitant (my father, my mother, me, my two brothers) and some of the daily events that happened in each room, and the patio, over my 20 years residing there, plus some memories of specific events. I created a PDF of that document and attached it to the AI tool to use.

1)  The first AI prompt that I used for the free AI tool Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4 was for story ideas, along with a short description of each idea. Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 provided twenty wonderful story ideas - here is one of them (lightly edited for accuracy, consistency, and detail).

2)  My prompt asked "Tell Me About Fred's Patio Project."

(AI NotebookLM image - Fred's Backyard Patio Project)

Here is the Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 story (lightly edited):


Fred's Patio Project

A story from the house at 2119 30th Street

In 1954, Fred looked out from my back porch and saw possibility where others might have seen just a patch of scrub and weeds. Between the west fence with the semi-circular planter box and the eucalyptus tree on the east shielding the sidewalk aonng Fern Street, bounded by the south wall and with the next-door apartment house marking the northern border, lay an irregular piece of ground that Fred envisioned as something more than mere backyard. He saw a foundation for family life, a stage for childhood adventures, a place where his boys could play without venturing beyond the safety of home. It was level, and perhaps 20 feet wide and 20 feet long.

What followed was one of the most ambitious projects I had ever witnessed from my vantage point overlooking the backyard.

Fred approached the patio construction with the same methodical precision he brought to his insurance work. First came the excavation—not the kind of massive earth-moving that modern construction crews would accomplish with machinery, but the patient, deliberate work of a man with a shovel, a wheelbarrow, and an unshakeable vision of what this space could become.

I watched him work in the early morning hours before leaving for his insurance rounds, and again in the cool evenings after dinner. Shovel full by shovel full, Fred smoothed level ground from the dirt patch to create enough room for a small playground. The boys would hover around the work site, occasionally allowed to help with small tasks but mostly just absorbing the sight of their father literally reshaping the earth to create something wonderful for them.

The sand came from hillsides around San Diego—Fred knew where to find the right kind of sand for proper drainage and foundation stability. Weekend trips became family adventures as Fred loaded the car with shovels and buckets, driving to distant hillsides where he and the boys would dig sand that would become the foundation of their future playground. Randy and Stan treated these expeditions like treasure hunts, racing to fill their buckets while Fred worked with the steady efficiency of a man who understood that good foundations require patience and quality materials.

But it was the bricks that transformed Fred's vision into reality. Laying brick on sand was an art form that required both physical strength and mathematical precision. I watched Fred work with a level and string lines, ensuring that each brick sat perfectly flush with its neighbors, that drainage would flow properly, that the surface would remain stable through years of aggressive play by active boys.

The work stretched across months of weekends and evenings. Fred would arrive home from his Pacific Beach insurance route, change into work clothes, and spend the remaining daylight hours extending his brick masterpiece. Betty would bring him coffee and encouragement, sometimes sitting on the planter box with little Scott in her lap, watching Fred's steady progress with the quiet satisfaction of a woman who recognized that her husband was building more than just a patio—he was creating the foundation for family memories.

When the brick work was finally complete, the transformation was remarkable. What had been an irregular dirt ground was now a level playing field bounded by natural and constructed barriers that created perfect containment for childhood adventures. The eucalyptus tree provided shade and a natural boundary, while shielding the patio from Fern Street traffic, while offering enough room for games that required running room.

The ping-pong table arrived first—a regulation-size table that transformed the patio into a center of athletic competition. I could hear the distinctive pock-pock-pock of the ball bouncing between paddles, punctuated by triumphant shouts and occasional arguments about whether a ball had been in or out. Randy and Stan developed fierce rivalries over ping-pong supremacy, with matches that could stretch for hours and settle neighborhood bragging rights for weeks.

The basketball standard came next, mounted securely on a tall post near the eucalyptus tree on the east side of the patio, with Fred's characteristic attention to proper installation. The sound of the basketball bouncing on brick became one of my favorite backyard symphonies—the steady thump-thump-thump of dribbling practice, the satisfying swish of successful shots, the clatter of missed attempts hitting the rim and bouncing across the patio.

But it was the informal games that truly brought Fred's patio to life. Whiffle ball transformed the space into a miniature baseball stadium, with the eucalyptus tree serving as the outfield boundary, the south wall in right field, with elaborate ground rules that accounted for every fence, wall, and architectural feature. Home plate was positioned at the corner of the west wall and the next-door apartment house, with first base at the corner by the west fence around the planter box. The pitcher threw from the southeast corner of the irregular diamond, and required players to adapt their games to the unique geometry of the space. Balls would occasionally sail over the south wall, and then roll down to the gate near Fern Street. Randy learned to hit right-handed to prevent hitting balls over the wall.

