Wednesday, October 22, 2025

Genealogy Education Bytes - Week of 16 to 22 October 2025

  Welcome to Genealogy Education Bytes, posted on Wednesday afternoon for the past week, where we try to highlight some of the most important genealogy and family history education items that came across my desktop since the last issue.


1) Upcoming Conferences and  Institutes 

Conference Keeper Calendar - has many links to register for and/or view conferences and institutes.

*  2025 New England Regional Genealogical Conference (NERGC) ($$, In-Person in Manchester, NH) -- 29 October to 1 November 2025. 

*  2025 Texas State Family History Conference (TxSGS) ($$) -- 7-8 November 2025 - Virtual.

*  RootsTech 2026 ($$, In-person in Salt Lake City, Free Virtual) -- 5 to 7 March 2026.

2 ) Upcoming Seminars, Webinars and Online Classes (times are US Pacific):

Conference Keeper Calendar - has many links to register for and/or view seminars, webinars and classes.

*  FamilySearch MonthlyWebinars (Free)

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinars (free for one week) - Wednesday, 22 October, 11 a.m.:  Early British and Irish Census Project by Amy Harris.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinars (free for one week) - Friday, 24 October, 11:00 a.m.:  Organize Digital and Digitized Photos & Documents Using AI  by Art Taylor.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinars (free for one week) - Tuesday, 28 October, 11 a.m.:  A MyHeritage Webinar

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinars (free for one week) - Wednesday, 29 October, 11 a.m.:  Colonial New York Research by Kory L. Meyerink.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinars (free for one week) - Friday, 31 October, 11:00 a.m.:  Using Google Earth Web to Tell Your Family History Migration Stories by Colleen Robledo Greene.

3) Recent Podcasts:


*  Ancestral Findings Podcast:  AF-1169: The Power in a Name | Genealogy Unfiltered
  

*  Family Tree Talk:  Those unexpected details…


*  Lisa Louise Cooke's Genealogy Gems:  Episode 300 - Memory Lane


4) Recent YouTube Videos 

















*  Int'l Institute of Genealogical Studies:  Methodology: Tips and Tricks Using Timelines to Research Your Family
*  Int'l Institute of Genealogical Studies:  Canadian Records Genealogy Credentials & Electives Overview
*  Int'l Institute of Genealogical Studies:  Halloween Customs & Irish Origins
*  Int'l Institute of Genealogical Studies:  To Bequeath or Not—Researching Ancestors through Wills

*  Italian Roots and Genealogy:  Find Out If Your Name Hides a Tuscan Mystery!




*  Randy Seaver, Geneaholic: Bessie Richmond's Life at age 10 in 1892
*  Randy Seaver, Geneaholic:  Sarah Fletcher Kemp's Life in 1845 in Ontario

*  Society of Genealogists:  Researching in Devon


5) Did you miss the last post in this series - Genealogy Education Bytes -  Week of 9 to 15 October 2025?


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NOTE:  If  I missed an upcoming conference or webinar, or a useful podcast or video, in this time period, please let me know in a comment or an email. 

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ABC Biography of #63 Elizabeth (Putman) Sovereen (1820-1895) of New York and Ontario

  Using the ABC method described in Using Artificial Intelligence In the Ancestor Biography Creation (ABC) Process, here is another ancestor biography using the Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 AI tool.

1) I wrote genealogical sketches for almost every known ancestor back through 9 generations in blog posts based on 38 years of genealogical research in my 52 Ancestors/Relatives Biographies series. The genealogical sketch for my 3rd great-grandmother, Elizabeth (Putman) Sovereen (1820-1895),  #63 on my Ahnentafel List, including family members, record abstracts and sources, is in 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks - Week 56: #63, Elizabeth (Putman) Sovereen (1820-1895).


(AI ChatGPT5 image of Sovereen family in 1860)

2) For the Claude AI biography, I attached the PDF of the genealogical sketch for the specific ancestor using the plus (+) icon, and then prompted the AI tool with:  "You are an expert genealogist. Please create a biography based on information in the attached file for Elizabeth (Putman) Sovereen (1820-1895). Include parents, siblings, spouses and children (with birth and death dates and places). Summarize life events, and add historical facts as appropriate, but do not add or embellish any extra genealogical details. Use section headings. Expand the information in each section to add more details. The tone should be engaging and suitable for family members."

