Wednesday, May 20, 2026

Genealogy Education Bytes - Week of 14 to 20 May 2026

  Welcome to Genealogy Education Bytes, posted on Wednesday afternoon for the past week, where we try to highlight some of the most important genealogy and family history education items that came across my desktop since the last issue.




1) Upcoming Conferences and Institutes:

* Conference Keeper Calendar - has many links to register for and/or view seminars, conferences and institutes.

* National Genealogical Society 2026 Family History Conference ($$, In-person and virtual, in Fort Wayne, Indiana) - 27 to 30 May 2026.

*  Palatines To America National Conference ($$, In-person, in Lancaster, Pennsylvania) -- 18 to 19 June 2026.

*  FEEFHS Annual Conference ($$, In-person, in Salt Lake City) -- 5 to 7 August 2026.

*  Pennsylvania's Genealogy Event "PaGE" 2026 Conference ($$, Virtual) -- 6 to 8 August 2026.

2 ) Upcoming Webinars and Online Classes (times are US Pacific):

* Conference Keeper Calendar - has many links to register for and/or view seminars, webinars and classes.

* FamilySearch MonthlyWebinars (Free)

* RootsTech 2019-2026 On-Demand Sessions (Free)

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar --  Wednesday, 20 May, 11 a.m.:  Advanced Topics in DNA 3 of 5: Advanced Relationship Analysis by Blaine Bettinger.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar --  Tuesday, 2 June, 7 p.m.:  Your Family Tree, Everywhere: Mac and iOS Genealogy Solutions by Linda Yip.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar --  Wednesday, 3 June, 8:30 a.m.:  10 Ways German Research Is Different from U.S. Research by Ernest Thode.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar --  Wednesday, 3 June, 9:45 a.m.:  German Surnames Unlocked: Meanings, Origins, and Clues by Andrea Bentschneider.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar --  Wednesday, 3 June, 11 a.m.:  Cracking the Case with German Records You’ve Never Used Before by Ursula C. Krause.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar --  Friday, 5 June, 11 a.m.:  Essential Skills for New Genealogists 3 of 12: U.S. Census Records from 1790-1950 and Beyond by Dave McDonald.


3) Recent Podcasts:

* Ancestors and Algorithms:  
Ep. 38: The Research Map - How AI Finds the Records You're Missing




4) Recent YouTube Videos:







*  Denyse Allen • Chronicle Makers AI Found the Story in Census Records I Already Have










*  Genealogy Quick Start:  


*  Int'l Institute of Genealogical Studies: English Genealogy Using Charles Booth London Poverty Maps

* Italian Roots and Genealogy:  Your Italian ancestry research just got 10x faster

*  Kathryn Lake Hogan - Looking4Ancestors:  A New Chapter for Genealogy with a Canadian Twist

*  Legacy Carvers:  My Uncle Died Three Different Ways


*  Marcia Philbrick:  Angelina's Song
*  Marcia Philbrick:  Angelina Currey Audio Overview
*  Marcia Philbrick:  Tracing Angelina Jane Burke




*  Randy Seaver, Geneaholic:  Betty and Freds Story: Christmas Day 1943



* Trace Your New England Roots:  This Pattern Is Why You Can't Find Them



5) Did you miss the last post in this series -- Genealogy Education Bytes - Week of 7 to 13 May 2026?

Read past Genealogy Education Bytes here.


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NOTE: If I missed an upcoming conference or webinar, or a useful podcast or video, in this time period, please let me know in a comment or an email.

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Life Memoir of Amos Plimpton (1735-1808) of Massachusetts In 1807

I wrote an AI-assisted ABC biography for my 5thy great-grandfather Amos Plimpton, a Revolutionhary War soldier,  in ABC Biography of Amos Plimpton and Mary Guild of Massachusetts (1735-1808), based on my genealogical research over 38 years. 

I wondered what Amos Plimpton might have told his grandchildren in a life memoir in 1807. 


(AI Google NotebookLM Infographic for Amos Plimpton's life memoir
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1)  I requested Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to   "Please write a life memoir for Amos Plimpton  based on the attached biography, as he might tell his grandchildren in 1807."

2)  The AI Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.6 memoir (edited for accuracy and completeness) is: 


The Life & Remembrances of
Amos Plimpton of Medfield, Massachusetts
1735 – 1808

As told to his grandchildren in the winter of 1807

On My Birth and the Family I Came Into

Come now, draw close to the fire, for the night is cold and I am not as young as once I was. Your grandmother Mary — God rest her — used to say I could talk the bark off an elm tree, and perhaps she was right. But I am seventy-two years old this past June, and if a man cannot speak plainly of his own life to his own grandchildren, then what is the use of living so long?