Kickball and Didgeball brought neighborhood friends into the action, and suddenly Fred's patio became the unofficial recreation center for 30th Street. Friends of the boys would appear after school and on weekends, drawn by the attractions that Fred had created. The brick surface provided perfect footing for games that required running, jumping, and the kind of athletic enthusiasm that only comes from children playing in spaces designed specifically for their enjoyment.

I watched Fred observe these games with quiet satisfaction. He rarely participated directly—that wasn't his style—but I could sense his pride as he watched Randy execute a perfect ping-pong serve or Stan sink a difficult basketball shot. The patio had become exactly what he'd envisioned: a place where his boys could develop athletic skills, competitive spirit, and social connections while remaining safely within the boundaries of home.

The space also served more practical purposes. Summer barbecues moved naturally onto the brick surface, with the charcoal grill positioned to take advantage of evening breezes while keeping smoke away from my windows. Birthday parties, neighborhood gatherings, and family celebrations all found their way to Fred's patio, where the level surface and contained space made hosting easier and cleanup more manageable.

Maintenance of the patio became another of Fred's regular responsibilities, but one he approached with the satisfaction of caring for something he'd created himself. Occasional bricks would settle or shift, requiring Fred's attention with his level and sand supplies. Weeds would attempt to grow between the bricks, but Fred's methodical weekend inspections would catch them before they could gain a foothold.

The boys learned practical lessons from watching Fred maintain his creation. They saw that building something was only the beginning—keeping it functional and attractive required ongoing attention and care. These weren't lectures about responsibility, but demonstrations of how pride in craftsmanship translated into long-term stewardship.

As the boys grew older, the patio adapted to their changing interests. Ping-pong remained popular through their teenage years, but basketball became increasingly important as Randy and Stan reached high school age. Neighborhood friends would gather for pickup games that could last until Betty called everyone in for dinner, with competition that was friendly but intense enough to develop real athletic skills.

When Scott was old enough to join the activities, the patio became a multigenerational playground where older brothers taught younger siblings the games they'd mastered years earlier. The cycle continued—skills passed down, traditions maintained, Fred's creation serving new generations of players who might not have understood the work that had gone into creating their playground but certainly appreciated the opportunities it provided.

Evening conversations between Fred and Betty often took place on the patio, two parents discussing the day's events while watching their boys play in the space Fred had created for them. These were the moments when I truly understood the success of Fred's vision—not just a recreational area, but a stage where family life could unfold in safety and joy.

Years later, when Randy and Stan had moved on to their adult lives and the patio served primarily Scott's activities with his friends, and Betty's gardening interests, Fred would still make his regular maintenance rounds. Replacing settled bricks, cleaning accumulated debris, ensuring that drainage continued to work properly. His creation had become a permanent part of our family landscape, requiring the same steady attention that had characterized its construction.

Fred's patio project taught me that the best gifts aren't purchased—they're built with your own hands, designed with your family's specific needs in mind, and maintained with the pride that comes from creating something that will serve the people you love for years to come.

From my back porch vantage point, I watched thousands of hours of play, competition, celebration, and simple family enjoyment unfold on those carefully laid bricks. Every game of ping-pong, every basketball shot, every whiffle ball hit toward the eucalyptus tree was a testament to Fred's vision and his willingness to transform vision into reality through patient, skilled work.

The patio was Fred's masterpiece—not because it was architecturally stunning, but because it perfectly served its purpose. In a space bounded by practical limitations, he had created unlimited possibilities for family fun, neighborhood friendship, and the kind of childhood memories that last a lifetime.

It was Fred's domain made manifest—methodical planning, skilled execution, ongoing maintenance, and the quiet satisfaction of watching the people you love enjoy something you created specifically for their happiness.

3) The Google NotebookLM Video Overview of this story is below:

4)  These events really happened over a period of time and the names and events mentioned are real.  However, some of the descriptions are historical fiction because I have no memory of some of the details.

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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Amanuensis Monday -- 1692 Deed of Shubael and Hannah Seaver Selling Land in Roxbury, Massachusetts Bay Colony to John Davis

 This week's document for transcription is the 1692 land deed record for Shubael Seaver and his wife Hannah selling land in Roxbury, Massachusetts Bay Colony to John Davis for 9 pounds.

