Thursday, May 14, 2026

Added and Updated MyHeritage Record Collections - Week of 8 to 14 May 2026

 The following Record Collections were ADDED or Updated in the MyHeritage Collections Catalog during the week of  8 to 14 May 2026:


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There are 1 ADDED record collections in the list this past week, and MyHeritage now has a total of  7,550 record collections (an increase of 1 collections from last week (the image above shows only 1,684 - that must be an error!!).  The overall set of MyHeritage collections has 39,705,920,466 records or entries (a decrease of about 100 million  entries from last week).  

The number of entries in the family tree collections were last updated this week. 

See previous Genea-Musings posts about MyHeritage record collections and features in https://www.geneamusings.com/search/label/MyHeritage.com.

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Life In the Daniel Spangler Family in 1835 in Mercer County, Pennsylvania

 I wondered if my AI Assistant Anthropic Claude could provide me with information about an ancestral family's life in 1835 in Mercer County, Pennsylvania.  My 3rd great-grandfather Daniel spangler (1781-1851) was age 54, and had a farm in Sandy Creek Township in Mercer County.  I posted an ABC Biography for Daniel Spangler in ABC Biography of #50 Daniel Spangler (1781-1851) of Pennsylvania and Virginia.


(AI NotebookLM Infographic -- Daniel Spangler's Life in 1835 in Pennsylvania)

I asked Anthropic Claude to create a description of Daniel Spangler's family life and work in Mercer County, Pennsylvania in 1835, based on the biography and social history.

The Claude Sonnet 4.6 response was:


The Daniel Spangler Family in 1835: A Year in Sandy Creek Township

The Household

By 1835, Daniel and Elizabeth Spangler had been farming their 200-acre tract in Sandy Creek township, Mercer County, Pennsylvania for six years. At 54 years old, Daniel was in his prime as a farmer and community member, while Elizabeth, at 39, managed a bustling household that reflected both the blessings and challenges of frontier farm life.

The household that year was crowded and lively. Their seven surviving children (all girls) ranged from seventeen-year-old Anna Maria down to three daughters still in infancy or early childhood. Anna Maria, now seventeen, was being courted by Joseph Carringer, a young man from the neighboring family. Elizabeth, age thirteen, was old enough to be a substantial help to her mother with household duties. Sarah Elizabeth, eleven, was energetic and bright, already showing signs of the strong woman she would become. Dorothea Matilda, only seven, was still learning her letters and helping with lighter chores. And the three youngest—Helen, four; Rebecca, three; and baby Louisa, not yet born—kept the household in constant motion.

Daily Work and Farm Operations

Daniel's day began before dawn, regardless of the season. The 200-acre farm required constant attention—there were fields to plow, plant, and harvest; livestock to tend; fences to mend; and endless repairs to buildings and equipment. In 1835, most of his land would have been devoted to mixed agriculture typical of western Pennsylvania: wheat, corn, oats, and hay for animal feed, along with kitchen gardens that Elizabeth and the girls maintained for vegetables and herbs.

The farm's livestock were essential to both subsistence and income. Dairy cows provided milk, butter, and cheese—products Elizabeth and her daughters processed daily. Pigs were butchered in the fall, their meat preserved through smoking and salting to last through the winter. Chickens supplied eggs and occasional Sunday dinners. Oxen or horses provided the muscle for plowing and hauling. Sheep might have provided wool that Elizabeth and the girls would card, spin, and weave into cloth during the long winter evenings.

Daniel worked alongside hired help during busy seasons—harvest time especially required extra hands. The Carringer families, living nearby, likely participated in work exchanges where neighbors helped each other during critical periods like threshing or barn-raising. This reciprocal labor was the backbone of frontier agricultural success.

Women's Work

Elizabeth's work was no less demanding than Daniel's, though it centered on the house and immediate surroundings. Her day began even earlier than her husband's—fires to start, breakfast to prepare, bread to bake, meals to cook, children to dress and organize. In 1835, with Anna Maria seventeen and Elizabeth thirteen, she had capable helpers, but the younger children still required constant supervision.