I was born on the sixteenth day of June, in the year of our Lord 1735, in this very town of Medfield, Suffolk County, Massachusetts Bay Colony. My father was John Plimpton, born in 1708, and my mother was Abigail Fisher, born in 1711. They married here in 1731 and set up housekeeping on this same ground where you sit tonight — ground that the Plimptons have held, and worked, and loved, since before your grandfather's grandfather's time.

My father was a steady, quiet man who kept his fields well and his word better. My mother was a woman of great endurance and practical sense — she outlived my father by nearly thirty years, which tells you something about the constitution of Abigail Fisher. She did not die until 1785, and when she went, I inherited this estate entire, paying out the shares owed to your great-aunt and great-uncle, as was right and proper.

I was the second child, the second son. My elder brother John was born in the winter of 1731 and 1732, a fine strong boy — and then he died in April of 1754, at twenty-two years of age, before Father even passed. That was a hard year, losing both brother and father in such quick succession. After John went, I became the eldest son, and the weight of this land and this name settled upon my shoulders. I have never shrugged it off, nor wished to.

After me came my sister Olive, born in 1737. She married Adam Peters in 1758 and died young in 1768, only thirty-one years old. Then my brother Abner, born about 1742 — a restless soul, Abner, who eventually made his way north to Vermont, where he lives yet, God willing. And youngest of us all was Unity, born about 1746, who married Benjamin Boyden and has lived in Medfield these many years still. Unity has always been the one most like our mother: steady, long-lived, not given to complaint.

On the House and the Land

Some of you have asked me about the old cellar hole behind the barn — the depression in the earth that I showed you last summer. That is where the very first Plimpton house stood in Medfield. Not this house. Not even the house before this one. The original. Older than your great-grandfather, older than his father. When that first house rotted away, as all things must, a second one was built on the spot now occupied by this house — a two-story structure with one great room below and the front door at the westerly end. They added a lean-to in the rear sometime after.

When I married your grandmother Mary in 1800 — that is, when I married your step-grandmother, Mary Breck, God bless her — your parents were still living here with me, and the house had grown too tight for all of us. So we added a new part to the west end, of much the same shape and size as the old part. The whole house became quite respectable, I think.

I have been told that I am the last of the Plimpton name to hold this original homestead. If that is so, I accept it with a full heart. The land passes to you, John, through my will, and I do not grieve the change of name, for the blood is the same. This ground will be tended by my grandchildren and their children, even if they bear a different name, and that is enough for any man.

The land has been my life's work. In 1765 I purchased a fifth-part share of a forty-five acre woodlot in Wrentham — good timber land, bounded on the north by the Charles River — from your great-uncle Abner and his wife Esther, for twelve pounds. I turned it over the same year to a yeoman named David Wight of Medway for twelve pounds and six shillings. That is the way of it: land is not merely a thing to hold, but a thing to work with, to trade in, to make something of. A man who only sits on his land and admires it will soon have no land at all.

On My Marriage to Mary Guild

Now I come to the part of the story that matters most, and I will not rush it.

I was twenty-one years old in December of 1756 — the same year my father died, which gave those months a mingled character of grief and joy that I have never quite forgotten. Your grandmother Mary Guild was born in 1735 in Walpole, the daughter of Nathaniel Guild and his wife Mary Boyden. Walpole is no great distance from Medfield — six miles, perhaps — and the families of those two towns had long been acquainted through trade and marriage and the general commerce of neighboring communities.

Mary was a handsome woman, sensible and kind, and she came from good stock. Her father Nathaniel lived to be eighty-four years of age, which I take as evidence of the constitution of the Guild family. Her mother Mary Boyden died in 1776. Mary had five brothers and sisters: Nathaniel, Mercy, Susanna, Samuel, and little Mehitable, the youngest. They were a close-knit family, as families in this part of the world tend to be.

We were married on the ninth of December, 1756, here in Medfield. The record in the town book says simply: 'Amos Plimpton and Mary Guild, Dec. 9, 1756.' Plain enough. But I tell you, there was nothing plain about that day to me.

We were married forty-four years. Let that number sit with you a moment. Forty-four years. She died on the twentieth of March, 1800, and there is not a morning since that I have not thought of her before I rose from my bed.