[Suffolk County, Mass. Deeds 1669-1698:  pages 50-51, image 293 of 845]:

The transcription of this deed is (starting about 65% down the left-hand page of the image) with the assistance of FamilySearch Full-Text Search:

[Page 50, Image 285, starting about 65% down the left hand page of image]

Seaver    To all Christian People to whom this present writeing shall 
    to        or may come Greeting Know yee. That I Subael Seaver Senior of 
Davis      Roxbury in the County of Suffolk Wheelwright for and in consideration 
of a good and valuable sum of nine pounds current money to me well and 
and faithfully paid by John Davis Senior of the same town and County 
aforesaid the receipt whereof I do by these presents owne and acknowledg
and therewith to be fully Satisfyed and contented Have granted 
bargained and sold aliened enfeoffed and confirmed, and by these 
presents doe fully clearly and absolutely grant bargain and sell, alien 
Enfeoffe and confirme unto him the said John Davis his heirs and
Assignes five Acres of wood land be it more or less lying neer to Bare 
Marsh in the Second Divisions of Lands in the Town of Roxbury, afores'd and is
bounded East upon the lands of the Said John Davis, and North upon the 
land of Thomas Morey, West upon the land of Caleb Seaver and South upon 
the Lands of Thomas Bacon. To have and to hold the abovegranted 
and bargained prmisses with all the priviledges and appurtenances to 
the same appertaining or in any wise belonging unto him the said John 
Davis his heires Executors administrators and assignes forever to 

[Page 51, Image 293, right-hand page]

be and their only proper use benefit and behoof and I the Said Subael Seaver 
and Hannah Seaver my wife we our heirs Executors Administrators and Assigns 
do covenant promise and grant to and with the said John Davis his heires Executors
Administrators and Assignes, That we the said Subael Seaver and Hannah Seaver 
now am and are at the Ensealing hereof Shall Stand and be lawfully and rightly 
sole Seized of and in the abovegranted and bargained premisses in an Indefeazable 
Estate of Inheritance in fee Simple, and that we have good right full power 
and lawfull Authority to grant bargain Sell and confirm the same unto him the said 
John Davis his heires Executors Administrators and Assignes in manner as is 
abovesaid for ever And that he the said John Davis his heires Executors Admi-
nistrators and assignes and either of them shall and may at all times and from time 
to time forever herefore peaceably and quietly have hold occupy possess and enjoy 
the premisses in and by these presents granted bargained and sold and every part and 
parcel thereof with all the priviledges and appurtenances to the same appertaining or 
in any wise belonging without the lott Denyall or contradiction of of us the said Shubael 
Seaver and Hannah Seaver our heirs Executors Administrators and Assignes or of any
other person or persons whatsoever lawfully claiming and haveing any right title or 
interest therein or in any part or parcell thereof from by or under us or of any or either of 
us, or by any other lawfull ^wayes or^ meanes whatsoever. In Witness whereof we have here-
unto Set our hands and seales the Twentyeth fourth Day of October in the fourth yeare
of the Reign of William and Mary King and Queen over England &c Annoq Domi
1692.                                                                                   Shubael Seaver & a seal 
Signed Sealed and Deliv'rd in the presence of                the mark of Han X nah Seaver & a seal
John Searle the mark of Abiall A Curtice as witnesses. 
March 23. 1692/3 Shubael Seaver & Hannah his wife personally appearing before me
Samuel Sewall and of their majesties Council & a Justice for the Province of ye Massa-
chusets Bay; and acknowledged this Instrument to be Their voluntary Act & Deed
Entred March 28 1693                                             Sam'l Sewall
                                       Joseph Webb cler

The source citation for this land record is:

"Massachusetts, Land Records, 1620-1986," Suffolk County, Massachusetts, deed of Shubael and Hannah Seaver to John Davis, executed 24 October 1692, recorded 28 March 1693; imaged, FamilySearch  (https://
www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9ZS-BJH3?view=fullText : Nov 23, 2025), Image Group Number: 007442499, "Suffolk, Deeds 1669-1698," pages 50-51 (penned) (image 293 of 845); citing original records in Suffolk County Courthouse, imaged by FamilySearch.

This deed is for a parcel of woodland in Roxbury, Suffolk County, Massachusetts Bay Colony, owned by Shubael and Hannah Seaver. It was sold to John Davis, Senior for 9 pounds on 24 October 1692.

Shubael Seaver (1640-1730) and Hannah (Wilson) Seaver (1646-1721) are my 8th great-grandparents through their son Joseph Seaver (1672-1754) who married Mary Read in 1700.  