The household tasks followed seasonal rhythms. Spring meant soap-making from winter's accumulated fat and lye, a smelly but essential task. Summer brought endless cycles of preserving—vegetables pickled and stored in the root cellar, fruits made into jams and preserves, herbs dried for winter use. Fall was butchering time, when every part of the pig had to be processed and preserved. Winter brought the indoor work of spinning, weaving, sewing, and mending—making and repairing the family's clothing and household linens.

Anna Maria, at seventeen, was learning everything her mother knew about running a substantial household. She could bake bread, preserve food, tend the sick, manage poultry, make butter and cheese, sew and mend clothing, and probably had already started accumulating items for her future marriage to Joseph Carringer. Young Elizabeth, though only thirteen, was learning these same skills, watching both her mother and older sister for the day when she would marry and have a family.

Education

Education in Sandy Creek township in 1835 was intermittent and basic. The township likely had a one-room schoolhouse where children attended when farm work permitted—more regularly in winter when agricultural demands were lighter. The 1850 census showed that the younger Spangler daughters attended school, suggesting the family valued education despite its practical limitations.

Daniel and Elizabeth, both literate in English and German, likely supplemented their children's formal schooling at home. Bible reading was part of daily life, providing both spiritual instruction and reading practice. The girls would have been taught basic arithmetic necessary for household management—measuring ingredients, calculating fabric needed for sewing, keeping accounts of dairy and egg production.

Anna Maria and Elizabeth probably had more limited formal education than their younger sisters would receive, as they had been born in Virginia before the family's 1829 settlement in Pennsylvania. But they learned practical mathematics through helping their mother with household accounts, read the family Bible and perhaps a few other precious books, and wrote letters to family members who had moved away.

Boys and girls received different practical educations. While all learned reading, writing, and basic arithmetic, the girls focused on domestic arts—cooking, preserving, sewing, spinning, weaving, knitting, basic medical care, and household management. These skills were not considered less important than academic learning; they were essential survival skills that would determine a family's comfort and prosperity.

Social Life and Community

The Spangler family's social life centered on several interconnected circles: the church, the neighborhood, and the wider German-American community. As members of the Reformed Church tradition, Sundays meant church attendance where they would worship, catch up on news, and strengthen community bonds. Church was also where courtships developed under the watchful eyes of parents—Anna Maria and Joseph Carringer likely sat where they could exchange meaningful glances during services.

The proximity of the Carringer families—Henry and Martin Carringer were enumerated near the Spanglers in the 1830 census—meant frequent interactions. Women would visit each other, bringing their sewing or mending to work on together while they talked. Children played together, creating bonds that would last lifetimes. Men would gather to discuss crops, livestock, politics, and make deals for labor exchanges or equipment sharing.

Work bees brought the community together for both labor and socializing. Quilting bees allowed women to create essential bedding while gossiping and sharing news. Barn-raisings brought entire neighborhoods together to accomplish in a day what one family could not do in weeks. Corn-husking bees turned tedious work into competitive fun. These gatherings always ended with substantial meals and often with music and dancing.

The German-American identity remained strong in 1835. Though most community business was conducted in English, German was still spoken at home and in informal gatherings. German foods graced the table—*sauerbraten*, *lebkuchen*, *strudel*, and other recipes Elizabeth had learned from her mother and mother-in-law. German hymns were sung at church and around the family hearth.

Entertainment and Leisure

Entertainment in 1835 was largely home-made and community-based. The Spangler family's leisure time, limited as it was by the demands of farm life, centered on simple pleasures. Music was important—someone in the family likely played a simple instrument like a fiddle or a harmonica. Singing was free and required no equipment; German folk songs and hymns were passed down through generations.

Storytelling was a primary evening entertainment. Daniel would tell his children about growing up in York, about their grandfather Rudolf, about the family's journey from Germany several generations earlier. The older girls might read aloud from one of the family's few precious books—probably the Bible, a hymnal, and perhaps an almanac that provided both practical information and entertainment.

Seasonal celebrations marked the year. Christmas retained German traditions—possibly a small tree decorated simply, special cookies and breads, perhaps simple gifts of practical items like new mittens or a pocketknife. Easter brought egg decorating and special foods. The Fourth of July was celebrated with community gatherings, demonstrating the family's American patriotism alongside their German heritage.