3)  The Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 biography is:

 Elizabeth (Putman) Sovereen: A Pioneer Woman's Story

Early Life and Family Origins

Elizabeth Putman entered the world on January 1, 1820, in Wayne, Steuben County, New York, as the New Year dawned on a new decade. She was the first daughter and fourth child born to John Pieterse Putman and Sarah Martin, who had married around 1810. Elizabeth grew up in a large, close-knit family that would eventually include eight children. She was also called "Eliza" by her family and in some records.

Her siblings were Peter W. Putman (1812-1882), Martin Mulford Putman (1816-1892), Isaac Kinnan Putman (1820-1891), Rebecca Putman (1822-1852), Mary Putman (1825-1912), Martha Putman (1829-????), and William C. Putman (1834-1893). The Putman household in Steuben County would have been bustling with activity, as Elizabeth's parents raised their children in rural New York during the early years of American expansion.

Migration to Upper Canada

During the 1830s, when Elizabeth was still a young girl, the Putman family made a significant decision that would shape the rest of their lives. They joined the steady stream of American families migrating northward across the border into Upper Canada (now Ontario). The family settled in Norfolk County, a farming region along the north shore of Lake Erie. This move required courage and adaptability, as the family established themselves in a new country and built their lives from scratch in the Canadian wilderness.

Marriage and Family Life

On March 3, 1840, twenty-year-old Elizabeth married Alexander Sovereen in Norfolk County, Upper Canada. Alexander, born December 22, 1814, in London District, Upper Canada, was the son of Frederick Sovereen and Mary Jane Hutchison. He was five years Elizabeth's senior and brought his own pioneer heritage to the marriage.

The young couple settled in Windham Township, Norfolk County, where they would spend their entire married life together. Alexander worked as a farmer and later became an innkeeper, providing for his growing family through hard work and determination. Both Elizabeth and Alexander were devout Baptists, and their faith formed the foundation of their family life.

The Joys and Sorrows of Motherhood

Between 1840 and 1867, Elizabeth gave birth to fourteen children over the course of twenty-seven years. Her experience as a mother was marked by both profound joy and heartbreaking loss—a reality all too common for women of her generation. At least four of her children, and possibly six, died soon after birth. Several others died in early childhood, testing Elizabeth's faith and resilience in ways that modern families can scarcely imagine.

Her first child, Mary Jane, was born December 29, 1840. Mary Jane would grow to adulthood, marry James Abraham Kemp in 1861, and give Elizabeth five grandchildren before her untimely death at age 33 in 1874.

The years that followed brought a succession of losses. Frederick, born in 1842, died at age three in 1846. Rosella Elizabeth lived less than a year, dying in May 1845. Amart Ann survived to age two before passing away in April 1849. Rachel E., born in May 1848, died at just fifteen months old in September 1849.

Despite these devastating losses, Elizabeth persevered. In 1851, Gertrude Ann was born, followed by Sarah Adelaide in 1853 and Nancy Amelia in 1855. These daughters would all survive to adulthood and raise families of their own.

December 1856 brought twin daughters, Roselia and Valzoria. Tragically, Roselia died on the day she was born. Valzoria survived childhood but died unmarried at age twenty-one in December 1877, another profound loss for Elizabeth.

The later children—Hattie I. "Hetty" (1859), Frederick Alexander (1861), Alexander Blake "Addison" (1863), and Wilbert Melvin (1867)—all reached adulthood. Elizabeth's youngest child, Wilbert, was born when she was forty-seven years old, representing nearly three decades of childbearing and child-rearing.

Life in Windham Township

Census records paint a picture of the Sovereen family's life across four decades in Windham Township. In 1851, when Elizabeth was thirty years old, the household included Alexander (listed as age 40, though he was actually 36), Elizabeth, and their daughters Mary Jane and Rachel. The family's occupation was farming, and they identified themselves as Baptists.

By 1861, Alexander had taken on the occupation of innkeeper, suggesting the family had expanded their economic activities beyond farming alone. The household had grown to include Mary Jane (age 21), Rachel (actually deceased by this time, but the enumeration may reflect confusion with another daughter), Gertrude, Sarah, Nancy, Rozina (likely Valzoria), and young Haty (Hattie).

