Wednesday, February 18, 2026

Genealogy Education Bytes - Week of 12 to 18 February 2026

 Welcome to Genealogy Education Bytes, posted on Wednesday afternoon for the past week, where we try to highlight some of the most important genealogy and family history education items that came across my desktop since the last issue.


1) Upcoming Conferences and  Institutes 

* Conference Keeper Calendar - has many links to register for and/or view seminars, conferences and institutes.

*  Pinellas Genealogy Society 2026 Annual Seminar, featuring Diane Elder ($$, In-person and Virtual) - 28 February 2026.

*  RootsTech 2026 ($$, In-person in Salt Lake City, Free Virtual) -- 5 to 7 March 2026.

*  Root Cellar Spring Seminar, featuring Drew Smith, MA, MS, MS ($$, In-person, in Sacramento California) - 18 April 2026.


*  'Navigating the Future' - Guild of One-Name Studies Conference 2026 ($$, In-person, Portsmouth, England) - 24 to 26 April 2026.

*  National Genealogical Society 2026 Family History Conference ($$, In-person and virtual, in Fort Wayne, Indiana) - 27 to 30 May 2026.

2 ) Upcoming Webinars and Online Classes (times are US Pacific):

* Conference Keeper Calendar - has many links to register for and/or view seminars, webinars and classes.

*  FamilySearch MonthlyWebinars (Free)

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar - Wednesday, 18 February, 11 a.m.:  DNA in Action 1 of 6: Proving Your Pedigree with DNA by Karen Stanbary.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar - Friday, 20 February, 11 a.m.:  Emigration and Migration from Yorkshire, England by Jude Rhodes.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar - Tuesday, 24 February, 11 a.m.:   Genealogy for our descendants by Janna Helshtein.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar - Wednesday, 25 February 2026, 11 a.m.:  50 Most Popular Genealogy Websites for 2026 by Kory L. Meyerink.

*  Legacy Family Tree Webinar - Wednesday, 25 February 2026, 5 p.m.:   Foundations in AI for Family History 5 of 5: Building Your AI Workflow and Digital Crew by Andrew Redfern.

3) Recent Podcasts: 





4) Recent YouTube Videos 





*  DearMYRTLE's Archive:  Mondays with Myrt - 16 Feb 2026
*  DearMYRTLE's Archive:  Book Club: Stripped Bare Guide #3
*  DearMYRTLE's Archive:  Mini-Myrt: Bill Moore

*  Denyse Allen • Chronicle Makers:  What We Accomplished in a 10-Day Writing Sprint

*  Ellen Thompson-Jennings - Family History Hound:  FOREVER Album Cover Designer







*  Gen-AI and Genealogy Made Simple:  Your Genealogy Research Just Got Smarter with AI

*  GeneaBloggers:  Steve Little's Beyond Spell Check


*  Italian Roots and Genealogy:  When immigration stories become movies



*  Marcia Philbrick:  Charles Mentzer Audio Overview








5) Did you miss the last post in this series - Genealogy Education Bytes -  Week of 5 to 11 February2026?


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NOTE:  If  I missed an upcoming conference or webinar, or a useful podcast or video, in this time period, please let me know in a comment or an email. 

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Life Memoir of Thomas Dill (1755-1839) of Eastham, Massachusetts

I wrote an AI-assisted ABC biography for my fourth great-grandparents Thomas Dill and Hannah Horton in ABC Biography of the Thomas Dill (1755-1839) and Hannah Horton (1761-1796) Family of Massachusetts, based on my genealogical research over 38 years.

I wondered what Thomas Dill might have said in a life memoir told to his grandchildren in 1838. 

(AI Google NotebookLM Infographic for Thomas Dill's life memoir)

1)  I requested Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to create a memoir told by Thomas Dill about his life in 1838.  The prompt was:  "Please write a life memoir for Thomas Dill based on the attached biography, as she might tell to his grandchildren in 1838."

2)  The AI Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 memoir (edited for accuracy and completeness) is:   


The Life and Times of Thomas Dill

As Told to His Grandchildren
Eastham, Massachusetts, 1838

Come here, children, and sit with your old grandfather a spell. My bones are weary and these eyes don't see as sharp as they once did, but my memory -- well, that's as clear as a Cape Cod morning. You ask me what it was like when I was young? Let me tell you, it was a different world entirely. I was born back when this land belonged to King George, and I've lived to see it become something altogether new. But I'm getting ahead of myself. Let me start at the beginning.