Visiting was a major form of entertainment. When work permitted, families would spend an afternoon or evening at a neighbor's house, bringing their children along. The adults would talk while the children played, and everyone would share a simple meal. These visits strengthened community bonds and broke the isolation of frontier farm life. In these Mercer County communities, farms were often a quarter-mile or more apart.

Weddings were major social events. With Anna Maria likely engaged to Joseph Carringer by 1835, the family would have been anticipating a wedding celebration that would bring together their entire community. Such events lasted all day, with religious ceremony, feasting, music, and dancing—one of the few times when the community truly set work aside for pure celebration.

Courtship and Marriage Plans

The year 1835 was significant for the Spangler family because it marked Anna Maria's courtship with Joseph Carringer. At seventeen, she was of prime marriageable age by frontier standards. The courtship would have followed proper conventions—Joseph calling at the Spangler home under Elizabeth's supervision, walking with Anna Maria to church or community events with younger siblings as chaperones, perhaps sitting together at community gatherings.

Daniel and Elizabeth would have carefully evaluated Joseph as a potential son-in-law. The Carringer family's reputation, their work ethic, their religious commitment, and Joseph's prospects for supporting a family would all factor into their approval or disapproval. The fact that multiple Spangler daughters eventually married Carringer men suggests that Daniel and Elizabeth held the family in high regard and actively encouraged these matches.

The preparation for Anna Maria's eventual marriage would have been ongoing. She and her mother would be accumulating household items—linens, quilts, cookware, preserved foods—that would help her start her new household. Elizabeth would be teaching her daughter the final skills she needed to be a successful farm wife: how to manage a household budget, how to care for a sick child, how to handle the delicate social politics of a small community.

Challenges and Realities

Life in 1835 was not without its hardships. The Spangler family had already lost two infant children, and the constant threat of childhood illness hung over every parent. Medical care was primitive and often ineffective. Women faced the dangers of childbirth with each pregnancy—Elizabeth had already borne eight children by 1835 and would have two more before she was done.

Economic uncertainty was constant. Crop failures, livestock disease, market fluctuations, and weather disasters could devastate a family's finances in a single season. The probate records from Daniel's death in 1851 show that even after decades of work, the estate had barely enough to cover debts and provide for the minor children.

Yet the Spangler family was building something substantial. The 200 acres represented security and opportunity. The growing relationships with the Carringer family represented community integration and support networks. The children's education, however basic, represented investment in the next generation. The preservation of German traditions alongside American adaptation represented a healthy cultural identity.

A Typical Day in 1835

A summer day in 1835 might have unfolded like this: Daniel and the hired man rose before dawn to milk the cows and feed the livestock. Elizabeth and Anna Maria started the kitchen fire and began preparing breakfast—mush or porridge, bread, perhaps eggs and preserved meat. The family gathered for a quick breakfast and morning prayer before dispersing to their tasks.

Daniel and the hired man headed to the fields for a long day of cultivating corn or cutting hay. Elizabeth put the younger girls to work weeding the kitchen garden while she and Anna Maria tackled the laundry—a full day's work involving heating water, scrubbing clothes on a washboard, wringing them out, and hanging them to dry. Thirteen-year-old Elizabeth watched the younger children and prepared the midday meal.

Dinner (the midday meal) brought everyone together briefly for substantial food—bread, cheese, vegetables from the garden, perhaps salt pork. Then back to work—Daniel to the fields, Elizabeth and the girls to afternoon tasks like churning butter, mending clothes, or preparing supper.

Evening brought the family together again for supper, evening chores (milking, feeding animals, collecting eggs), and a brief period of leisure—perhaps Daniel read from the Bible while Elizabeth mended by candlelight and the girls practiced their letters or worked on needlework. By dark, everyone was exhausted and ready for bed, knowing tomorrow would bring the same round of essential tasks.

This was the rhythm of life in Sandy Creek township in 1835—hard work, simple pleasures, strong community bonds, and the constant hope that the next generation would have better opportunities than the last. The Spangler family was successfully navigating the transition from German immigrants to American farmers, building a legacy that would spread across the continent in the decades to come.

