Monday, September 14, 2026

Randy's Genealogy Pot-Pourri - Week Ending 13 September 2026

  Here are the highlights of my family history and genealogy related activities over the past week (ending Sunday, 13 September 2026). 

1)  Hosted and moderated the Chula Vista Genealogical Society (CVGS) Research Group Meeting on Wednesday and reported on LFT Webtember, and Learning Paths, GEDmatch website redesign, the updated GLO website, new books, the "Memories Book" and 20 Record Types for genelaogists to use.

2)  Attended the San Diego Genealogical Society (SDGS) Fall Seminar meeting on Zoom on Saturday, with Mary Sayles presenting four talks.  

3)  Curated genealogy-related articles to keep myself and my readers updated on the genealogy world in:

8)  Wrote an AI-assisted short story about my maternal grandparents lives and romance on Genea-Musings and Substack:
9)  Housekeeping -- updated my Randy's AI and Genealogy page and added to the AI-assisted story  compendiums. Added a number of the recent Google Notebook Videos to my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@RandySeaver.

10)  Searched for more records of ancestral families on Ancestry, FamilySearch and MyHeritage, downloaded record images to my digital file folders, and added research notes, events and sources to RootsMagic profiles.  My RootsMagic family tree now has 75,135 profiles (up 11 from last week)  and 148,151 source citations (up 33).  

11)  My AncestryDNA test now has 52,484 DNA matches (up 17 from 6 September) with 2,222  "close" matches (20 cM or more) today (up 0), with no new ThruLines.  Added Notes to no Matches, and added no new DNA match lines to RootsMagic. MyHeritageDNA test now has 14,941 DNA matches (up 42 from 6 September) for me, with 26 Theories of Family Relativity.  

12) Wrote 22 Genea-Musings blog posts last week (Sunday through Saturday), of which two were a press release. The most viewed post last week was Betty and Fred’s Story: Building a Life Together – The First Week Apart, Late August 1944  with 240 views.  Genea-Musings had about 108,000 page views last week and over 608,000 views over the past month (lots of bots I think). 

13)  Real life events:  Visited Linda several days this past week at her memory care facility.  Went to the grocery store on Monday and Friday. Went to the root canal doctor for Tooth #31.  Went to the church Men's Group breakfast on Saturday. Finished reading Twisted by Jonathan Kellerman and started The Dover Trunk Murder by Nathan Dylan Goodwin. Talked to grandsons Lucas and Charlie on their birthdays. Watched the Padres games - they were 6-0 this past week and are 81-68. Watched the San Diego State Aztecs football gmw ad they lost to UCLA 28-10.  Watched the Chargers game and they lost 26-14. 

NOTE:  I spent about 30 hours on these genealogy activities this week,  learned quite a bit, and had some genealogy fun!

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Life of the John Auble (1780-1831) Family In Sussex County, New Jersey in 1825

 I asked my AI Assistant Anthropic Claude to provide information about my ancestral family's life in 1825 in Sussex County, New Jersey.  My 3rd great-grandparents John and Anna (Row) Auble had married in 1804, and by 1825 had seven living children, including my 2nd great-grandfather, David Auble (1817-1894). I posted ABC Biographies for John and Anna (Row) Auble in ABC Biography of #56 John Auble (1780-1831) of New Jersey and ABC Biography of #57 Anna (Row) Auble (1787-1860) of New Jersey.

I asked Anthropic Claude to create a description of the family life, work, education, community affairs and entertainment for the John and Anna (Row) Auble family in Sussex County, New Jersey in 1825 based on the biographies and social history.