I was born here in Eastham, way back in 1755 -- the exact date is lost to time, as such things often were back then. I was the youngest of eight children, the seventh son of Thomas Dill and Mehitable Brown. My mother, God rest her soul, died when I was but a small boy, about three years old. I don't remember her face, though I've tried many times. My father followed her to the grave when I was about six. So I was orphaned young, you see.

I was raised by my mother’s sister and her family here in Eastham and over in Wellfleet. Life was hard on the Cape in those days. The soil is sandy, as you know, and doesn't take kindly to farming. We grew what we could -- corn, turnips, some wheat -- but mostly we relied on the sea. Fish, clams, oysters. The ocean gave and the ocean took away, as the saying goes. Many's the widow left when a nor'easter came up sudden-like.

I learned early to work with my hands. By the time I was ten or twelve, I could mend a net, dig for clams at low tide, and help with the salt works. Those were the days when you worked from can-see to can't-see, as we used to say -- from when you could first see in the morning until you couldn't see at night. There was no schooling to speak of, not for the likes of us. A boy learned by doing, and if he didn't learn quick, he didn't eat.

When I was coming into manhood -- maybe eighteen, nineteen years old -- things started getting troublesome with the Crown. We'd hear talk in town about taxes and tea parties up in Boston. The King's ships would harass our fishing boats, impress our men into the Royal Navy. There was a meanness in the air, a feeling that something had to give.

Then came the spring of 1775. Word reached us that blood had been spilled at Lexington and Concord. British regulars had marched out from Boston and the militia had stood against them. The war had begun, though we didn't call it that yet. We thought it might blow over, that the King would see reason. We were wrong about that.

By the turn of the new year, 1776, it was clear this was no small disagreement. The Continental Congress was raising an army. Captain Naylor Hatch -- I knew him well, a Wellfleet man -- was recruiting for a company to join Colonel Bond's regiment. I signed my mark on the first day of January, 1776. I was about twenty years old, still just a boy really, though I thought myself a man.

We marched north that winter. Lord, but it was cold! We went up through Massachusetts, into New York, and then into Canada. The idea was to take Quebec and bring Canada into our rebellion against the King. General Montgomery and Benedict Arnold -- yes, that Arnold, before he turned traitor -- had already tried to take Quebec City on New Year's Eve, just before I enlisted. They'd failed, and Montgomery was killed. But the Congress wanted to try again.

We marched for weeks. My feet were wrapped in rags by the time we reached Chambly. We had nothing to eat but salt pork and hard bread, and precious little of that. When we finally arrived on the 12th of May, 1776, everything was already going to pieces. The smallpox was in the camp -- that was the real enemy, children. You've all been vaccinated, thank Providence, but in my day, the smallpox killed more men than musket balls ever did.

I saw men I'd marched with fall sick and die in their tents, covered in pustules, burning with fever. Some went blind. Others went mad. We tried to keep ourselves separate from the sick, but in close quarters, it was impossible. I caught a mild case -- you can still see the pockmarks on my arms if you look close -- but I was lucky. Many weren't.

By the time British reinforcements sailed up the St. Lawrence in May and June, our army was a shadow of itself. Sick, starving, demoralized. The order came to retreat. We fell back through Montreal, down the Richelieu River, running like whipped dogs. The British and their Indian allies nipped at our heels the whole way. It was a shameful thing, that retreat, but there was no choice in it.

We made it to Lake Champlain by early summer. That's where we dug in -- at Fort Ticonderoga and Mount Independence, across the lake from each other. The command thought the British would come down the lake and invade New York, and they were right about that, though not until the following year.

I spent the rest of that summer and fall in the Lakes, as we called that country. We built fortifications, stood guard, drilled when we had the energy. But mostly we just tried to stay alive. The food was poor, the shelters were rough, and disease still stalked the camps. On the 31st of August, Colonel Bond himself took sick and died. Good man, he was. We buried him at Mount Independence with what honors we could manage.