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Read other transcriptions of records of my relatives and ancestors at Amanuensis Monday Posts.

NOTE: Genea-blogger John Newmark (who writes the excellent TransylvanianDutch blog) started a Monday blog theme years ago called "Amanuensis Monday." John offers this definition for "amanuensis:"

"A person employed to write what another dictates or to copy what has been written by another."

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Sunday, November 23, 2025

Best of the Genea-Blogs - Week of 16 to 22 November 2025

  Scores of genealogy and family history bloggers write hundreds of posts every week about their research, their families, and their interests. I appreciate each one of them and their efforts.


My criteria for "Best of ..." are pretty simple - I pick posts that advance knowledge about genealogy and family history, address current genealogy issues, provide personal family history, are funny or are poignant. I don't list posts destined for most daily blog prompts or meme submissions (but I do include summaries of them), or my own posts.

Here are my picks for great reads from the genealogy blogs for this past week: 

*  AI-Augmented Ancestral Storytelling by Carole McCulloch on NextGen Genealogy.

*  In Their Own Words: Creating Fictionalized Family Letters with ChatGPT-5 by Diane Henriks on Know Who Wears the Genes In Your Family.

*  Preserving Our Posts by Deborah Carl on Mission: Genealogy.

*  Comments on evolving and devolving genealogical terminology and 5 Surprising Ways Google’s Gemini 3 Will Change How We Research Family History by James Tanner on Genealogy's Star.

*  The new ChatGPT is here - what you need to know and Why your old AI prompts aren’t working anymore (and how to fix them) by Denyse Allen on Chronicle Makers.

*  You Will Hear of Launches and Rumors of Launches; Fun Prompt Friday: From Screenshot to [EXPLETIVE DELETED] to Heirloom—The Nano Banana 2 Stress Test; and This is What a Step Change Looks Like by Steve Little on AI Genealogy Insights.

*  Get In-Depth Answers to Your Genealogy Questions by DiAnn Iamarino Ohama on Fortify Your Family Tree.

*  Drilling Deeper into Origins by Jacqi Stevens on A Family Tapestry.

*  The Past Inside of You by Nate Douglas on No Parents Listed.

*  Reconstructing the Lost 1890 Census: Recent Records and AI Tools (2025 Updates) by Thomas MacEntee on Genealogy Bargains.

*  AI Never Met Your Ancestor: Locating Non-Enhanced Images on Ancestry by Doris Kenney on A Tree With No Name.

*  Browsing Instead of Searching at Fold3 by Lisa S. Gorrell on My Trails Into the Past.

*  The Hop-Picker Murders by Nathan Dylan Goodwin: Book Review by Linda Stufflebean on Empty Branches On the Family Tree.

*  Gaolhouse Chronicles: The Body in the Box | Part III by Lex Knowlton on Knext Gen Genealogy.

*  Stop Digging Through Dusty Archives: 10 Digital Tools That Will Transform Your Family History Research in 2025 by Brin Nash on How We Got Here Genealogy.

*  How to Organize a Multi-Year Research Conundrum by Pat Richley-Erickson on DearMYRTLE's Village Square.

Here are pick posts by other geneabloggers this week:

*  The Chiddicks Observer Edition 32 [17 November 2025] by Paul Chiddicks on Paul Chiddicks.

*  Friday’s Family History Finds [21 November 2025] by Linda Stufflebean on Empty Branches on the Family Tree.

*  This week’s crème de la crème -- November 22, 2025 by Gail Dever on Genealogy a la Carte.

*  GenStack [22 November 2025] by Robin Stewart on Genealogy Matters.

Readers are encouraged to go to the blogs listed above and read their articles, and add the blogs to your Favorites, Feedly, another RSS feed, or email if you like what you read. Please make a comment to them also - all bloggers appreciate feedback on what they write.

Did I miss a great genealogy blog post? Tell me! I currently am reading posts from over 900 genealogy bloggers using Feedly, but I still miss quite a few it seems.


Read past Best of the Genea-Blogs posts here.


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Chula Vista Genealogical Society Meeting on Wednesday, 29 October Features Diana Elder

 Wednesday, 26 November 2025, 12 noon PST 

Chula Vista Genealogical Society 

General Meeting (in a Zoom Video Conference) 

"Understanding AI In Genealogy: 

Foundations And Tools"

by Diana Elder


Learn how artificial intelligence can help with your family history research. This presentation covers what AI is, how it works, and which tools are most useful for genealogy. We’ll look at popular AI assistants like ChatGPT, Claude, and Gemini and discuss what each one does best. You’ll learn how to work effectively with AI, including how to ask questions that get the best results and how to verify the information it provides. Whether you’re new to AI or already experimenting with it, this session will help you understand how to use these tools responsibly in your genealogy work.