On Our Children

God gave us five children, and He saw fit to take three of them back while they were still small. I do not say this with bitterness, for I have seen enough of life to know that the Lord's purposes are not always made plain to us in this world. But neither will I pretend it was easy.

Molly was born on the eighth of May, 1758. She was our first and, for a long while, our great joy. She grew into a capable, warm-hearted woman, just as her mother was. She married Joseph Cole in 1780 and, after his death, your grandfather Amos Kingsbury in 1785. Molly and Amos, and you, John, have lived here with me on this land, and the arrangement has suited us all well enough, though I confess the house has been somewhat crowded from time to time.

Elizabeth came next, born the fourteenth of June, 1761. She was a bright, lively little creature. She died on the second of May, 1766, just before her fifth birthday. Mary and I buried her in the churchyard and carried the grief of it quietly, as one does.

Then John, born the twenty-second of September, 1763 — named for my grandfather, father and my brother, as was right. John died in October of 1765, not yet two years old. To lose a son you have named for your own father is a peculiar sorrow.

In March of 1770, another son was born to us — we called him Amos, after me. He lived two months. He died on the twenty-sixth of May, 1770. Three children dead before they could walk or talk or know us as their parents. Mary bore this with a grace that I could not always match.

And then came Mercy, the mother of you lively Smith grandchildren, born the ninth of September, 1772. She is well named — Mercy she has always been, gentle and steady. She married your father, Aaron Smith in 1795, and I have given her and Aaron the woodlot at Smith's Plane in my will, as well as six hundred dollars to be paid out over six years. It is the least I can do for a daughter who has brought her father nothing but comfort.

On the Revolution

I was thirty-nine years old when the war began. Some of you will think that a great age for soldiering, and perhaps it is. But I tell you that on the nineteenth of April, 1775, no man in Medfield who had the use of his legs stayed home.

The alarm came early in the morning. You have heard the story of Lexington and Concord — how the British Regulars marched out from Boston in the night to seize our powder and arms at Concord, and how the militia of Lexington met them on the green, and shots were fired, and men died. By the time the sun was fully up, the alarm had spread through every town in the county. I marched out with Captain Ephraim Chenery's company, part of Colonel John Smith's regiment. We served eleven days. I will not pretend we won any great glory in those eleven days, but we were there, and that mattered.

After that, I was commissioned Second Lieutenant in Captain Aaron Guild's company — Guild, you notice; an uncle, I believe, of your grandmother's — under Colonel Lemuel Robinson's regiment. We enlisted on the twenty-ninth of January, 1776. The regiment was raised in Suffolk and York counties, and we were sent to Dorchester Heights.

Now I want you to understand what Dorchester Heights meant. General Washington had been in Boston since the previous year, with the British army sitting in the town and the harbor full of their ships. All through the winter, the men had hauled the cannon that Colonel Knox had dragged across two hundred miles of wilderness from Fort Ticonderoga — great iron guns that we had captured from the British the spring before. In the night of the fourth of March, 1776, we moved those cannon to the heights above the harbor.

When the British general woke the next morning and looked up at Dorchester Heights, he saw cannon staring down at him from a position he could not take without great loss. He had two choices: attack and be destroyed, or leave. He left. The seventeenth of March, 1776, the British evacuated Boston. I was there. I saw those ships move out of the harbor. It is not nothing, to see such a thing.

I also served in Captain Sabin Mann's Medfield militia company. I am listed in the records as having paid fifteen pounds in September of 1777 in lieu of further service — a man drafted to complete the Continental quota. By that time I was forty-two years old, with a farm to keep and a family to feed. The law allowed for such payments, and I made mine without shame. I had already marched when others had not.

They call me Lieutenant Plimpton in the town records, and that is what is written on my stone in Vine Lake Cemetery. Lieutenant I was, and Lieutenant I shall remain.

On the Estate of My Father-in-Law

Mary's father, Nathaniel Guild, was a man of property in Walpole, and he lived long enough to see the Revolution won and the new nation established. He died in 1796, at the age of eighty-four. Before he died, in 1795, he made his will and left his estate in seven equal parts among his children. Mary received her seventh share.

In April of 1798, all of us — Mary and I, and Mercy and Ebenezer Hewins, and Susanna and Ezra Morse, and Mehitable Guild, and Samuel Guild of Easton — gathered our names to a deed and sold the Guild lands in Walpole and Sharon and Foxborough to Harman Guild for sixteen hundred and seventy-one dollars and forty-three cents. It was a considerable sum, and the settling of it brought to a close the Guild family's long connection to that Walpole land. Mary and I put our shares to good use here in Medfield.