The 1871 census shows Alexander, now 56, working as a farmer with Elizabeth, age 59 (though likely closer to 51), and several children still at home: Sarah, Nancy, Valarie (Valzoria), Hattie, Alexander, and young Wilbur. Notably, Elizabeth's brother Peter Putman, age 58, was living with the family as a laborer, showing how extended family members supported one another in pioneer communities.

In 1881, Elizabeth was sixty years old (listed as 60 in the census), and the household included Alexander, Hetti (Hattie), Adison (Alexander Blake), Melvina M. Kemp (likely a granddaughter from Mary Jane's marriage), and Wilbert. The family continued farming, with Alexander employing help as needed.

By the 1891 census, Alexander was 76 and Elizabeth 72 (though the document records her birth in the United States, she had spent most of her life in Canada). Their youngest son Wilber, age 23, lived with them along with his wife Fannie. Alexander was still farming with one employee, demonstrating remarkable vigor for a man in his eighth decade.

Final Years and Legacy

Elizabeth Putman Sovereen died on March 17, 1895, in Delhi, Norfolk County, Ontario, at the age of 75. She was laid to rest in Delhi Cemetery alongside Alexander, who would outlive her by twelve years, passing away in 1907 at the remarkable age of 92.

Elizabeth's life spanned most of the nineteenth century, from the presidency of James Monroe through the Victorian era. She witnessed the transformation of Upper Canada from a frontier territory to the established province of Ontario. She experienced the challenges of pioneer life, the heartbreak of losing multiple children, and the joy of seeing surviving children and grandchildren flourish.

Through seven decades, Elizabeth embodied the strength, faith, and perseverance that characterized pioneer women. Her descendants—numbering at least twenty seven grandchildren from her surviving children—carried forward her legacy into the twentieth century, spreading across Canada and the United States. Her story is one of quiet courage, unwavering faith, and the enduring bonds of family that sustained generations through triumph and tragedy alike.

4) A poem and song lyrics to commemorate and celebrate the life of Elizabeth (Putman) Sovereen can be found in "Elizabeth's Song" -- Family History Poem, Song, Audio Overview and Video Overview Created by Artificial Intelligence. The song created from the song lyrics can be played in that blog post, on Suno.com, and below:

5) An Audio Overview (essentially a podcast) created by the Google NotebookLM AI tool) discussing the life of Elizabeth (Putman) Sovereen can be heard here (click on "Audio Overview" and wait for it to load).

6)  The Video Overview discussing Elizabeth (Putman) Sovereen's life created by the Google NotebookLM AI tool is:  


7)  I edited the Claude biography text to correct minor inconsistencies and errors. Every large language model (LLM) AI tool writes descriptive text much better than I can write. I was an aerospace engineer in my former life, and my research reports and genealogical sketches reflect "just the facts gleaned from my research." The AI tools are very perceptive, insightful and create readable text in seconds, including local and national historical events and social history detail when requested.

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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Lyle, Rex and Tom in 1909 -- (Not So) Wordless Wednesday #891

  This is one of the priceless (to me) images in my computer file folders:


This is a photograph from 1909, when my 18-year-old maternal grandfather, Lyle Lawrence Carringer (1891-1976) attended San Diego High School.  He finally graduated in 1914 -- he worked part-time at Marston's all through high school.

He is posing in front of the Carringer home at 2105 30th Street with his dog, Rex.  To Lyle's left, on the ground, is his cat Tom.  Helpfully, Lyle labeled the photograph!  

Note that there appear to be electric lines coming out of the ground in back and to the right side of Lyle that go up to the second floor.  At this time, I think that Lyle slept on the second floor porch in good weather, and in the upstairs bedroom other times, probably with Rex and Tom!

 San Diego High School is also my mother's alma mater (class of 1936) and my own (class of 1961).

I colorized a sepia color photograph using the MyHeritage photo tools. 

This photograph is a part of my family history.  

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Tuesday, October 21, 2025

Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 15 to 21 October 2025

  Welcome to Genealogy News Bytes, posted on Tuesday afternoon for the past week, where we try to highlight the most important genealogy and family history news  items that came across our desktop since the last issue.    


1)  Genealogy and Family History News Articles:








2)  DNA/IGG-Related News Articles



4)  Genealogy Software/Apps/Extensions


5)  New or Updated Genealogy Digital Record Collections:









5)  Did you miss the last post in this series?  See Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 8 to 14 October 2025.