Diana Elder AG, AGLTM, is a professional genealogist accredited in the Gulf South region of the United States. She is the author of Research Like a Pro: A Genealogist's Guide and co-author of Research Like a Pro with DNA: A Genealogist's Guide to Finding and Confirming Ancestors with DNA Evidence. With her daughter Nicole, Diana leads study groups and an eCourse that teach the Research Like a Pro methodology using comprehensive video instruction and interactive learning modules. She shares genealogical research strategies on Family Locket (familylocket.com) and co-hosts the Research Like a Pro Genealogy Podcast with Nicole. A sought-after speaker, Diana presents regularly at major conferences, including RootsTech and the National Genealogical Society Conference. She also enjoys conducting webinars and seminars for genealogical societies throughout the United States and abroad.

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PLEASE REGISTER for this event on the CVGS website (https://chulavistagenealogysociety.wildapricot.org/event-6161329).  An event email and reminders will be sent to all CVGS members the week before the event.  A confirmation email will be sent to all those who register with the Zoom link and the last email reminder will be sent on Wednesday morning of the event.

Attendance is free but only 100 Zoom seats are available, so please register soon.

This program will be held online using the Zoom video conferencing platform for Meetings.  It will be hosted by CVGS President Terri Seat. Contact presidentofcvgs@gmail.com if you have problems or register too late for the email.  The speaker handout and the program recording are available to CVGS members for one month after the event.  

Please note that the meeting starts at 12 noon Pacific Time (3 p.m. Eastern time, 2 p.m. Central time, 1 p.m. Mountain time). The Zoom Meeting room will be open by 11:45 a.m. Pacific Time for visiting and helping attendees connect.

NOTE: The Chula Vista Genealogical Society offers an annual membership of $30. Besides the monthly General Meeting with a program speaker on the last Wednesday of each month, there is a monthly Research Group meeting on second Wednesdays on Zoom, an in-person Education meeting on third Tuesdays, and a Family History Roundtable meeting on third Wednesdays on Zoom, all at 12 noon Pacific time.  There is also a monthly 8 page email newsletter chock full of program announcements, genealogy news, upcoming webinars, useful genealogy blog links, research tips, and even a genealogy funny.

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Disclosure:  I am a lifetime member of the Chula Vista Genealogical Society, a former Treasurer (2003-2004), Vice-President Programs (2005-2006), President (2007-8), and am currently the Research and Queries chairman (since 2003), Newsletter Editor (since 2009), Research Group host (since 2003), and Family History Roundtable host (since 2025).

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Betty and Fred's Story: New Beginnings

The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my mother, Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #3 Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver (1919-2002) of San Diego, California. I wrote Betty's Story: The First-Year Art Teacher about the start of her teaching career.

The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my father, Frederick Walton Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #2 Frederick Walton Seaver Jr. (1911-1983) of Massachusetts and San Diego, California.  I wrote Fred's Story: The Three-Day Cross-Country Escape  and Fred's Story: "I Need A Girl" about him coming to San Diego, and then wanting for a girlfriend.

Then I wrote Betty's Story: "The Dinner That Changed Everything" where Betty met Fred at Betty's student's home and their lives were changed.  Then came Betty and Fred's Story: "The First Date" where they got to know each other better.

                         (AI Gemini colorized images - Betty Carringer and Fred Seaver in 1941) 

1)  Based on the biographies and the earlier stories, I asked Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to tell another story - what happened next (I offered some suggestions!)?  Here is the next story (edited for more detail and accuracy):


Betty and Fred: New Beginnings

June 1941

Fred agreed to rent a bedroom at 1904 Granada Avenue from the elderly owners on a warm Saturday afternoon in early June. It wasn't much—a bedroom with nearby bathroom and a kitchen cupboard -- but it was his. No more sleeping on the Chamberlains' sofa, no more feeling like a perpetual houseguest. At twenty-nine years old, it was time to have his own place.

The best part? Granada Avenue was only five blocks from Fern Street. Five blocks from Betty.

He'd been dating her for almost three months now, seeing her nearly every weekend and sometimes on Wednesday evenings after she finished grading papers. What had started as attraction had deepened into something he'd never quite felt before—a combination of comfort and excitement, of feeling both completely himself and completely challenged to be better.