On the Latter Years and the Loss of Mary

The census-takers came through in 1790 and again in 1800. In 1790, it was just Mary and me, the children grown and gone, the house quieter than it had been since before Molly was born. In 1800, it was me and Molly and her family had come back to live with us, and the house was livelier again.

Mary died on the twentieth of March, 1800. She had been my wife since I was twenty-one years old. She had buried three children without ever losing her steadiness. She had kept this house, kept this family, kept me — and I will not pretend that I was always easy to keep. She died in the spring, which I think she would have chosen if she could, for she loved the spring — the first snowdrops, the smell of the earth waking up.

I married again in November of 1800. Her name is Mary too — Mary Pratt, widow of Elijah Breck, from Sherborn. She was fifty years old when we married, fifteen years younger than I, and she has been a good and faithful companion to me in my old age. When she came to live here, Amos Kingsbury was still in the house, and we found it rather close quarters, which is why we added the new part to the west end. Two Marys I have had, and both of them better women than I deserved.

On the Writing of My Will

I wrote my will on the thirteenth of January of this year, 1807. I am seventy-one years old and in reasonable health for a man who has soldiered and farmed and buried children and outlived a wife. But I am not a fool, and a man who reaches my age without putting his affairs in order is a man who does not love his family.

I have left the house and land to you, John Kingsbury — my grandson, Molly's son. You are the one who has worked this ground beside me, and you are the one I trust to keep it. You will take possession of the house at my death, and of the rest of the land at your mother's death. In the meantime, I have asked you to provide for your step-grandmother Mary Breck: firewood and corn and rye and cider and pork and beef and cheese and butter and flax and wool, every year, as long as she remains my widow. That is not a small thing I ask of you, but I believe you are equal to it.

To your Aunt Mercy and her husband Aaron Smith, I have given the woodlot at Smith's Plane, and six hundred dollars to be paid out at one hundred dollars a year. Mercy has never asked me for anything in her life. It is time I gave her something without her asking.

The farming tools are yours, John. The wearing apparel goes to Aaron Smith. The remaining personal estate is divided equally among Amos Kingsbury, Aaron Smith, and yourself. I have tried to be fair. Whether I have succeeded, you will judge better than I can.

On What I Would Have You Remember

You are young yet, the lot of you. You cannot see from where you stand what your lives will become. I could not see it either, at your age. I was a farmer's second son in a small Massachusetts town, and I could not have told you that I would live to see a revolution, to stand on Dorchester Heights and watch the British fleet sail out of Boston harbor, to bury three children and a wife of forty-four years, and then to sit here by this fire and speak to grandchildren about it all.

What I know is this: the land endures. This ground beneath your feet has been Plimpton ground — your ground, in blood if not in name — for longer than any of us can easily reckon. Work it well. Do not be idle. Pay your debts. Keep your word. Marry someone of good character, for you will see that character in the daily round of years, long after beauty and youth have altered.

Serve your country when it calls you. It will call you, as it called me, and you must answer. But come home again. This is where you belong.

I am an old man now, and I have been given to understand by my body that I shall not always be so particular about when and where I sit down. My joints inform me of the weather, which is perhaps the only weather forecasting I have ever found reliable. I am not afraid of what is coming. The stone is already cut, out there in Vine Lake Cemetery, and the verse chosen. I have made my peace with God and with this town and with the long line of Plimptons who kept this land before me.

But tonight I am warm, and the fire is good, and you are here. That is enough. That is, in truth, everything.

— Amos Plimpton, Medfield, Massachusetts, January 1807

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A Note on This Account

This is a memoir imagined as Amos Plimpton himself might have told it — in the voice and language of a New England yeoman of his era, speaking to his grandchildren in the winter of 1807, the year he wrote his will. All names, dates, places, and events are drawn faithfully from the historical record. The voice is his alone.

A Note on Sources

All facts in this memoir — names, dates, places, land transactions, military service, and the terms of the will — are drawn faithfully from primary historical records including the Medfield and Walpole Vital Records, Massachusetts Soldiers and Sailors of the Revolutionary War, the Norfolk County Probate Court Records, the Massachusetts Land Records, and the U.S. Federal Censuses of 1790 and 1800. The voice and manner of telling are imagined, but the life is real.