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The AI Google NotebookLM Video Overview of this story is in:  

This is historical fiction based on known events in the lives of my ancestors -- it might have been this way. Daniel and Elizabeth (Konig) Spangler are my 3rd great-grandparents, and I have significant information about this family from the available records, but I know nothing about their day-to-day lives.

As always, I am amazed at what life was like in any place over 190 years ago. This description of Daniels family life in Pennsylvania is interesting and so different from our current daily activities.

After I read these types of social history summaries, I wish that I could be a time traveler for one day to visit this Spangler family in 1835 Pennsylvania and witness their daily lives.  I'm glad that the general lifestyles and occupations are known from historical records and witness accounts.

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Treasure Chest Thursday - 1820 U.S. Census Record for the Nathan McNew Household in Vansville, Prince Georges County, Maryland

 It's Treasure Chest Thursday - time to look in my digital image files to see what treasures I can find for my family history and genealogy musings.

The treasure today is the 1820 United States Census record for the Nathan McNew (one of my wife's 3rd great-grandfathers) household in Vansville, Prince Georges County, Maryland.


The Nathan McNew household is the 5th person on the image:


The extracted information for the Nathan McNew household (with my educated guess as to the names of the family members, assuming that they are all from the Nathan McNew family):

*  Name of head of family:  Nathan McNew
*  Free white Males under age 10:   two (probably son George born  1820 and one other child)
*  Free white Males aged 10 to 15:  two (probably sons Thomas born 1807 and Charles born 1809)
*  Free white Males aged 16 to 25:  one (probably son Samuel born 1802 or Jeremiah born 1804)
*  Males aged 45 and over:  one (certainly Nathan born 1771)
*  Free white Females under age 10:  two (probably daughter Rachel and one other child) 
*  Free white Females aged 26-44;  one ( certainly wife Jane born 1775)
*  Slave males under age 14:  one
*  Slave males aged 14 to 25:  one
*  Slave males aged 26 to 44:  one
*  Slave females under age 14:  one
*  Slave females aged 26 to 44:  one 
*  Number of persons engaged in agriculture:  seven
*  Free white persons under age 16:  six
*  Free white persons over 25:  two
*  Total free white persons:  nine
*  Total slaves:  five
*  Total all persons:  14

There are seven living children in the Nathan and Jane (Prather) McNew family in 1820. Prhaps one male was enumerated as a girl.

The source citation for this entry (census date 1 June 1820) is:

 1820 United States Federal Census, Prince George's County, Maryland population schedule, Vansville, Line 5, Nathan McNew household; imaged, "1820 United States Federal Census," Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/7734/images/4433410_00162 : accessed 13 January 2026); Maryland > Prince George > Vansville, page 180A (penned) image 1 of 7; original record on National Archives Microfilm M33.

Nathan McNew (1771-1834) is my wife Linda's 3rd great-grandfather. She is descended from Nathan and his first wife Mary --?-- (1775-1806) through  Jeremiah McNew (1804-????) who married Frances Alethia Pickrell (1810-1845) in 1829.

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Disclosure:  I have a paid All-Access subscription to Ancestry.com now.  Ancestry.com has provided a complimentary subscription and material considerations for travel expenses to meetings, and has hosted events and meals that I have attended in Salt Lake City, in past years.


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Wednesday, May 13, 2026

Genealogy Education Bytes - Week of 7 to 13 May 2026

   Welcome to Genealogy Education Bytes, posted on Wednesday afternoon for the past week, where we try to highlight some of the most important genealogy and family history education items that came across my desktop since the last issue.




1) Upcoming Conferences and Institutes:

Conference Keeper Calendar - has many links to register for and/or view seminars, conferences and institutes.

National Genealogical Society 2026 Family History Conference ($$, In-person and virtual, in Fort Wayne, Indiana) - 27 to 30 May 2026.

*  Palatines To America National Conference ($$, In-person, in Lancaster, Pennsylvania) -- 18 to 19 June 2026.

*  FEEFHS Annual Conference ($$, In-person, in Salt Lake City) -- 5 to 7 August 2026.