By the end of December, my year was nearly up. I'd signed on for twelve months, and I'd served every day of it. I was mustered out on the first of January, 1777, and I walked home to Cape Cod. It took me near two weeks in the dead of winter, sleeping in barns when I could find them, in the snow when I couldn't. When I finally saw the ocean again, I wept like a child.

But I wasn't done with the war yet. Maybe it was patriotism, maybe it was just that I needed the pay, but when Captain Salew came looking for hands for his brig, the Sophia Defiance, I signed on. This was different work -- we were hauling flour from Virginia up to Boston for the Continental Army. Not glorious, but necessary. An army marches on its stomach, as they say.

We made several runs between January and August of 1777. The British had warships patrolling the coast, so we had to be clever about it. We'd sail at night when we could, hug the shore, duck into coves when a sail appeared on the horizon. Once we had to throw half our cargo overboard to outrun a British frigate. The captain was hopping mad about that, but better to lose the flour than the ship and our lives.

I learned seamanship on those voyages -- how to read the weather, how to handle a vessel in a storm, how to splice a line and reef a sail. Skills that served me well in later years. By August, though, I'd had my fill. I was tired, children. Bone-tired in a way only a young man who's been through a war can understand. I took my pay and came home to Eastham for good.

The war went on for years after that, but I wasn't part of it anymore. I set about making a life for myself. I worked odd jobs -- fishing, farm work, helping at the salt works. I saved what little I could. In 1782, when I was about twenty-seven, I married Hannah Horton. Oh, she was a lovely girl, your grandmother Hannah. Dark hair, bright eyes, and a laugh that could warm a room. Her father had died when she was young, like mine had, so we understood each other in that way.

We were married on the 18th of May, 1782, right here in Eastham. Started our life together in a little house -- more of a shack, really -- on a piece of land I'd managed to scrape together. Over the next thirteen years, Hannah gave me nine children. Nine! Ezekiel, Obadiah, Seth, Isaiah, Jabez, Elizabeth, James, Daniel, and little Asa. All of you are their children and grandchildren.

Those were hard years but happy ones. We worked the land as best we could. I had fields for corn, some cleared land, a brush lot for firewood, and salt meadow for grazing. We weren't rich -- far from it -- but we got by. The children helped as soon as they were able. Even little ones can pull weeds and gather eggs.

But the Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. Hannah took sick sometime after Asa was born in 1795. The doctor couldn't tell me what ailed her, just that she was failing. She'd had nine babies in eleven years, and I think it just wore her body out. She died before the year 1797 came in. She was only thirty-five years old.

I was devastated, children. Here I was, about forty-one years old, with six or seven children still at home -- the youngest just a toddler. I didn't know how I'd manage. But you do what you must. A neighbor woman helped with the little ones, and the older boys pitched in more. Ezekiel especially -- he was only thirteen but acted twice his age.

In 1797, I married again. Ruth Linkhornew was her name. A good woman, practical and kind. She helped raise my children as if they were her own. We had about ten years together before she took sick and died. I married once more after that, to Susan Hatch, in 1813. She's been a good companion to me in my old age.

Over the years, I watched my children grow and scatter. Some stayed here on the Cape -- Ezekiel and Daniel both farmed in Eastham. But others left for Boston and beyond, looking for opportunities we didn't have here. Seth, Jabez, James, Elizabeth -- they all made their way in the wider world. I'm proud of every one of them.

Twenty years ago, in 1818, Congress passed a law giving pensions to old soldiers of the Revolution who were in need. I was sixty-two then, and my working days were mostly behind me. I swallowed my pride and applied. Had to go all the way to Boston to swear out an affidavit before a judge. I told him about my service -- the year in the Lakes, the eight months on the Sophia Defiance. I had to admit that I'd lost my discharge papers over the years -- forty-two years is a long time to keep track of a piece of paper when you're moving about and trying to keep a farm going.

They made me file more papers in 1820, prove I was truly destitute. That was a hard thing, children, to stand before the court and declare: 'No Real estate or personal estate; nor any family. I am old and unable to Labour.' But it was the truth. My children were grown and gone, I had no property to speak of, and I couldn't work anymore.

