Monday, December 15, 2025

The Watchful House on 30th Street Remembers: "Randy, the Aerodynamicist"

I  have many memories of the upstairs apartment in the two-story house at 2119 30th Street in San Diego where I grew up (from age 4 to 24).  

Did my house "watch" and "hear" and "feel" and "remember" my time living there?

I wrote a description of the layout of the 30th Street house, and the downstairs patio, as I recalled it.  I described each inhabitant (my father, my mother, me, my two brothers) and some of the daily events that happened in each room, and the patio and the block, over my 20 years residing there, plus some memories of specific events. I created a PDF of that document and attached it to the AI tool to use.

1)  The first AI prompt that I used for the free AI tool Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 was for story ideas, along with a short description of each idea. Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 provided twenty wonderful story ideas - here is one of them (lightly edited for accuracy, consistency, and detail).

2)  My prompt today asked "Please write a story by the house about 'Randy, the Aerodynamicist" and added some detail about these events in my life.  

Here is the Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 story (lightly edited):


Randy, The Aerodynamicist

A story from the house at 2119 30th Street, 1964-1968

Summer Jobs

After three years studying aerospace engineering at San Diego State College, Randy came home in the early summer of 1964 with news that transformed him from student to professional. He'd landed a job at Wagner Aircraft in San Diego—his first real "professional" position, as he called it with obvious pride. At $400 a month, it wasn't a fortune, but it represented something far more valuable: the beginning of his career.

I watched him prepare for his first day like a soldier suiting up for battle. The bus routes were memorized, the schedule calculated to ensure punctual arrival. Every morning, Randy would leave my front door wearing his suit and tie, heading to the 30th Street bus stop for the ten mile bus ride to Scott Street in Point Loma. Wagner Aircraft was a startup company headed by Fred Wagner—a German immigrant who'd worked for Convair before forming his own company—trying to design and build a 25-seat commuter aircraft with an innovative boundary layer control system that would permit takeoffs and landings at just 60 miles per hour.

Randy's dinner table conversations transformed from college assignments to aerodynamics analysis. He spoke of aircraft performance calculations, stability and control work, learning from veteran aerodynamicists who taught him the practical application of all those theoretical equations he'd studied. One name came up repeatedly—Bob G., an experienced engineer who took Randy under his wing. I absorbed these names into my memory, not knowing then how significant they would become.

"This is what I've been working toward," Randy told his father (also a Fred) one evening, and I could hear the satisfaction in his voice. After years of study, he was finally doing real engineering work, contributing to an actual aircraft design. Fred nodded with paternal pride, understanding that his son had found his calling.

But the aerospace industry, I would learn, was a volatile business built on investor confidence and cash flow. When Randy returned to San Diego State in September 1964 to finish his degree, Wagner Aircraft folded. The company that had given him his first professional experience simply ceased to exist.

The disappointment in Randy's voice when he shared this news was evident, but he was resilient. By summer 1965, Fred Wagner had formed Sunrise Aircraft in La Mesa with new investors but few of the former Wagner employees. Randy secured a summer position there, doing essentially the same aerodynamics work he'd done the previous year. This time, he was the only help for Larry F., the sole aerodynamicist, and I could hear the increased responsibility in how Randy described his work.

The bus routes changed—30th Street to La Mesa instead of Point Loma—but the routine remained similar. Randy would leave my walls each morning, spend his days calculating lift coefficients and analyzing stability margins, and return in the evening with stories about boundary layer control and technical challenges.

First Full-Time Job

When Randy graduated from San Diego State in January 1966, Sunrise Aircraft offered him full-time employment at $500 a month. I felt his excitement as he transitioned from student to full-time professional. His bedroom in the sun room became his home base as he launched his engineering career.

The work expanded beyond basic aerodynamics. Randy picked up boundary layer control projects and traveled twice to Cambridge, Massachusetts for model tests and technical discussions with DynaTech, a technical services company. These trips represented Randy's first professional travel—not as a camp boy or vacation companion, but as an engineer whose expertise was needed across the country.

I watched him mature through these experiences. The dinner table conversations became more sophisticated, discussing technical concepts with Fred that went over everyone else's heads but clearly impressed his father. Randy was becoming an expert in a field that required both theoretical knowledge and practical judgment.

The crowning achievement of this period was writing a NASA Contractor's Report with the DynaTech team with the results of the BLC system model tests. Randy's name would appear on a NASA document—a professional milestone that validated all those years of study and work. I could feel his pride when he shared this news, though he tried to downplay it with characteristic modesty.