(AI NotebookLM infographic -- Life of the John Auble Family in 1825)

Here is the Anthropic Claude Sonnet 5 response:  


Life of the John Auble (1780-1831) Family In

Sussex County, New Jersey in 1825


The Auble Household in 1825

In 1825, John Auble was 45 years old, and he and his wife Anna were in the midst of their busiest years of child-rearing. Their household in Green township, Sussex County included seven living children:

  • Sophia (age 20) - now a young woman, likely helping manage the household and beginning to think of marriage

  • William (age 17) - approaching manhood, probably beginning to take on more substantial work responsibilities

  • Sarah (age 14) - old enough to help significantly with household management and childcare

  • Elizabeth (age 11) - still childhood, but old enough to be useful in both household and farm work

  • David (age 8) - beginning his education and contributing simple farm tasks

  • Nathan (age 5) - still requiring substantial supervision and care

  • Samuel (age 2 to 3) - a toddler needing constant attention

Both John Auble and Anna Row grew up in Hunterdon County in German-speaking families, and their 1804 marriage was celebrated in the Zion Lutheran Church in Oldwick. They moved to Sussex County before 1810. John's parents and Anna’s father had died by 1820.

Family Life and Household Structure

The Auble household would have operated as an economic and social unit. Anna, now in her late 30s, would have been the primary manager of the home, directing the work of her daughters and overseeing the domestic economy. With children spanning ages 2 to 20, there were multiple generations of work and dependency happening simultaneously.

Work and Agriculture

As Sussex County residents in 1825, the Aubles lived in an area that was primarily agricultural. New Jersey's northwestern region, particularly Sussex County, was known for farming operations ranging from small subsistence farms to more substantial operations. The most likely scenario is that John worked his land as a farmer or tenant farmer in Green township, engaging in mixed agriculture typical of the region.

Agricultural Practices:

  • Crops would have included corn, wheat, oats, and hay -- staples of mid-Atlantic farming

  • Vegetable gardens near the home for family consumption

  • Dairy cows and other livestock (cattle, pigs, sheep) for subsistence and local sale

  • Seasonal work patterns dominated life: spring planting, summer cultivation, fall harvest, winter preparation

Division of Labor:

  • John and older sons (William, David): field work, heavy labor, livestock management

  • Anna and daughters (Sophia, Sarah, Elizabeth): food preparation, preservation, clothing manufacture, gardening, childcare

  • Younger children: small tasks appropriate to their age - gathering eggs, tending gardens, helping with younger siblings

The 1830 census reveals John's estate inventory totaled only $307 in personal property with no real estate listed, suggesting the family likely rented their land rather than owned it - a common arrangement in New Jersey at the time.

Education

Education in Sussex County in 1825 was limited and informal by modern standards. The region had begun establishing rural schools, but attendance was inconsistent and often limited to winter months when farm work was lighter.

  • David and Nathan (the younger school-age boys) would likely attend a local school if one was available, probably for basic reading, writing, and arithmetic

  • Elizabeth may have attended school periodically, though female education was often less systematic

  • Older children (Sophia, William, Sarah) likely had received whatever formal education was available years earlier and by 1825 were focused on practical skills

  • Literacy was valued in the Lutheran community, and with the family's church connections, there may have been informal religious instruction

Education would have been primarily practical: girls learning household management, food preservation, and needle work from their mother; boys learning agricultural and trade skills from their father and older brothers.

Religious Life and Community

The Stillwater Union Church in Stillwater, about five miles from Green, was the spiritual center of the Auble family's community life. There are no availabel church record thaqt might show baptisms of the children or church membership. Anna was buried there in 1860.

Religious Activities:

  • Sunday worship at Stillwater Union Church

  • Seasonal religious observances and festivals

  • Pastoral visits for family blessings and sacraments

  • Religious instruction within the home

The Lutheran community in this region was largely German or of German descent, so the church was as much a cultural center as a spiritual one, preserving German traditions and language alongside English.

Daily Life and Entertainment

Life in rural Sussex County in 1825 was demanding and left little time for leisure by modern standards, but entertainment and social activities did exist:

Home-Based Activities:

  • Music and singing (particularly hymn singing given the Lutheran tradition)

  • Storytelling and family conversation

  • Needlework, quilting, and other handcrafts for women

  • Simple games and play for children

  • Reading (for the literate), though books were expensive and limited

Community Gatherings:

  • Church services and associated social time before and after

  • Barn raisings and work parties (common in agricultural communities)

  • Market days when goods could be sold or bartered

  • Occasional tavern visits for men and public communication

  • Militia musters (a militia was still maintained in rural New Jersey)