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Alexander Sovereen's Life Memories - An AI-Assisted Memoir

 I wrote a genealogical sketch for my 3rd great-grandfather, Alexander Sovereen (1814-1907)  in 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks - Week 55: #62, Alexander Sovereen (1814- 1907), based on the records found that document his life.

(AI Gemini image of Alexander Sovereen family in 1860)

1)  Based on the genealogical sketch, I requested Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to create a memoir spoken by Alexander Sovereen talking about his life in 1900.  The prompt was:  "Please write a memoir for Alexander Sovereen based on the attached genealogical sketch, as he might tell to his grandchildren in summer 1900."

2)  The AI Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 memoir (lightly edited for accuracy) is:

My Life Story

As Told by Alexander Sovereen to His Grandchildren

On the Farm in Windham Township, Norfolk County, Ontario

Summer 1900

Come here, children, and sit with me on the porch. At 85 years old, I find myself thinking more and more about the old days—days so different from the world you're growing up in now. You've asked me to tell you about my life, and I reckon it's time I did, before these memories fade like morning mist over the fields.

The Old Days in Charlotteville

I was born on December 22nd, 1814, right here in Norfolk County, though the place we lived then -- old Charlotteville -- is mostly forgotten now. My father was Frederick Sovereen, and my mother was Mary Jane Hutchison before she married. I was their second son, with my brother William three years older than me, my sister Mary Catherine just a year older, and little Jacob coming along two years after me.

Those were rough times, children. Real rough. The War of 1812 had just ended the year I was born, and Upper Canada was still wild country. My grandfather -- your great-great-grandfather -- was the Jake Sovereen, the one who kept the pioneer tavern that everyone talked about. I remember him well, though I was just a small boy. He was a big man with a booming voice, and his tavern was the center of everything that happened in those parts. Turkey Point was the judicial headquarters for the whole London District back then—can you imagine? All that territory, and Turkey Point was the only place for miles around with any kind of law.

A Boy's Mischief

Now, I've got to tell you about something I did when I was about six years old—something I've never quite lived down, and probably never will. My brother William and I, we got ourselves into some terrible mischief one day when Ma and Pa were away from the cabin.

We had this big brick and mud chimney, you see, and for some reason that made sense only to two foolish boys, we decided it would be grand fun to throw stones down it. Well, we started tossing those stones, and they came rattling down something fierce!

Sally Loder was living with us then, helping out, and she was cooking dinner when our stones started bouncing off the crane and splashing into the boiling pots with great clouds of soot. You should have seen the mess we made!

Sally came charging out of that cabin like a bull, and William -- he was quicker than me --he slipped right through a hole in the log fence and got clean away. But me? I wasn't so lucky. Sally caught me good, and gave me what I've always called the "tarnalest lambastin'" I ever received in my whole life. [chuckles] I can still feel it sometimes when I sit down too hard.

My Father's Trick on John McCall

Your great-grandfather Frederick, my pa, he had quite the sense of humor. Let me tell you about the time he scared the living daylights out of John McCall, the famous hunter and trapper.

McCall used to come to my grandfather's tavern regular-like, and he'd sit there boasting about his bravery and all the dangerous animals he'd faced down in the forest. One night, he stayed late drinking and bragging, and when he finally left, he shouldered his rifle and declared he hoped he'd meet the devil himself before he got home.

Now, my pa could imitate a wolf's howl better than any man I've ever known -- and I mean perfectly, like he was born part wolf himself. He was at the tavern that night, and he decided right then to test McCall's bravery. Pa slipped out ahead of McCall and hid himself along the trail.

When McCall came walking along, all full of himself, Pa let loose with a howl that would freeze your blood. McCall stopped and snarled back, "Yah-a-a!" all defiant-like, and kept coming. Pa howled again. McCall answered again, but you could tell he was getting nervous. But when my father let loose with that third howl -- well, McCall turned tail and ran back to that tavern faster than a jackrabbit with his tail on fire!

He stayed there until daybreak, swearing up and down that he'd been attacked by a whole pack of wolves, calling it one of the greatest "hairbreadth escapes" of his life. [laughs heartily] I suppose it was as real as many of those hairbreadth escape stories from pioneer times!