*  Pennsylvania's Genealogy Event "PaGE" 2026 Conference ($$, Virtual) -- 6 to 8 August 2026.

2 ) Upcoming Webinars and Online Classes (times are US Pacific):

Conference Keeper Calendar - has many links to register for and/or view seminars, webinars and classes.

FamilySearch MonthlyWebinars (Free)

RootsTech 2019-2026 On-Demand Sessions (Free)

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar --  Wednesday, 13 May, 11 a.m.:  Caribbean Genealogy: Tracing Ancestors in Jamaica, Haiti, and Panama by Yetunde Moronke Abiola.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar --  Friday, 15 May, 11 a.m.:  From swords to settlers: Researching conquistador ancestors in 16th century New Spain (Mexico) by Nefi Arenas Salazar.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar --  Tuesday, 19 May, 5 p.m.:  Common-Sense Principles for Establishing Genetic Relationships by Patti Lee Hobbs.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar --  Wednesday, 20 May, 11 a.m.:  Advanced Topics in DNA 3 of 5: Advanced Relationship Analysis by Blaine Bettinger.

    3) Recent Podcasts:

    * Ancestors and Algorithms:  
    Ep. 37: What Grandma Never Said - Using AI to Uncover Hidden Ancestors in Census Records

    *  Emma - Journeys Into Genealogy:  Using AI in family history with Denyse Allen

    * Family Tree Talk:  But how do you know it’s right?

    *  Hittin' the Brocks with Kathleen:  Genealogy Road Trip: Research Beyond the Internet


    4) Recent YouTube Videos:




    *  BYU Library Family History Center:  Life Lessons - Rayanne Melick (8 May 2026)




    *  DearMYRTLE's Archive:  Mondays with Myrt - 11 May 2026

    *  Ellen Thompson-Jennings - Family History Hound:  I Cried When I Watched My Mom's MyHeritage Tribute Reel









    *  Genealogy Quick Start:  Census & Verify w/ Lillian Wingate


    *  Int'l Institute of Genealogical Studies:  Inside MyHeritage: DNA Tools & Techniques


    *  Journey Through the Generations:  Live from RootsTech2026!!!

    *  Marcia Philbrick:  Hiram Currey Song 1
    *  Marcia Philbrick:  Hiram Currey The Cost of the Frontier
    *  Marcia Philbrick: Hiram Currey 1901 Audio Overview



    *  Randy Seaver, Geneaholic: Food Preservation in the 1830s in New England


    *  Write Yoiur Family History With Devon Noel Lee:  Struggling with Genealogy Reports? Here’s How to Write Them Faster

    5) Did you miss the last post in this series -- Genealogy Education Bytes - Week of 30 April to 6 May 2026?

    Read past Genealogy Education Bytes here.


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    NOTE: If I missed an upcoming conference or webinar, or a useful podcast or video, in this time period, please let me know in a comment or an email.

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    Life Memoir of Henry Austin Carringer (1853-1946) of Pennsylvania, Iowa, Colorado, Kansas and California, As Told To His Granddaughter in 1945

     I wrote an AI-assisted ABC biography for my great-grandfather Henry Austin Carringer  in ABC Biography of #12 Henry Austin Carringer (1853-1946) of Pennsylvania, Iowa, Colorado, Kansas and Californiabased on my genealogical research over 38 years. 

    I wondered what Austin Carringer might have told his only granddaughter in a life memoir in 1945. 


    (AI Google NotebookLM Infographic for Austin Carringer's life memoir
    )

    1)  I requested Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to   "Please write a life memoir for Henry Austin Carringer based on the attached biography, as he might tell his granddaughter in 1945."

    2)  The AI Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 memoir (edited for accuracy and completeness) is: 


    My Life Story: As Told to My Granddaughter Betty

    By Henry Austin Carringer, 1945

    Well, Betty, you've asked me to tell you about my life, and at 91 years old, I suppose I've lived long enough to have a few stories worth telling. Pull up that chair your grandmother designed, and I'll do my best to remember it all.