  • Neighbors visiting for births, weddings, and funerals

Seasonal Celebrations:

  • Christmas observances with family gatherings

  • Easter celebrations (particularly important in the Lutheran tradition)

  • Harvest festivals

  • Wedding and birth celebrations within the extended family

Food and Nutrition

The Auble family's diet would have been based on what they could grow or produce:

  • Corn in various forms (cornmeal, hominy)

  • Root vegetables (potatoes, turnips, carrots, parsnips) stored for winter

  • Beans and legumes

  • Dairy products (milk, cheese, butter)

  • Preserved meats (salt pork, ham)

  • Seasonal fruits (apples from orchards)

  • Wild game when available

  • Bread from home-grown or locally-milled grain

Food preservation would have been critical for survival through winter - salting, smoking, drying, and pickling techniques would have occupied considerable time, particularly for Anna and her daughters in late summer and fall.

Material Conditions

Based on the 1830 inventory showing $307 in personal property, the Aubles lived modestly but not in poverty. Their home likely consisted of:

  • A modest house with multiple rooms (to accommodate 7+ children and parents)

  • Basic furnishings

  • Farm buildings - barn, sheds, storage structures

  • Essential tools and equipment for farming and household work

  • Clothing made at home or acquired through trade

  • Minimal decorative items

This was a working family focused on subsistence and survival, with modest comforts rather than luxuries.

The Rhythm of Life

The year 1825 would have followed the agricultural calendar that governed rural American life:

  • Spring: planting, preparing fields, intensive labor

  • Summer: cultivation, weeding, care of crops and animals

  • Fall: harvest, food preservation, preparation for winter

  • Winter: indoor tasks, maintenance, religious observance, and family time

Social Position

The Aubles occupied a middle position in Sussex County's social hierarchy - above the poorest landless laborers, but without the wealth or status of large landowners. They were part of a respectable community of farmers and small tradespeople, connected through church, family ties, and neighborly cooperation.

Their German Lutheran heritage was part of their identity, even as American society claimed an increasing share of their allegiance. Their children's lives (1825 represents a generational turning point) would have straddled this German and American identity as their parents' generation had done.

This was a life of hard work, family obligation, religious faith, and modest comforts - typical of rural American agricultural families in the early 19th century, grounded in the specific context of Sussex County, New Jersey's mix of German immigrant heritage and expanding American opportunity.

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The AI Google NotebookLM Video Overview of this story is below and on my YouTube channel:

This is historical fiction based on known events in the lives of my ancestors -- it might have been this way. John and Anna (Row) Auble are my 3rd great-grandparents, and I have significant information about her family from the available records, but I know little about her day-to-day lives.

As always, I am amazed at what life was like in any place over 200 years ago. This description of their family life in 1825 New Jersey is interesting and so different from our current daily activities.  I'm glad that the general lifestyles and occupations are known from historical records and witness accounts.

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Amanuensis Monday -- 1841 Deed of Hinsdale Fisher to Lucy Butterfield For Land in Medfield, Norfolk County, Massachusetts

This week's document for transcription is the 1841 Deed of Hinsdale Fisher (administrator of the Alpheus B. Smith estate) of Medfield, Norfolk County, Massachusetts, selling 16 acres of land in Medfield to Lucy Butterfield of Dedham for $358.

*  Norfolk County, Massachusetts, Deeds 1842-1843, Page 109 (penned in upper right corner), Image 440 of 663

The transcription of this deed (with help from FamilySearch Full-Text Search, with a few errors corrected) is:

[Page 109, Starting near the bottom of the left-hand page of the image]

To all People to whom these Presents shall come, 
Whereas I Hinsdale Fisher Administrator upon the estate of 
Alpheus B. Smith late of Medfield in the County of Norfolk 
deceased, by an order of the Judge of Probate of said Coun-
ty made at a Probate Court holden at Dedham on the 
first Tuesday of August 1840, was licensed to make sale 
of the real estate of said deceased so far as should be ne-
cessary to pay the sum of Six hundred twenty three dolls
and seventy one cents being the just debts of said deceased
 over and above what his personal estate will pay. Therefore 
Know ye that I the said Hinsdale Fisher Administrator as 
aforesaid as well by virtue of the power and authority to me 