Finally, in 1833, the pension started coming through -- eight dollars a month. Now, I know that doesn't sound like much, but it's kept me fed and housed these last five years. The government hasn't always been good about paying on time, but they've been better than nothing.

You ask me what I think about when I look back over these eighty-three years? So many things. I think about my mother and father, who I barely knew. I think about my brothers -- all dead now, every one. I think about the war, and the boys who never came home from Canada. I think about Hannah, gone these forty years, and how much I loved her.

I think about how much the world has changed. When I was born, we were subjects of King George II. Now there's a Queen Victoria on the throne in England, and we don't care a whit because we're Americans, citizens of our own republic. When I was young, it took days to get a message from Boston. Now there are railroads and steamships. The world is getting smaller and faster.

But some things don't change. The ocean still crashes on the shore just like it did when I was a boy. The wind still howls in winter. Families still gather around the fire in the evening. Babies are still born, and old folks still die, and life goes on.

I don't know how much longer I have in this world. Could be a year, could be less. My body is failing me -- these old bones ache something fierce in the winter, and I can't walk like I used to. But my mind is still sharp, and I wanted to tell you these things while I still could.

Remember, children, that you come from hardy stock. Your ancestors fought for something they believed in, even though it was hard and scary. They worked the land and raised their families through good times and bad. They persevered. That's what we Dills do -- we persevere.

Take care of each other. Honor your parents and grandparents. Work hard, but remember that there's more to life than work. Love your families. Be kind to your neighbors. Stand up for what's right, even when it costs you something.

And when you're old like me, and your grandchildren ask you what it was like when you were young, you tell them. You tell them everything, the good and the bad, because that's how we keep the past alive. That's how we remember who we are and where we came from.

Now run along, children. This old man needs his rest. And remember -- I love every one of you, more than you'll know until you have grandchildren of your own.

-- Thomas Dill
Eastham, Massachusetts
Age 83 - 1838

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3)  The Video Overview of Thomas Dill's memoir, created by the Google NotebookLM AI tool, is: 

5)  I edited the Claude memoir text to correct minor inconsistencies and errors. Every large language model (LLM) AI tool writes descriptive text much better than I can write. The AI tools are very perceptive, insightful and inspiring, creating engaging text in seconds, including local and national historical events and social history detail when requested.

6)  This is historical fiction, based on my own genealogical research. It is what Thomas Dill might have told his grandchildren in 1838.  

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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My Parents Home and the Cement Truck in About 1982 (Gravity is Ruthless!) -- (Not So) Wordless Wednesday #905

 This is a priceless (to me) image in my computer file folders:


Guess what happened here!  Guess whose house this is!  No, not mine...but it is the house that my grandparents (LYle and Emily Carringer) built at 825 Harbor View Place in San Diego in 1951, and that my parents lived in from 1978 until my mother died in 2002.  This event happened in about 1982, but I can't narrow the date at this time.  I cannot find a newspaper article about this event on GenealogyBank (which has the San Diego newspapers). 

The house above is at the foot of a very steep hill (Lucinda Street).  About 100 yards up the hill, a homeowner was having cement poured, and, when completed, the truck started down the hill, and the brakes failed.  The driver managed to turn the truck about 30 degrees to the left before he hit the curb and the brick wall and smashed into the garage (full of stuff, and my father's pink Cadillac).  That stopped the cement truck but ruined the Caddy.  The driver was badly injured. Gravity is ruthless!

My father watched this happen in front of his eyes...he was in the den looking out the window (it's under the V in the roofline) and if the driver had not turned the truck a bit, it would have hit my father and killed him.  My mother was in the kitchen and she would probably have been injured or killed too.  The incident happened in about five seconds from start to finish.  Someone (probably a neighbor) had the instinct to take a picture.  My parents sent it to Aunt Marion, who put it in her album, and Marion's daughter gave me the album!  

The truck was removed, the house was repaired, and my father bought a new car. 

I enhanced and colorized a colored photograph with the Google Gemini 3 and MyHeritage photo tools. 

This photograph is a part of my family history.  

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Tuesday, February 17, 2026

Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 11 to 17 February 2026

Welcome to Genealogy News Bytes, posted on Tuesday afternoon for the past week, where we try to highlight the most important genealogy and family history news  items that came across our desktop since the last issue.    