Moving to Middleton

When I was about nine years old -- three years past the age most boys started school -- our family moved to what would become the Middleton settlement. Pa built the second log cabin right where Delhi stands now. Can you believe it? This whole town, all these buildings and people -- none of it was here then. Just forest and a couple of log cabins.

For four years or more, there wasn't even a school within reach. When one finally opened up in a log cabin some squatter had built on a sand knoll near May's Corners on Talbot Road, I was already needed too much for the work of clearing land and building up the farm. Pa let me go to school maybe two or three days a week on average, but that was all we could spare.

Later on, they moved the school farther west to another log cabin, nearly opposite where old Mike the fortune teller lived for so many years -- you remember him, don't you? A man named Sandy Ford taught at both those schools. Eventually, we got a proper school in Joseph Lawson's pioneer cabin, the one that stood on the brow of the hill overlooking the Conlin tannery. That building served as both our school and our meeting house.

My Greatest Regret

I want you children to understand something important. Of all the things in my life -- all the hardships, all the losses, all the backbreaking work -- nothing has pained me more than not getting a proper education. Your great-uncle William, he got to live with our grandfather Hutchison for a time, and he learned his letters and numbers well enough. I always envied him that advantage.

When you can't read and write properly, when you don't have learning, it makes everything harder. It closes doors that ought to be open. So I'm telling you now: go to school. Learn everything they'll teach you. Don't take it for granted the way I never could. The world is changing fast, and the men and women of tomorrow will need education more than we ever did.

Meeting Your Grandmother

In 1840, when I was 25 years old, I married the finest woman who ever lived -- your grandmother, Eliza Putman. She was born in Wayne, Steuben County, New York, on New Year's Day 1820, and her family came up to Norfolk County when she was young.

We were married on March 3rd, 1840, and I can tell you honestly, children, that marrying your grandmother was the best decision I ever made. We settled near the village, and I cleared us a farm with my own two hands. Every tree cut, every stump pulled, every stone removed -- I did it thinking about the family we'd raise and the life we'd build together.

Our Children—Joy and Sorrow

Your grandmother and I were blessed with fourteen children, though the Good Lord saw fit to take some of them back far too soon. That's the hardest part of this story, children, and even now, after all these years, it pains me to speak of it.

Our first was Mary Jane, born December 29, 1840. She married James Abraham Kemp and gave us five grandchildren before she passed away in 1874. She was only 33 years old. That hurt us something terrible.

Then came Frederick, born in 1842. He was a beautiful boy, full of life and laughter. We lost him when he was just three years old -- April 11, 1846. I held him in my arms as he died, and I've never forgotten it.

Rosella Elizabeth came in 1844, but she lived less than a year. Amart Ann, born in 1846, made it to two years before she was taken. Rachel, born in 1848, lived only sixteen months.

[pauses, voice thick with emotion]

You learn to bear these losses, children, but you never get over them. Never. Every one of those little ones is buried in Delhi Cemetery, and your grandmother and I visit them still. A parent should never have to bury a child, let alone five of them.

But the Lord also gave us children who lived and thrived. Gertrude Ann, born in 1851 -- she married John Cole, and they're living right now in the old Frederick Sovereen homestead, your great-grandfather's place. Sarah Adelaide, born in 1853, married Frederick Hugh Crabb, and they've got five children and moved out to Winnipeg. Nancy Amelia, born in 1855, married Robert Charles Wheeler, and they've got four young ones.

In 1856, your grandmother gave birth to twins -- Roselia and Valzoria. Roselia died the same day she was born, but Valzoria lived to be 21. She was a sweet girl, but never married. We lost her in 1877, and that was another blow that nearly broke us.

Then came Hattie -- we call her Hetty -- born in 1859. She married Flavius Josephus Gillett, and they've already given us seven more grandchildren! Frederick Alexander was born in 1861. Your uncle Addison came along in 1863 -- Alexander Blake we named him, but he's always been Addison to us. He's out in Manitoba now, Swan River way, married to Violet Marie Winters. And our youngest, Wilbert Melvin, born in 1867, married Fannie Dalton. They're helping me run this farm now.

[straightens up a bit]

Mostly girls, as you can see. And I've been blessed by every one of them. They've given me more grandchildren than I can count on my fingers and toes!