[Page 109, Continuing at the top of the right-hand page of the image]

given as aforesaid : as in consideration of the sum of three 
hundred and fifty eight dollars paid me by Lucy Butterfield 
of Dedham in said County the receipt whereof is hereby ac-
knowledged have granted bargained and sold and do hereby 
grant bargain and sell, confirm and convey unto her the 
said Lucy, her heirs and assigns forever, the following described 
real estate, situated in the Southerly part of Medfield, and
bounded as follows viz: Northerly on the heirs of Elisha Clark,
 Mrs Keziah Mann and Eliakim Morse. Easterly upon the 
land of David Smith. Southerly upon Asa Hamont, Westerly 
upon road leading to Walpole and containing sixteen acres 
more or less. And also all the reversionary right in that 
part of said deceased, real estate which was set off to and 
assigned his widow as her Dower consisting of about one acre 
of land with a house and barn thereon.
      To Have and to Hold the same with all the privileges 
and appurtenances thereof to her the said Lucy her heirs 
and assigns forever. And I do hereby in the capacity 
aforesaid covenant with the said Lucy her heirs and assigns 
that the said Alpheus B. Smith died seized of the premises, 
That I was duly licensed by said Court to make sale thereof,
and that it was necessary the same should be sold for the
purposes aforesaid, that previous to the intended sale I 
took the oath prescribed by law, and gave public notice 
thereof according to the directions of said Judge and that
the said Lucy offered the most for the said premises and 
the same were thereupon struck off to her for the aforesaid 
at a public vendue held at the house on the premises on 
the twenty first day of April 1841. And I do further in 
the capacity aforesaid covenant to and with the said 
Lucy her heirs and assigns. And I do further in the ca-
pacity aforesaid covenant to and with the said Lucy her 
heirs and assigns that the premises are free of all incum-
brances, and that I will warrant, ^secure^ and defend the same to 
her the said Lucy her heirs and assigns forever against the 
lawful claims and demands of all persons. In witness 
whereof I have hereunto set my hand and seal this first 
day of May A.D. eighteen hundred and forty one. Hinsdale 
Fisher Administrator {seal) Signed Sealed and delivered in 
presence of Jon'a P. Bishop. Caroline E. Bishop, Norfolk ss. 
August 16. 1841. Then personally appeared the above named 
Hinsdale Fisher, and acknowledged the above to be his free 
act and deed , before me Jon'a P. Bishop Jus. Peace 
Jan'y 2- 1843. Rec'd Entered & Examined 
                                                  By Enos Foord Reg'r

The source citation for this deed is:

"Norfolk County, Massachusetts, United States land records," Deed of Hinsdale Fisher to Lucy Butterfield,  executed 1 May 1841, recorded 2 January 1843; imaged, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9ZH-VVF7?view=fullText : accessed 9 September 2026), Image Group Number: 007459119, "Norfolk Deeds, 1842–1843, 1842, Land Records 1842, 1842–1843," page 109 (penned), image 440 of 663; original papers at Norfolk County (Massachusetts) Register of Deeds.

By this record it appears that Hinsdale Fisher, acting as administrator on the estate of Alpheus B. Smith, sold 16 acres of land in Medfield, Norfolk County, Massachusetts, to Lucy Butterfield of Dedham for $358.

Alpheus B. Smith (1802-1840) married Elizabeth Horton Dill (1791-1869) in 1826, and they had two children.  They are my 3rd great-grandparents through their daughter Lucretia Townsend Smith (1828-1884) who married Isaac Seaver (1823-1901) in 1851. 

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NOTE: Genea-blogger John Newmark (who writes the excellent TransylvanianDutch blog) started a Monday blog theme years ago called "Amanuensis Monday." John offers this definition for "amanuensis:"

"A person employed to write what another dictates or to copy what has been written by another."