Betty helped him move in, bringing curtains her mother had sewn and a small painting she'd done of the San Diego Bay at sunset. She stood in the middle of his nearly empty living room, hands on her hips, surveying the space.

"You need furniture," she announced.

"I have furniture. There's the sofa the Chamberlains gave me. And I bought a bed."

"Fred Seaver, a sofa and a bed do not make a home. You need a table. Chairs. Lamps. Where are you going to eat?"

"Standing at the counter?"

Betty laughed and shook her head. "We're going shopping. Come on."

They spent the afternoon at secondhand stores and the Goodwill on University Avenue, Betty selecting pieces with an artist's eye for what would work in the small space. A small table and two chairs—oak, sturdy, only slightly scratched. A reading lamp with a green glass shade. A bookshelf for Fred's textbooks, manuals and the novels Betty kept insisting he should read.

"You can't just read technical manuals," she'd said. "You need stories. Fiction. Things that feed your soul."

"You feed my soul," he'd replied, and she'd blushed in that way he found completely enchanting.

By evening, the apartment looked almost livable. They sat on Fred's newly acquired sofa, eating sandwiches Betty had brought from home, admiring their work.

"It's starting to look like someone lives here," Fred said.

"It's starting to look like you live here," Betty corrected. "There's a difference."

Fred set down his sandwich and turned to face her. "Betty, I need to tell you something. I got a new job."

Her eyes widened. "You're leaving the finance company?"

"I am. I got an offer from Rohr Aircraft in Chula Vista. It's a newer company, smaller, but they're growing fast with all the military contracts. They want me in material control—making sure we have enough of the right materials coming in to make engine cowlings for warplanes. It's a step up, better pay, and honestly, more room to grow."

"Chula Vista. That's what, ten miles south?"

"About that. I start Monday." He reached for her hand. "The thing is, Betty, I'm taking this job because I'm planning to stay in San Diego. Permanently. I'm not going back to Massachusetts. I'm making a life here."

He didn't say the rest—that he was making a life here because of her, that every decision he made now factored in a future that included her. It was too soon to say that out loud, even though he felt it with absolute certainty.

But Betty seemed to understand anyway. She squeezed his hand and leaned her head on his shoulder. "I'm glad you're staying."

They sat like that as the June evening light faded, listening to the sounds of the neighborhood through the open windows—children playing, someone's radio playing big band music, a dog barking in the distance. It felt domestic, comfortable, like a preview of a future they were both beginning to imagine.

"I should get you home," Fred said reluctantly. "Your father will worry."

"My father worries anyway. It's his job." But Betty stood and gathered her things. At the door, Fred pulled her close and kissed her—longer than was probably wise, given that they were alone in his apartment, but not so long that either of them would regret it.

"Thank you for helping me today," he said against her hair.

"Thank you for letting me. I like taking care of you."

"I like being taken care of by you."

The words hung in the air, weighted with meaning. They were talking about more than furniture shopping, and both of them knew it.


Ocean Beach - July 1941

Summer meant no school for Betty, which meant more time together. They fell into a pattern of weekend adventures, exploring San Diego like tourists, discovering the city together.

One Saturday in mid-July, Fred picked Betty up at eight in the morning for a trip to Ocean Beach.

"Bring a sweater," he'd told her on the phone. "And wear something you don't mind getting sandy."

Betty emerged from the house in a blue and white striped dress, her dark hair pulled back with a scarf, carrying a canvas bag with towels and the sweater Fred had suggested. She looked like a movie star, Fred thought, like one of those photos in Life magazine of California girls at the beach.

Her mother appeared in the doorway behind her. "You two have fun. Don't let her get too much sun, Fred."

"I'll take good care of her, Mrs. Carringer."

"I know you will, dear."

They drove through town west to Sunset Cliffs Boulevard, the ocean appearing in glimpses between buildings until suddenly there it was—the vast Pacific, sparkling in the morning sun. Fred parked near the pier, and they walked down to the beach, removing their shoes to feel the sand between their toes.

The beach wasn't crowded yet—just a few early morning swimmers and some families setting up for the day. Fred spread out a blanket he'd brought, and they sat watching the waves roll in, mesmerized by the rhythm of it.

"I never get tired of this," Betty said. "Growing up here, you'd think I'd take it for granted. But I never do."

"Tell me what it was like, growing up in San Diego."