    The Early Days in Pennsylvania and Beyond

    I was born Henry Austin Carringer on November 28, 1853, in Mercer, Pennsylvania, though I can't say I remember much about the place. Everyone has always called me Austin -- never Henry. I think it was a German family tradition, or maybe just the way my father liked it. My father’s father was Henry Carringer and I loved that old man. My father, David Jackson Carringer – everyone called him D.J. -- was a farmer, carpenter and joiner, one of the finest craftsmen you'd ever meet. My mother, Rebecca Spangler, came from good Pennsylvania German stock, and she kept us all in line.

    I had a brother, Harvey, who was one year older than me, and a sister, Epha – we called her Effie. We were a close family, though Harvey and I were as different as could be. He took to farming and ranching later on, while I followed Father into the carpentry trade.

    When I was just a small boy, maybe four or five years old, Father decided we needed to move west. That's how we ended up in Iowa -- Columbus City in Louisa County, to be exact. I remember going to school there with Harvey. The 1860 Census would have shown me as seven years old, sitting in a one-room schoolhouse learning my letters and numbers. Father had done well enough -- he had a little farm property, a little money set aside. We weren't rich by any means, but we weren't poor either.

    By the time I was a teenager, we'd moved again to Jackson township in Washington County, Iowa. I kept going to school when I could, but I was also learning the trade from Father. There's something satisfying about working with your hands, Betty -- taking a piece of raw lumber and turning it into something useful and beautiful. I wish more young people understood that today.

    In 1873, when I was about 20 years old, after the tornado almost killed my mother and bad farming years and we had to sell the farm, Father got the wanderlust again. This time we headed to Boulder, Colorado. Now that was real frontier country back then! The air was so clear and crisp you felt like you could see forever. And then my sister Effie died at age 15 – we all were devastated. The 1880 Census caught us there -- Father at 51 still working as a carpenter and joiner, Mother keeping house, Harvey trying his hand at farming, and me at 26, listed as a millwright and carpenter. I was learning more specialized work by then, understanding machinery and how to build the mechanisms that powered mills and factories.

    Meeting Your Grandmother

    Kansas is where I met the love of my life, your grandmother Della. It was 1884, and I was 31 years old -- starting to think I might end up a bachelor. I had applied for homestead land in Kansas, in a little place called Wano in Cheyenne County, and her family did too – we were neighbors -- that's where we really got to know each other.

    Now, Della wasn't just a pretty face, though she was certainly that. She was smart as a whip and had a creative spirit that matched my own. We performed in plays together at the local playhouse - can you imagine your old grandfather on stage? We did "Lady Audley's Secret" and "The Dairyman's Daughter" and several others. Della kept all the playbills and notices in her scrapbook. Those were magical evenings, Betty, with the whole community coming together for entertainment.

    We courted for two years. I know that seems like a long time now, but I wanted to be sure I could provide for a wife, and Della was worth waiting for. We finally married on September 11, 1887, right there in Wano. Reverend Emanuel Richards performed the ceremony at noon. A fellow named A.E. Boring was our witness -- I always got a chuckle out of that name, though he was a strange fellow and anything but boring.

    The Journey to California

    After we married, we did something that still amazes me when I think back on it. We bought train tickets to San Diego, California from Denver. We had exactly twenty dollars in our pockets, Betty. Twenty dollars! We called it our honeymoon, but really it was a leap of faith.

    Your grandmother and I figured that if we had each other and our skills, we could make it anywhere. And San Diego -- oh, Betty, you should have seen San Diego in 1887! It was so much smaller than it is now. The air smelled of salt and eucalyptus, and you could feel the possibility in the air.

    I found work right away as a carpenter at the lumber mills in National City. It was hard work, but honest work, and it paid enough to get us started. I even joined the National City Fire Department - Active Hose No. 1. That was quite an experience, I can tell you! When the alarm bell rang, we'd all come running, and there was real camaraderie among the men.

    Joy and Sorrow

    In August of 1889, we had our first child. The San Diego Union even announced it - said we had "a bright faced boy, who tips the scales at nine pounds." We named him Devier David, after both his grandfathers - Della's father Devier Smith and my father David Jackson Carringer.