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Sunday, September 13, 2026

Best of the Genea-Blogs -- Week of 6 to 12 September 2026

Scores of genealogy and family history bloggers write hundreds of posts every week about their research, their families, and their interests. I appreciate each one of them and their efforts.


My criteria for "Best of ..." are pretty simple - I pick posts that advance knowledge about genealogy and family history, address current genealogy issues, provide personal family history, are funny or are poignant. I don't list posts destined for most daily blog prompts or meme submissions (but I do include summaries of them), or my own posts.

Here are my picks for great reads from the genealogy blogs for this past week:














Here are pick posts by other geneabloggers this week:

* The Chiddicks Observer Edition 71 [7 September 2026] by Paul Chiddicks on Stories Behind the Records.

* Friday’s Family History Finds [11 September 2026] by Linda Stufflebean on Empty Branches on the Family Tree.

* This week’s crème de la crème -- September 12, 2026 by Gail Dever on Genealogy a la Carte.

* GenStack [12 September 2026] by Robin Stewart on Genealogy Matters.


Readers are encouraged to go to the blogs listed above and read their articles, and add the blogs to your Favorites, Feedly, another RSS feed, or email if you like what you read. Please make a comment to them also - all bloggers appreciate feedback on what they write.

Did I miss a great genealogy blog post? Tell me! I currently am reading posts from over 900 genealogy bloggers using Feedly, but I still miss quite a few it seems.

Read past Best of the Genea-Blogs posts here.

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Betty and Fred’s Story: Building a Life Together – The First Week Apart, Late August 1944

  Here is the latest chapter in the story of the married life and times of my parents, Fred and Betty (Carringer) Seaver, who married in July 1942. The background information and the list of chapters of their life together are listed at the end of this post.  This is historical fiction with real people and real events, and is how it might have been.

And now we are up to  late-August 1944, two years plus into World War II.  Betty and Randy have gone to live with Betty's parents, and Fred reported for enlistment and training in the U.S. Navy.  Their first week after he enlisted was eventful.


                (AI NotebookLM Infographic - Betty and Fred's Story, The First Week Apart)

Based on the biographies and the earlier stories, I asked Anthropic Claude Sonnet 5 to tell another story - what happened next (I offered some suggestions!)?  


Betty and Fred’s Story; Building a Life Together 

– The First Week Apart


Fern Street, Late August 1944

Betty's childhood bedroom had never been meant to hold three people's worth of living, and by the second night it was clear it was going to have to learn how. The double bed took up most of the far wall, and her old dresser stood where it always had, drawers now doing double duty for her things and Randy's both. His crib had been wedged in near the window, close enough that she could reach it without getting out of bed, and what closet space remained after her dresses went in was stacked to the shelf with diapers, tins of formula, and the small mountain of supplies a ten-month-old required. There was no changing table, so she changed him on the bed itself, a folded towel under him and a practiced economy of motion that came from a week of doing it exactly that way — Randy kicking and grabbing for whatever was nearest while she worked.

It was crowded, and it was loud in the particular way a full house is loud, and Betty found, somewhat to her own surprise, that she didn't mind it nearly as much as she'd expected to. There was something steadying about not being alone with the quiet.

Randy, for his part, had decided the whole house was his to conquer. He crawled the length of the hallway with a determination that made Lyle laugh out loud the first time he saw it, and within a few days he'd worked out that the legs of the dining room table and the arms of the good chairs were things a person could pull himself up on, and so he spent long stretches of every afternoon hauling himself upright, wobbling, sitting down hard, and starting the whole business over again. Emily and Georgia took to trailing him from room to room with the patient, unhurried attentiveness of women who had raised children of their own and knew there was no rushing this particular kind of progress.

Some mornings Emily and Georgia took him out into the garden after Lyle went off to work, propping him in the grass near the flower beds while they worked, and he'd sit there contentedly pulling up fistfuls of grass and inspecting them with enormous seriousness before Georgia gently redirected his attention to something less dirt-covered. Other evenings it was the greenhouse with Lyle, Randy propped on a stool or held against Lyle's hip while his grandfather went about the business of the seedlings, narrating what he was doing in the same even, patient voice he used for everything, as though a ten-month-old were entirely capable of following a discussion of soil and light.