So Betty told him stories. About learning to swim at the municipal pool downtown. About school field trips to the tide pools at Point Loma and La Jolla. About the 1935 California Pacific International Exposition in Balboa Park, when she was sixteen and the whole city had felt electric with possibility.

"Everything changed after that," Betty said. "The city started growing faster. More people moving in. The Navy expanding. It started feeling less like a small town and more like a real city."

"Do you miss the way it was?"

Betty considered this. "Yes and no. I miss how everyone knew everyone. But I like the energy now, the sense that San Diego is becoming something important. Especially with the war—even though we're not in it yet, you can feel it. The city is gearing up, preparing. Everyone knows it's coming."

They were both quiet, thinking about the war raging across the Atlantic and Pacific. Hitler controlled most of Europe. The Japanese were advancing through Asia. America was still officially neutral, but that neutrality felt increasingly fragile.

"Do you think we'll get involved?" Betty asked quietly.

"I think it's inevitable. Roosevelt is doing everything short of declaring war—Lend-Lease, the military buildup. It's only a matter of time."

"What happens if we do go to war? Would you..."

She didn't finish the question, but Fred understood. "I don't know. I'm twenty-nine, probably too old for the first rounds of the draft. But if they need engineers, if they need men who understand aircraft manufacturing..." He trailed off. "Let's not think about that today. Today, we're at the beach."

He stood and held out his hand. "Come on. Let's walk in the water."

They rolled up their pant legs -- Betty tucked her skirt up -- and waded into the surf. The water was shockingly cold, and Betty shrieked when a wave splashed up to her knees.

"It's freezing!"

"Welcome to the Pacific Ocean. This is nothing -- you should try swimming in the Atlantic off Massachusetts in July. Now that's cold."

They walked along the water's edge, letting waves wash over their feet, collecting shells and bits of driftwood. Fred found a sand dollar, perfectly intact, and presented it to Betty like it was a precious jewel.

"For you, milady."

"My hero," she said, laughing, tucking it carefully into her bag.

Later, they bought hot dogs from a vendor on the pier and ate them sitting on a bench, watching fishermen cast their lines and children running up and down the wooden planks. The fog had burned off, and the day had turned warm and perfect.

"This is nice," Betty said. "Just this. Being together, not doing anything particularly special."

"Everything's special with you," Fred said, and then immediately felt embarrassed by how sappy that sounded. But Betty smiled and kissed his cheek.

"You're a romantic, Fred Seaver. Who knew?"

They stayed at the beach until mid-afternoon, when Betty's fair skin started turning pink despite the sweater she'd draped over her shoulders. Fred drove her home, both of them sandy and sun-tired and happy.

At her door, he kissed her goodbye and said, "Next weekend is your birthday. July 30th. We should do something special."

"We don't have to make a fuss."

"It's your twenty-second birthday, Betty. We're making a fuss."


Betty's Birthday - July 30, 1941

Fred had been planning Betty's birthday for two weeks, but he'd kept the details secret despite her repeated attempts to get him to tell her.

"Just wear something nice," was all he'd say. "And be ready by six."

Betty spent the afternoon trying on different dresses, finally settling on a rose-colored one with a sweetheart neckline that her mother said brought out her coloring. Emily helped her with her hair, pinning it up in soft waves, and even lent Betty her pearl necklace.

"You look beautiful, dear," Emily said. "Fred is a lucky man."

"I'm a lucky woman," Betty replied.

When Fred arrived at six, he was carrying a small wrapped box and wearing his best suit. His eyes lit up when he saw Betty.

"Happy birthday," he said, handing her the box.

Inside was a delicate silver bracelet with a small charm—a tiny artist's palette with miniature brushes.

"Fred, it's perfect," Betty breathed, holding it up to catch the light.

"I thought -- well, you're an artist. It seemed fitting." He fastened it around her wrist, his fingers lingering on her skin.

Lyle cleared his throat from the living room doorway. "Where are you taking our birthday girl?"

"The U.S. Grant Hotel downtown, sir. Dinner in the dining room. And then..." Fred smiled mysteriously. "That's a surprise."

The U.S. Grant was the finest hotel in San Diego, and Betty had never eaten in its elegant dining room. Fred had made reservations weeks ago, requesting a table by the window. They were seated with ceremony, given heavy menus with dishes Betty had only read about in magazines.

"Fred, this is too much," she whispered.

"It's your birthday. Nothing is too much."

They ordered carefully—Betty chose the salmon, Fred the prime rib—and talked over candlelight while a pianist played soft jazz in the corner. Other diners were dressed formally, speaking in hushed tones, and Betty felt very grown-up and sophisticated sitting there with Fred, being treated like someone important.