A Life of Work

I've worked hard all my life, children. Harder than most men could stand, I reckon. I've been a farmer, kept an inn for a time, done every kind of labor you can imagine. But I never minded it -- hard work is good for a man. It keeps him honest and strong.

Some folks around here will tell you I was one of the best cradlers in the county. You probably don't know what that means -- they're using those newfangled reaping machines now -- but in my day, cutting grain was done with a cradle, a special kind of scythe with wooden fingers to catch the wheat as you cut it. It took real skill and strength to do it right.

I could cradle six acres in a single day, and I did it more than once. The young men today, they can barely manage half an acre without tangling everything up and wrecking their backs. [shakes head] I was out there just last week, cradling some green rye at 85 years old, and I still know how to do it proper -- the way our grandfathers did with the old "turkey wing" scythes.

People think I'm peculiar, working in a heavy coat and woolen mittens in the summer heat, but when you're my age, your blood doesn't warm up like it used to. Besides, I like the work. Always have. Some men find their recreation in sitting idle -- I find mine in honest labor.

What My Father Left Me

When my father died in 1875 -- he was 89 years old, older than I am now -- he left me a good portion of the homestead farm in his will. The westerly portion, about 63 and a half acres, plus another 18 and a half acres of the easterly division. All carefully measured and marked out in the deed.

That land represents everything my father worked for, everything he built. He came to this wilderness and made something out of nothing. And now I've worked that land for 25 years, keeping it productive, keeping the family legacy alive.

This farm we're sitting on right now -- Lot 21, Concession 11 -- this is where I've spent most of my life. Your grandmother and I raised our family here, buried our dead, celebrated our joys, and endured our sorrows. Every tree, every fence post, every furrow in those fields has my sweat in it.

Our Faith and Our Home

We've always been Baptist folk, children, and we've tried to live according to our faith. Your grandmother and I have always believed that the Lord expects us to help those in need, to show hospitality, to be generous even when it's hard.

No one has ever been turned away from our door hungry or cold. I don't care if it's a stranger, a neighbor, or someone folks look down on -- if they need a meal or a warm place to stay, they'll find it here. That's how my father ran his household, and that's how I've run mine.

I'll be honest with you -- we might have more material comforts now if I'd been less generous over the years. There were times when being charitable cost us dearly, when it would have been easier to say no. But I've never regretted it. When I stand before my Maker someday -- and that day's coming sooner rather than later -- I want to be able to say I did right by my fellow man.

The Bible says, "I was a stranger, and ye took me in." We've tried to live by those words.

Looking Back

I've lived to see changes that would have seemed like pure magic when I was a boy. When I was born, there were no railroads, no telegraphs, no photographs. We traveled by horse and wagon, sent messages by hand, and recorded faces only in our memories. Now you can ride a train clear across the continent, send a telegram to the other side of the world, and have your picture taken in a studio in Delhi.

I've seen this country grow from scattered settlements in the wilderness to a proper nation. I was born when Upper Canada was just recovering from war, and now I'm sitting here in the Province of Ontario, part of the Dominion of Canada. We've got a government, laws, schools, churches, towns with brick buildings and paved streets.

But some things haven't changed. The land still needs to be worked. Crops still need to be planted and harvested. Families still need to be raised and cared for. And people still need faith, hope, and love to see them through the hard times.

What I Want You to Remember

Children, I'm 85 years old now, and I know my time on this earth is drawing to a close. Your grandmother has already gone ahead of me to glory, and I miss her every single day. Soon enough, I'll join her, and all those little ones we lost, and my parents, and all the other folks who've gone before.

But before I go, I want to leave you with some thoughts -- things I've learned in all these long years.

First, work hard and take pride in what you do. Don't be afraid of honest labor. The world needs people who know how to work, who can put their backs into a task and see it through. There's dignity in work, and satisfaction too.

Second, be generous. Help your neighbors. Show hospitality. The money you save by being tight-fisted won't warm your heart the way a good deed will. I've never been rich in worldly goods, but I've been rich in friendship and respect, and that's worth more than gold.

Third, get yourselves an education. Learn to read and write well. Study mathematics. Read books. The world is changing faster than ever, and you'll need knowledge to make your way in it. Don't make the mistake I did -- thinking that work could substitute for learning. You need both.

Fourth, hold onto your faith. Life will test you, children. You'll face losses and disappointments that seem unbearable. But faith will see you through. Your grandmother and I buried five children -- five -- and there were days when we didn't think we could bear it. But our faith sustained us, and we found the strength to go on.