Betty took her sketchbook out to the garden on some mornings and sat in the shade with it open on her knee, drawing while she watched — Randy's fat little hand closing around a fistful of grass, Emily bent low beside him pointing at something in the flower bed, Georgia's profile against the hydrangeas, Lyle's careful hands among the seedlings with Randy propped against his shoulder. They weren't polished drawings. She didn't have the time or the stillness for that this week. But there was something in the act of putting pencil to paper that let her hold onto the morning a little longer than the morning itself would allow, and by the end of the week she had a small stack of pages that amounted, without her quite planning it, to a record of exactly how her son was spending his days without his father.

Lyle, of course, had his own way of keeping a record. The camera came out constantly — the still camera for Randy standing at the coffee table with his knees not quite trusting themselves yet, the 8mm for the longer business of him crawling the length of the hall or sitting in the grass with Georgia — and Lyle handled all of it with the same unhurried care he brought to his garage inventory, cataloguing his grandson's small triumphs the way he catalogued everything else that mattered to him.

In the evenings, once Randy was down, the house settled into a different kind of business — Lyle at his desk, Emily and Georgia with mending or the radio, Betty often just sitting, tired in the particular way that comes from a day spent chasing a child who has only recently discovered his own legs. She thought about Fred more in those quiet hours than she let on to anyone. There was no way yet to know what his days looked like, and the not-knowing had its own particular weight to it.

Naval Training Center San Diego, Late August 1944

Fred's days, had Betty been able to see them, would not have looked like anything from their life together.

Mornings began before the sun was properly up, and from the moment his feet hit the deck — he was already correcting himself, floor to deck, without quite meaning to — the day moved in a sequence that left no room for hesitation: make the bunk to the exacting Navy standard, shave, wash, dress, square away his locker and gear, fall in with the rest of his company, and report for whatever the day held. He learned quickly that the Navy had very little patience for a man who did any of this slowly, and by the third morning he'd shaved his routine down to something close to what was expected of him, moving through it half-asleep and entirely by habit.

The bunk alone had taken some getting used to — blankets pulled tight enough, he was told more than once, that a coin ought to bounce clean off them, corners folded to a precision that had nothing to do with comfort and everything to do with discipline. He thought, more than once, of how differently a bed got made at home, and put the thought away each time before it could get too comfortable in his head.

The language of the place came almost as fast as the routine did. Port and starboard replaced left and right; the ceiling was the overhead, the kitchen was the galley, the floor was the deck, and a rumor was a scuttlebutt, and Fred found himself, without quite noticing when it happened, starting to think in the new words rather than simply repeating them for the instructors' benefit. He learned to stand at attention until his back ached, to salute an officer without having to think first about which hand, to march in formation and correct his own stride to match the man beside him. He stood his first watches too, short stretches around the barracks and the company area, and understood well enough that these were rehearsals for something larger — the watches he'd stand someday aboard a ship, when the stakes would be considerably higher than a rumor passed down the line.

None of it, he came to understand, was really about obedience for its own sake. It was about becoming the kind of man who could be trusted to take care of himself, and by extension the men around him, in a place where there wouldn't be room or time for anyone to do it for him.

Partway through the week he sat down with a classification specialist, a man with a clipboard and a list of questions that felt, after the last few days, almost startlingly ordinary. What had Fred done before the Navy? Material control engineer, he said. Rohr Aircraft Corporation. Aircraft manufacturing. The specialist wrote it down without much visible reaction, and Fred understood, even as he answered, that his years of experience might carry him toward a technical assignment or might carry him nowhere near one — that the Navy would decide what it needed from him, and his own preferences would be, at best, one factor among several.

He thought about that a good deal in the days after, turning it over the way a man turns over anything he can't control. He'd built a career on being useful in one particular way. He had no idea yet whether the Navy would want that from him, or something else entirely.

Saturday Night

By Saturday night, one week in, Fred had a little time — not much, but enough — and a sheet of paper and a pencil, and he sat on the edge of his bunk after lights-were-nearly-out and wrote to his wife.