    Betty, I'm not sure I can properly describe the joy we felt. After two years of marriage, working hard and saving what we could, to have a healthy baby boy seemed like all our dreams coming true at once.

    But life has a way of teaching you hard lessons. On May 10, 1890, little Devier died. He was only nine months old. One day he was fine, laughing and playing, and the next... well, the next he was gone.

    I've lived 91 years now, Betty, and I can tell you that was the hardest thing I've ever faced. People sent us cards and letters -- I remember one with gold lettering on black that said "One less at home" and went on about heaven and God's will. Family wrote from Kansas and Pennsylvania trying to console us, telling us it was part of God's plan.

    Your grandmother and I, we couldn't accept that. We'd been raised Christian, gone to church, said our prayers. But what kind of God takes a baby? We decided right then that we didn't need religion -- we had each other, and we had our values of working hard and being kind to others. That's been our religion ever since, and it's served us well enough.

    A New Beginning

    On November 2, 1891, your father Lyle was born in a house at 16th and H Streets in San Diego. We were terrified, if I'm being honest. After losing Devier, every cough, every fever filled us with dread. But Lyle was strong and healthy, and watching him grow eased some of the pain we'd carried.

    We moved around a bit in those early years - 28th and Logan in '93, then Della opened an art studio at 29th and Logan in '95. Your grandmother has always had that artistic eye. She painted, she designed furniture, she could make any place beautiful. I have the skills to build things, but she has the vision to imagine them first.

    There's a family picture from 1895 that I treasure - Lyle sitting in a little wagon, me with my bicycle (I was quite proud of that bicycle!), Della's mother Abigail, and my brother Edgar, all posed in front of Abigail’s hat shop. Those were good years, Betty. We were building something.

    Building Our Home

    In 1894, we bought nine lots in what they called Seaman and Choate's Addition - down at 30th and Watkins Avenue. Cost us $450, which was everything we'd saved. We put it in Della's name -- I always believed a woman should have property of her own.

    For three years we saved every penny we could. I kept working at Russ Lumber and Mill Company, and Della took in art students. Finally, in 1897, we had enough. The San Diego Union reported that a building permit was issued to Della A. Carringer for a "$600 residence."

    I built that house with my own hands, Betty. Every board, every nail, every window frame. It was two stories, facing Watkins Avenue (they call it Hawthorn Street now). I did all the finish work inside - the moldings, the built-in cabinets, even some of the furniture. Della designed it, and I built it. That's how we've always worked.

    There's a photograph from around 1900 showing the whole family at that house -- me and Della, young Lyle, my parents who'd come out from Colorado in 1898, my brother Edgar, and Della's mother Abbie. Even the family horse is in the picture! We used a horse-drawn surrey to take ourselves and the neighbors down to the streetcar line at 16th and D Street. That was quite a journey in those days.

    A Life of Work

    I worked at Russ Lumber in National City and then in downtown San Diego for years, learning every aspect of the trade. I worked as a carpenter, a machinist, whatever was needed. Your grandmother and I, we always believed in being useful, in learning new skills.

    Then in 1917, when I was already 64 years old - an age when most men are thinking about slowing down -- I did something unexpected. I became an aviation mechanic at Rockwell Field, the U.S. Army Aviation Station over in Coronado.

    Now, Betty, you have to understand what that meant. I'd spent my whole life working with wood, with traditional tools and methods. And here was this new technology -- airplanes! Flying machines! It seemed like something out of a Jules Verne novel. But I realized that wood and fabric were still the main materials in those early planes. They needed someone who understood how wood moved and behaved, how to work it precisely, how to join pieces so they'd hold under stress.

    I became the foreman of the wood and fabric section in the airplane repair shop. For ten years, I supervised the repairs on military aircraft. Young men would come through -- some of them weren't even born when I started working with wood -- and I'd teach them how to do it right. It was some of the most satisfying work of my life, Betty. Here I was, an old-timer, contributing to the newest technology mankind had ever developed.

    I retired on my 79th birthday in 1932, after 15 years of service. The fellows at the shop got together and presented me with a letter of appreciation, a clock inside an eight-foot wide wooden propeller, and this big, comfortable easy chair -- the one you're sitting near right now. I was touched by that, I truly was.