Fifth, treasure your family. The Sovereen name has been in this county since the very beginning. Your great-great-grandfather Jake ran that tavern. Your great-grandfather Frederick founded Fredericksburgh. I've worked this land for more than 60 years. You're part of something bigger than yourselves -- a family legacy that stretches back into the pioneer days and will, God willing, stretch forward into times we can't even imagine.

Some of you will stay here in Norfolk County, farming this good land. Some of you will go west, like your uncle Addison did, seeking new opportunities in Manitoba or beyond. Some of you might even go to the cities -- Toronto, or even farther. Wherever you go, remember where you came from. Remember the values we've tried to teach you. Remember that you come from strong stock -- from people who carved farms out of wilderness, who survived hardship, who helped each other and built something lasting.

The Old Ways

[gestures toward the fields]

I still cradle grain the old way, you know. Last week, some of the young men came by and laughed to see an 85-year-old man out there with a cradle scythe, dressed in a coat and mittens. They use those new mechanical reapers now, pulled by horses, that cut and bundle everything automatically. Progress, they call it.

And I suppose it is progress. But there's something to be said for the old ways too -- for knowing how to do things with your own two hands, for the skill and strength it takes to swing a cradle proper, for the satisfaction of looking back over your shoulder and seeing a perfect, straight swath with every head of grain lying just so.

I'm not saying the old ways are always better. But I am saying that something gets lost when nobody remembers how things used to be done, when nobody knows what came before. That's why I'm telling you these stories, children. So you'll remember.

A Rare Constitution

People always comment on how vigorous I am for my age. They call it a "rare constitution," and they say it runs in the Sovereen family. My father lived to 89. My uncle is still alive at 90-something. I'm 85 and still working the farm.

But I'll tell you the secret, children, and it's not magic: it's work. Honest, hard, regular work. It's getting up early and going to bed tired. It's eating simple food and not too much of it. It's spending your days outside in all weather. It's using your body the way the Lord intended it to be used.

The men today, they want to sit in offices and ride around in carriages. They're getting soft, mark my words. In another generation or two, there won't be anyone left who can swing a cradle all day or clear a field by hand. And I suppose that's progress too. But something will be lost.

Final Thoughts

[settles back in chair, gazing out over the fields]

You know, children, when I think back over 85 years -- all the joys and sorrows, all the hard work and small pleasures, all the people I've loved and lost -- I can't say I'd change much. Oh, I wish I'd had more schooling. I wish we hadn't lost those babies. I wish your grandmother was still here beside me, because the house feels awful empty without her.

But I've lived a good life. I've worked hard, raised a family, helped my neighbors, kept my faith. I've seen this country grow from wilderness to civilization. I've done my part, small as it may be, in building something that will last.

When my time comes -- and it won't be long now -- I'll go peacefully, knowing I've done the best I could with what I was given. I'll meet my Maker with a clear conscience and a grateful heart. And I'll be reunited with your grandmother and all those little ones who went ahead of us.

That's all any man can hope for, really.

[looks at each grandchild in turn]

Now, you children better get on with your chores before it gets dark. And remember what your old granddad told you. Work hard. Be generous. Get your learning. Keep your faith. Take care of each other.

The world is yours now. Make something good of it.

[waves them off with a weathered hand, settling deeper into the chair to watch the sun set over the fields he's worked for more than six decades]

2) Here is the Audio Overview "podcast" file for Alexander Sovereen's memoir from Google NotebookLM (based on the referenced genealogical sketch). (Click on "Audio Overview" and wait several minutes to hear it).

3)  The Google NotebookLM Video discussing Alexander Sovereen's memories is below: 

4)   I think that these relatively short memoirs are poignant and will be interesting to his descendants, and especially to me.

I knew my great-grandmother, Georgianna (Kemp) Auble (1868-1952) and she knew her maternal grandfather, Alexander Sovereen. She was a mother in Chicago at the time of this life memoir.

This format provides a different perspective than a biography, doesn't it?  It is historical fiction,  but many of the historical facts from the genealogical sketch are included and it rings true to me.  

I will write more of these AI-assisted memoirs or life memories as told by my ancestors as time goes on.  This is great genealogy fun for me!

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