Dear Betty,

It's been one week today, which hardly seems possible — it feels both longer and shorter than that all at once. I won't pretend the first few days weren't rough. They cut my hair down to nothing and I hardly recognized myself in the mirror after, and my arm's still a little sore from all the shots they gave me. The bunk is too short. But I'm getting the hang of things faster than I expected to. I can make a bunk now that would probably pass inspection at Fern Street, if you can believe that.

They ask you a lot of questions here about what you did before — I told them about Rohr, the engineering work, all of it, though I gather it's mostly up to them what they do with that information. I don't know yet where I'll end up or what they'll have me doing, and I've decided there's not much use worrying over it until they tell me.

I think about you and Randy more than I probably should admit, especially at night when the barracks finally quiets down. I keep picturing him pulling himself up on furniture — is he still at it? Give him a kiss for me, and tell your mother and dad and Georgia thank you for everything they're doing. I don't know what we'd have done without the room at Fern Street, or without all of them.

Write and tell me everything — I mean it, everything, even the small things. It's the small things I find myself missing most.

All my love, Fred

Betty wrote hers that same night, after Randy was finally down and the house had gone quiet around her, sitting up in the crowded little bedroom with the lamp turned low so as not to wake him.

Dear Fred,

One week! It hardly seems real that you've only been gone seven days — it feels like so much longer, and also like no time at all, which I know doesn't make sense, but I think you'll understand it anyway.

Randy is doing wonderfully, though "doing wonderfully" mostly means pulling himself up on every piece of furniture in this house and looking enormously pleased with himself every time he manages it without falling. My father thinks he's going to be walking within the month, and I think he's probably right, and I don't know quite how I feel about that. He spends his mornings out in the garden with Mother and Georgia, or in the afternoon in the greenhouse with my father, who talks to him about the seedlings as though Randy has any idea what a seedling is. I've been sketching them together when I get the chance — I'll have quite a lot to show you when you're home.

We're settled in here, though "settled" is a generous word for how crowded this room is with the two of us and everything the three of us left behind — I mean everything of his, and mine, all of it. I don't mind it, though. It's good not to be alone in the quiet, especially at night.

Everyone here is being so good to us — I don't know what we'd have done otherwise. But it's you I want to hear about. Tell me everything about what your days are like, the things you're learning, the men you're meeting — don't leave anything out just because you think it's dull. I want to be able to picture exactly where you are and what you're doing.

Randy and I both miss you terribly. Come home to us as soon as they'll let you.

All my love, Betty

Both letters went into the Monday mail, hers carried down to the box on Fern Street and his handed over at the base post office along with a hundred others just like it, and by Tuesday afternoon each had found its way to the other — Fred's letter arriving at the Carringer house while Betty was out in the garden with Randy, Betty's reaching Fred during a rare quiet stretch between drills. Neither of them had any way of knowing, reading the other's words for the first time, that this — waiting for a letter, writing one back, waiting again — was going to be the shape of their marriage for a good while yet. But it was a start, and it was theirs, and for the moment it would have to be enough.

To be continued...

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Here is the Google Notebook Video Overview about this time in Betty, Fred and Randy's life in late August 1944 (also on my YouTube channel):  

This story is historical fiction based on real people -- my parents and me -- and a real event in a real place. I don't know the full story of these events -- but this is how it might have been. I hope that it was at least this good! Claude is such a good storywriter! I added some details and corrected some errors in Claude's initial version.

Stay tuned for the next chapter in this family story.

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The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my mother, Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #3 Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver (1919-2002) of San Diego, California. I also  wrote Betty's Story: The First-Year Art Teacher about the start of her teaching career.

The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my father, Frederick Walton Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #2 Frederick Walton Seaver Jr. (1911-1983) of Massachusetts and San Diego, California.  I also wrote Fred's Story: The Three-Day Cross-Country Escape  and Fred's Story: "I Need A Girl" about him coming to San Diego, and wanting a girlfriend.

Here are the previous chapters in this story:

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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