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3)  The Video Overview of Amos Plimpton's life memoir, created by the Google NotebookLM AI tool, is:      

4)  I edited the Claude memoir text to correct minor inconsistencies and errors. Every large language model (LLM) AI tool writes descriptive text much better than I can write. The AI tools are very perceptive, insightful and inspiring, creating engaging text in seconds, including local and national historical events and social history detail when requested.

5)  This is historical fiction, based on my own genealogical research and family records. It is what Amos Plimpton might have told his grandchildren in 1807.  

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

Copyright (c) 2026, Randall J. Seaver

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Scott and Fred Seaver in Uniform in 1970 -- (Not So) Wordless Wednesday #917

 This is a priceless (to me) image in my computer file folders from the Seaver family collection:


This photograph is of my youngest brother, Scott, with our Father Frederick Walton Seaver, in about 1970 at the Pioneer Presidio Pony League field in Balboa Park as part of the Morley Field complex (south of Upas Street, in San Diego). 

By 1970, there were four baseball fields at Morley Field -- two for Little League (ages 8-12), one for Pony League (ages 13 and 14) and one for Colt League (ages 15-16).  Our father coached and managed there from 1957 to 1971. We essentially "lived baseball" at Morley Field from April through June several nights a week and most of Saturday.  

This event is part of my family history!!

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Tuesday, May 19, 2026

Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 13 to 19 May 2026

 Welcome to Genealogy News Bytes, posted on Tuesday afternoon for the past week, where we try to highlight the most important genealogy and family history news  items that came across our desktop since the last issue.    


1)  Genealogy and Family History News Articles:



















4)  New or Updated Genealogy Digital Record Collections:










5)  Did you miss the last post in this series?  See Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 6 to 12 May 2026.


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Betty and Fred’s Story: Building a Life Together – Fred’s Christmas 1943 Letter

 After I wrote and posted Betty and Fred’s Story: Building a Life Together – Christmas Day 1943 on Sunday morning, I asked my AI-assistant Anthropic Claude to write "The Christmas Letter" from Fred to Betty and promptly forgot to publish it.  Here it is:  

(Google NotebookLM Infographic -- Fred's 1943 Christmas Letter)

Betty and Fred’s Story: Building a Life Together – Fred’s Christmas 1943 Letter

The Letter


The envelope was cream-colored, standard stationery from the box Betty kept in the secretary desk in the bedroom. Fred had taken two sheets on a Tuesday evening while Betty was giving Randy his bath, and had sat at the kitchen table with the overhead light on and written for forty-five minutes, which was longer than he had written anything since his last examination at school. He had made one false start and thrown it away. What follows is what he kept.


For Betty, Christmas 1943


December 14, 1943

Dear Betty,

I am not a man who writes letters well, and you know that about me, so you will have to forgive what follows if it comes out sideways. I have been trying to say some of this for a while now and talking doesn't seem to be the right tool for it. Maybe writing will do better. We'll see.

I want to tell you about the year.

I know we lived the same year, you and I, but I think we each saw different parts of it, and there are things I saw that I don't think you know I saw, and it seems important to tell you now while the year is still here.

In January, when the weather finally turned and you suggested we drive down to the bay on a Sunday afternoon, you wore the blue dress, the one with the small buttons, and your hair was down, and you looked sideways at me from the passenger seat when I said something foolish and laughed, and I thought: I am the luckiest man who ever lived.

I have thought that many times this year. I want to make sure you know that.

In March, when we found out about Randy, you came to tell me and you had the most extraordinary expression — like you were carrying something very fragile and very bright at the same time and weren't sure you trusted yourself not to drop it. I know you were frightened. I was frightened too, though I don't think I said so, which is something I should do better. But underneath the frightened part there was something else, and I want you to know that the something else was bigger. I walked around for three days feeling like I might float off the ground.

I watched you this year carry a pregnancy through the summer heat and keep the house and write letters to your mother and worry about the future and never once — not once — ask me to feel sorry for you. You don't do that. You never do. I notice that, Betty. I notice it every time.

I want to say something about Rohr, and about this year of work, because I think it matters and I don't say it enough.

I go in every morning and I do my job — the material control, the requisitions, the tracking of parts and specifications and supply chains — and I know that from the outside it does not look like much. It is not glamorous work. I am not the man in uniform. I sit at a desk and I manage the flow of materials for aircraft that other men will fly and other men will build, and some days I wonder if I am doing enough, if I am where I ought to be, if there is something more I should be doing while other men are overseas.