1)  Genealogy and Family History News Articles:









2)  DNA/IGG-Related News Articles


4)  New or Updated Genealogy Digital Record Collections:









5)  Did you miss the last post in this series?  See Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 4 to 10 February 2026.


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David Jackson Carringer’s Life at Age 20 in 1849 in Mercer County, Pennsylvania

 After developing the AI-assisted ABC Biography of #24 David Jackson "D.J." Carringer (1828-1902) of Pennsylvania, Iowa, Colorado and California, I wondered what David Jackson "D.J." Carringer's life was like in 1849 in Mercer County, Pennsylvania.   


(AI NotebookLM infographic of David Jackson Carringer's life in 1849)

I asked Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to write a story about it. Here is the story about David Jackson Carringer's life in 1849:

David Jackson Carringer at Age 20

Sandy Creek Township, Mercer County, Pennsylvania - 1849

The year 1849 found twenty-year-old David Jackson Carringer navigating the first full year without his mother. Sarah Feather Carringer had died in April 1848, and her absence had fundamentally altered the Carringer household. The loss cast a long shadow over the family, but life continued, as it must, and Jackson was now stepping fully into manhood, shouldering responsibilities that would have seemed overwhelming just a few years earlier.

Family Life After Loss

The Carringer household in Sandy Creek township was forever changed. At fifty-five, Henry Carringer was suddenly a widower trying to manage a farm and a large family without his wife's steady hand. Jackson's older sister Eliza, now twenty-two, had become the woman of the house by default, managing the domestic sphere—cooking, cleaning, mending, and caring for the younger children—though the burden aged her beyond her years.

At twenty, Jackson found himself truly the man of the family after his father. The younger siblings still needed raising—George at seventeen was a capable farmer but still finding his way, Cornelius at sixteen helped with the heavy field work, fifteen-year-old Mary struggled with the loss most visibly, Sarah at fourteen tried to help Eliza but missed school, twelve-year-old Henry still seemed like a lost boy, ten-year-old Loisa clung to Eliza as a mother substitute, six-year-old Matilda barely remembered their mother, and three-year-old Harvey would grow up with no memory of her at all.

Meals at the Carringer table were different and quieter now, the joy dimmed. The chair where Sarah had sat remained empty—no one could bring themselves to fill it. Jackson often found himself settling disputes, comforting younger siblings who woke crying for their mother, and trying to be strong when he himself felt the loss acutely. The grief came in waves, and Jackson learned to carry his own sorrow privately, to be strong for the others.

Work and Growing Independence

By 1849, Jackson was an established carpenter, no longer an apprentice but a skilled tradesman. The 1850 census would list him as a carpenter, confirming he'd completed his training and was working independently. His hands, now calloused and strong, moved with confidence over wood—planing, cutting, joining. He could build anything from a simple chair to a complex staircase, and his reputation for quality work was growing in Mercer County.

With his mother gone, Jackson's earnings became even more critical to the family's survival. Much of what he made still went to his father to help feed and clothe the younger children, but he was beginning to save a small portion for himself—toward the day when he could establish his own household. The work gave him purpose during this difficult time, a place where he could focus his mind and see tangible results. When grief threatened to overwhelm him, he could lose himself in the rhythm of work—the rasp of the plane, the bite of the saw, the satisfying thunk of a mallet driving a chisel.

Entertainment and Social Life

Sunday church services remained the central social event, but now Jackson went partly to support his father and help manage the younger children. After church, when young people gathered, Jackson was more observer than participant, his mother's death having aged him in ways his peers couldn't understand.

Barn dances still happened, and Jackson attended occasionally, more out of duty than enthusiasm. He was a better dancer now at twenty, his long legs finally coordinated, but the joy had gone out of it. Young women smiled at him—he was tall, capable, established in a trade—but he wasn't ready for serious courtship. He had too many family responsibilities, and his heart was still raw with grief.

Corn huskings, apple bees, and barn-raisings continued to mark the seasons. Jackson participated because they were expected and necessary, but also because they reminded him of better times. In the evenings at home, the family still gathered, but it was different now. They sang less often, and when they did, hymns about heaven and reunion brought tears along with comfort.