    Our Home and Philosophy

    Over the years, Della and I kept improving our property. In the 1920s, we did a major renovation. We moved the original house to the middle of the block -- it's 2115 30th Street now -- and turned the front porch so it faces south to catch the sun. We added rooms to the second-story and made it a separate flat with an external staircase, and stuccoed over everything. You can't even tell now what the original structure looked like.

    We also built a two-story apartment house at 2114 and 2116 Fern Street. That took some doing - we had to get a trust deed for $4,000 -- but it's been a good investment.

    Your grandmother has always said that flowers are her hobby, and our lot shows it. We've planted and grown just about every kind of fruit and vegetable that grows in California. Della designed some of our furniture, and I built it to her specifications. We've always worked as partners, Betty, and that's been the secret to our long marriage.

    Golden Years

    In 1937, the San Diego Union did an article about us on our golden wedding anniversary -- 50 years married! They took our picture and called us "True Vowers." The reporter asked Della about our philosophy of life, and she said something I've always been proud of: "We have worked hard as partners and tried always to be kind and helpful to others. After all, we are of the opinion that this is the best religion to make a happy and successful life."

    That's it, Betty. That's what I want you to remember. No fancy theology, no complicated rules. Just work hard, be kind, help others, and partner with someone who shares your values.

    We've been careful with our property and our affairs. A few years back, in 1939, we signed everything over to your father Lyle, though we kept the right to live here and collect any rent during our lifetimes. It's important to plan these things, to make sure the family is taken care of.

    Reflections

    I've lived through so much, Betty. I was born before the Civil War started. I've seen the country stretch from coast to coast. I've watched technology change from horse-drawn carriages to automobiles to airplanes, from letters to telegraphs and telephones and radio, from outhouses to modern toilets and running water. I've lived through the Civil War, the Spanish-American War, the Great War, and now this terrible Second World War that's finally winding down.

    I've been demanding in my old age -- I know that. When you've lived as long as I have and worked as hard as I have, you develop opinions about how things should be done. But I hope you'll remember that everything I've done, I've done with purpose and care.

    Your grandmother Della passed away last year, and I miss her every single day. Fifty-seven years of marriage, Betty. She was small and got wrinkled in her old age, but she was always beautiful to me. We built this life together, brick by brick, board by board.

    I don't know how much longer I have -- I'm 91 now, and my body is wearing out. But I've had a good life, Betty. I've seen this country grow. I've raised a good son in your father. I've worked with my hands and my mind. I've loved deeply and been loved in return. 

    That's really all any person can ask for, isn't it?

    A Final Thought

    You have been a beautiful granddaughter, with your grandmother’s art talents, now married with a husband and baby to love, nourish and cherish. Life goes on.

    When I'm gone, Betty, I hope you'll remember that life is about partnership, perseverance, and practical skills. Don't wait for miracles or divine intervention. Make your own luck through hard work and kindness. Find people who complement your strengths and shore up your weaknesses. Build something lasting -- whether it's a house, a family, or just a reputation for honest work.

    Your grandmother and I will be together at Cypress View Mausoleum when my time comes. We came to California with twenty dollars and built a life and a house. That's our legacy to you and your generation.

    Now, enough of an old man's rambling. Why don't you help me out to the garden? Your grandmother planted some roses that are blooming beautifully, and I like to sit among them and remember.


    Henry Austin Carringer passed away on November 30, 1946, just two days after his 93rd birthday. He was cremated and inurned with his beloved wife Della at Cypress View Mausoleum in the Bronze Corridor, Niche 61, where they rest together still. Still remembered, not forgotten!

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    3)  The Video Overview of Austin Carringer's life memoir, created by the Google NotebookLM AI tool, is:      not available yet.

    4)  I edited the Claude memoir text to correct minor inconsistencies and errors. Every large language model (LLM) AI tool writes descriptive text much better than I can write. The AI tools are very perceptive, insightful and inspiring, creating engaging text in seconds, including local and national historical events and social history detail when requested.

    5)  This is historical fiction, based on my own genealogical research and family records. It is what Austin Carringer might have told his granddaughter, my mother, in 1945.  

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