And then I think about the work itself. The Rohr parts going into those planes. The planes going up. And I think about the men who depend on those planes coming off the line right, and I think: the material control matters. Every requisition matters. Every part that arrives on time and gets to the right place — that matters. I have decided to believe that this year, and I am going to keep believing it.

But I also need to say this plainly: every morning when I drive to Chula Vista and walk into that plant, I know that I am coming home to you at night. That is not nothing. That is, in fact, everything. I am aware every single day that there are men who are not coming home at night, who have not come home in months or years, whose wives wait and write letters and listen for the telegram boy and try not to. I do not take it for granted. I will not take it for granted.

In September, when Randy was coming, I was not there for the waiting part, and I am sorry for that. You had your mother and Georgianna and the others, and I know they took good care of you, but I know it wasn't the same as having me there, and I should have been there more than I was, and I am sorry.

And then Randy.

I don't know how to write about Randy without making a mess of it, so I will just say this: the first time I held him, I understood something I had not understood before about what a person is for. I don't mean that I didn't have purpose before. I mean that I looked at his face and something in me — reorganized. Like furniture that has been in the wrong arrangement for years and someone finally moved it and now the room makes sense.

He has your mouth. I think he has your patience, too, which is either something he was born with or something he absorbed from proximity to you, and either way I am grateful, because he did not get it from me.

I have watched you become a mother this fall. I want to say that plainly. I have watched you do it — not easily, nobody does it easily, but surely, in the way you do things when you have decided to do them. I have watched you at three in the morning, exhausted past what I thought a person could be exhausted and still function, and you are still there, still all the way there for him. I know you don't always feel like you know what you're doing. You've said so. But Betty, from where I stand, you know exactly what you're doing.

Here is what else I know. I know that this year has been hard. I know that next year may be harder. I know that there are things ahead I cannot predict and some of them frighten me and I would be lying if I said otherwise. The war is not over. Nothing is certain. There is always the possibility that the draft board will come to a different conclusion than they have so far, and I will not pretend that thought doesn't cross my mind, because it crosses my mind regularly. But I have decided not to live inside that worry. I have decided to live inside this — inside this house, this street, this year, this boy, this life with you.

Here is what is certain.

You are the best decision I have ever made. Not the marriage — though that too — but the decision before the marriage, the one I made when I looked at Lyle Carringer's daughter and thought: that one. I would make it again. I would make it in any year, in any room, under any circumstances. I would always choose you.

I want us to grow old together, Betty. I want to be the old man in the chair who embarrasses our children by telling the same stories too many times. I want to watch Randy grow up and I want there to be other children if we are lucky, and I want a house that always smells like something good, and I want Saturday mornings and the drive to church and your hand in mine when we walk, and all the ordinary days.

That's what I want. That is the whole list.

Thank you for this year. Thank you for Randy. Thank you for the blue dress and the laugh in the car and the expression on your face in March and every ordinary evening you made into something worth coming home to.

I love you more than I know how to say, so I have written around it instead and I hope you can see it from all the different angles.

Merry Christmas, Betty.

All my love, now and forward —

Fred


Betty read it twice after they got home from Fern Street, once quickly and once slowly, sitting in the bedroom with the door closed for ten minutes while Fred was in the kitchen with Randy giving him a bath, and put him in his chair. When she came out her eyes were bright but she was composed, and she walked to where Fred stood at the counter and put her arms around him from behind and held on for a long moment without saying anything.

Fred put his hand over hers.

Randy, in his chair on the table, observed this with his usual serious attention.

He would not remember it, of course. But it happened, and it was real, and that is the same thing.

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This story is historical fiction based on real people -- my parents and me -- and a real event in a real place. I don't know the full story of these events -- but this is how it might have been. I hope that it was at least this good! Claude is such a good story writer! I added some details and corrected some errors in Claude's initial version.

Stay tuned for the next chapter in this family story.

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The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my mother, Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #3 Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver (1919-2002) of San Diego, California. I also  wrote Betty's Story: The First-Year Art Teacher about the start of her teaching career.

The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my father, Frederick Walton Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #2 Frederick Walton Seaver Jr. (1911-1983) of Massachusetts and San Diego, California.  I also wrote Fred's Story: The Three-Day Cross-Country Escape  and Fred's Story: "I Need A Girl" about him coming to San Diego, and wanting a girlfriend.

Here are the previous chapters in this story:

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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