"Twenty-two years old," Fred said, raising his water glass in a toast. "How does it feel?"

"Old," Betty laughed. "When I was in high school, twenty-two seemed ancient. Now I feel like I'm just starting to figure things out."

"What have you figured out?"

"That teaching is harder than I thought. That I'm stronger than I knew. That..." She paused, meeting his eyes across the table. "That I'm capable of feeling more deeply than I imagined."

Fred reached across the table and took her hand. "I feel the same way. You've changed everything for me, Betty."

After dinner, Fred drove them to Balboa Park. Betty assumed they were going for a walk, but instead, he parked near the Old Globe Theatre.

"We're seeing a play?" Betty asked, delighted.

"'The Taming of the Shrew.' I know you love Shakespeare."

The Old Globe was magical in the summer evening, the open-air theater filled with people settling into their seats. Fred had gotten good seats, close enough to see the actors' expressions. Betty squeezed his hand as the lights dimmed and the play began.

She loved every minute—the comedy, the wordplay, the energy of live theater. During intermission, Fred bought them lemonade, and they walked in the park, past the lily pond where frogs were singing their evening chorus.

"This is the best birthday I've ever had," Betty said.

"It's not over yet."

After the play ended, they walked to the Spreckels Organ Pavilion, where someone was playing the massive pipe organ in the warm night air. They sat on a bench in the back, listening to Bach and Brahms echo across the canyon, watching stars appear in the darkening sky.

"I have something to tell you," Fred said quietly. "I've been holding it back, waiting for the right moment, and I think this is it."

Betty's heart started beating faster.

"I love you, Betty. I'm in love with you. I have been for weeks now, maybe months. And I know it's only been five months since we met, and maybe it's too fast, but I can't help how I feel. I wake up thinking about you. I go to sleep thinking about you. Everything good in my life is better because you're in it."

Betty felt tears prick her eyes. "Fred—"

"You don't have to say it back. I just needed you to know. On your birthday, I wanted you to know how special you are, how much you mean to me."

"I love you too," Betty said, her voice thick with emotion. "I've been afraid to say it, afraid of how big it feels. But I do. I love you."

Fred pulled her close and kissed her, deep and tender and full of promise. Around them, the organ music swelled, and the park settled into its nighttime beauty, and for this moment, everything was perfect.

When they finally pulled apart, Fred rested his forehead against hers. "Best birthday present you could have given me."

"It's my birthday."

"I know. But I'm the one who feels like he got a gift."

He drove her home slowly, taking the long way, neither of them ready for the evening to end. At her door, he kissed her goodnight—several times, actually, until the porch light flickered, Lyle's not-so-subtle signal that it was time for Fred to leave.

"Thank you," Betty whispered. "For everything. For the bracelet and the dinner and the play and the music and... for loving me."

"Thank you for being born twenty-two years ago," Fred replied. "Best thing that ever happened, even if it took me twenty-nine years to find you."

Betty floated into the house, touching the bracelet on her wrist, replaying every moment of the evening. Her mother was waiting in the living room, pretending to read.

"Good birthday?" Emily asked innocently.

"The best," Betty said. "The absolute best."

She went down the hall to her room, changed into her nightgown, and lay in bed staring at the ceiling. Fred loved her. He'd said it out loud, made it real. And she'd said it back, finally admitting what she'd been feeling for weeks.

Twenty-two years old, Betty thought. The beginning of the rest of her life.

Outside her window, the summer night sang with crickets and distant traffic and all the sounds of San Diego settling into sleep. And somewhere five blocks away, in an apartment on Granada Avenue, Fred Seaver was lying in his own bed, thinking about a woman named Betty Carringer and imagining a future that was starting to come into focus.

They didn't know about Pearl Harbor coming in December. Didn't know about the war and separation and challenges ahead. All they knew was this: they loved each other, and that was the foundation everything else would be built on.

Betty touched the artist's palette charm on her bracelet and smiled in the darkness. Twenty-two years old, and life was just beginning.


To be continued...

2) Here is the Google NotebookLM Video Overview about Fred and Betty's activities in the summer of 1941 in San Diego:


3)  Here is the Google NotebookLM Infographic for this story: 

3)  This story is historical fiction based on real people -- my parents -- and a real place. I don't know the real story of the next months -- but this is how it might have been. Claude is such a good story writer!  I added some details and corrected some errors in Claude's initial version.

Stay tuned for the next episode in this family story.

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