Fun and Recreation

Hunting remained Jackson's preferred solitude—the woods were quiet places where he could think without interruption, remember his mother without needing to be strong for others. The deer and turkey he brought home helped feed the family, giving practical purpose to his emotional retreat.

Fishing, especially with his younger brothers, became more important. Henry at twelve and Harvey at three needed male attention and guidance that their grieving father sometimes couldn't provide. Jackson would take them to the creek, teaching them patience and technique, but really teaching them that life continued, that there were still simple pleasures to be had.

Ice skating in winter still offered brief moments of freedom and joy. He still carved in his spare time—toys for Matilda and Harvey were both gifts and grief work, keeping his hands busy, creating something good, trying to fill even a small part of the void their mother had left.

Courtship Considerations

At twenty, Jackson was of an age when many young men were courting seriously. Several families had daughters who showed interest—a skilled carpenter with good character was an excellent prospect. But Jackson wasn't ready. How could he think of courting when his family needed him so desperately?

Still, he noticed certain young women at church. One in particular—Rebecca Spangler, daughter of Daniel and Elizabeth Spangler—caught his eye with her quiet competence and kind smile. She was a few years younger, but there was something steady about her, something that reminded him of his mother's strength. They'd exchanged brief words after services, nothing that could be called courting, but he found himself thinking about her more than he probably should. He wasn't ready yet—but someday, perhaps, when his family was more settled, when he'd saved enough money... someday he might ask her father for permission to call on her.

Dreams and Uncertainties

In 1849, Jackson's dreams were more modest than they'd been before his mother's death. He dreamed of simpler things—seeing his younger siblings grown and settled, earning enough to ease his father's burdens, perhaps one day having a family of his own in a home he'd built with his own hands.

His father talked more often about the West, about opportunities in Ohio, Indiana, or even the Iowa Territory. Land was cheaper there, the soil was rich, and a family could make a fresh start. Jackson listened with mixed feelings. Part of him wanted the adventure, the chance to escape places that reminded him of his mother. But another part was rooted to Pennsylvania, to his mother's grave in Kelso Farm Cemetery just up the road with his grandfather Martin Carringer, to the familiar woods and fields.

The California Gold Rush was the talk of everyone that year, but Jackson had no interest in that kind of gamble. His mother had taught him the value of steady work, honest dealings, and family loyalty. What he dreamed about was stability—building a life where children wouldn't grow up with such loss, where hard work led to security rather than just survival.

The Weight of Being Eldest Son

At age twenty in 1849, Jackson carried responsibilities that shaped every decision. He was his father's right hand, Eliza's support, the older brother to eight siblings who needed him. Some days the weight felt crushing—he was only twenty, barely more than a boy himself, and yet he was expected to be wise, strong, reliable, and selfless.

But there was also pride in it. When he saw his father's grateful look, when little Harvey climbed into his lap seeking comfort, Jackson knew he was doing what his mother would have wanted. He was honoring her memory with daily faithfulness, with showing up and doing what needed to be done even when it was hard.

The family Bible sat on the mantel, Sarah's death now recorded on the "Deaths" page. In just two years, Jackson would add his own entry to the "Marriages" page when he wed Rebecca Spangler in 1851. But in 1849, that future was still unclear.

What was clear was that Jackson Carringer had been forever changed. The carefree boy was gone, replaced by a young man who understood loss, responsibility, and perseverance. His mother's death had aged him, sobered him, but also strengthened him in ways he wouldn't fully understand for years to come. At age twenty, David Jackson Carringer was learning to be the man his mother had raised him to be, even though she wasn't there to see it.

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3)  The Google NotebookLM Video Overview of this story is below. 

4) I have no easy way to double-check these responses from Claude. I don't have many book resources for these subjects and this locality, but there are published books available for this time period and general location. David Jacksaon Carringer is my 2nd great-grandfather and I have significant information about his life from the available records, but know nothing about his daily life, especially as a young person.

5)  After I read these types of social history summaries, I wish that I could be a time traveler for one day to visit the Carringer family in Pennsylvania in 1849 and witness their daily lives.  I'm glad that the general lifestyles and occupations are known from historical records and eyewitness accounts.

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page.  Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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