In October 1966, with Fred's financial help, Randy bought his first car -- a 1962 Chevy Impala. No more ten mile bus routes (and a mile long walk) to endure twice a day, no more scheduling around public transportation. The freedom this represented was both practical and symbolic—Randy was establishing independence while still living under my roof, gradually transitioning toward full adulthood.

In early 1967, at age twenty-three, he'd moved into an apartment on Idaho Street—though he still brought his laundry home and came to dinner frequently, maintaining connections to 2119 30th Street even while establishing his own life. He was enjoying bowling league activities at Aztec Bowl and had the social life of a young single professional, but only at the bowling alley.

Uh-Oh

But then came March 1967, and I felt the seismic shift in Randy's life before he fully articulated it. Sunrise Aircraft couldn't meet payroll. The company was struggling, and Randy—along with other employees—was asked to keep working on promises of future payment.

The dinner table conversations took on a different tone. Fred's business experience with insurance had taught him about cash flow and the warning signs of failing enterprises. "If they can't make payroll, you need to start looking for another job," he advised, his voice carrying the authority of someone who understood business realities.

But Randy was young and optimistic, hoping the company would recover. He continued working through the spring and summer of 1967, essentially working for promises that would never materialize. I watched his optimism gradually erode as weeks passed without payment, as the reality of his situation became undeniable. By September 1967, Randy faced the first real crisis of his adult life. But Sunrise Aircraft's failure had left him broke.

The day Randy moved back home in early September, I felt the weight of failure and frustration that accompanied his return. This wasn't a triumphant homecoming but a retreat forced by circumstances beyond his control. Betty welcomed him with the unconditional acceptance that mothers provide, while Fred offered practical support mixed with lessons about business realities.

"Don't work for promises," Fred said simply, and Randy nodded, absorbing a lesson that would serve him throughout his career.

Job Hunting

Randy had to borrow money from the bank and apply for unemployment benefits—humbling experiences for a young man who'd thought his career was launched. But he approached the job search with the same methodical determination he brought to engineering problems, applying for positions and attending interviews with professional polish developed over three years in the aerospace industry.

The breakthrough came with Northrop Ventura in Thousand Oaks, California, 170 miles away. At a job fair in San Diego, and then in Thousand Oaks, they offered Randy a position as an aerodynamicist, with a start date of Monday, October 24, 1967. His plan was practical if precarious—eat out and live in a cheap motel for a month on his credit card, pay bills with his first paychecks, then find an apartment. It meant leaving San Diego, leaving the family, starting over in a new city, but it was employment in his field and he was ready to accept those terms.

But Fred had been working connections too. His 1940s employment at Rohr Corporation in Chula Vista meant he still had contacts in management, and he'd quietly passed Randy's resume to them. Bob G.—the same veteran aerodynamicist who'd mentored Randy at Wagner Aircraft three years earlier—was now at Rohr, and when Randy's resume crossed his desk, he asked employment to set up an interview.

What happened next became one of those moments Randy would later describe as "things that happen in a second that take a lifetime to explain."

In the Nick of Time

Gil B. from Rohr Corporation employment called on Friday morning, October 21—just three days before Randy was supposed to start at Northrop Ventura. Could Randy come in next week for an interview?

"I'm starting at Northrop on Monday," Randy explained. "Could we do an interview this afternoon?"

The answer was yes.

I felt the nervous energy that afternoon as Randy put on his only suit and best tie, preparing for an interview that could change everything. The drive to Chula Vista was only eight miles, but it represented a potential divergence point in his life's trajectory—Thousand Oaks and a fresh start, or staying in San Diego near family and familiar territory.

When Randy returned home that evening, I could sense the excitement before he spoke. They'd offered him the job on the spot. Bob G.'s recommendation, combined with Randy's three years of aerospace experience, had convinced Rohr to hire him immediately. Monday would be his first day—not at Northrop Ventura in Thousand Oaks, but at Rohr Corporation in Chula Vista, eight miles from home.

Fred and Betty's relief and joy filled my walls. Their son would stay local, would work for a stable company with a long history, would be close enough to maintain family connections. The six-month nightmare of Sunrise Aircraft's failure and Randy's financial crisis was ending with a solution better than anyone had dared hope for.

Randy started at Rohr on October 24, 1967—the same date he would have started at Northrop, but under completely different circumstances. Instead of a cheap motel in Thousand Oaks, he slept in his old sun room bed at 2119 30th Street. Instead of eating on credit cards, he enjoyed Betty's cooking. Instead of isolation in a new city, he had the support of family just eight miles from his workplace.

Over the following months, I watched Randy rebuild his financial stability and confidence. The steady paychecks from Rohr allowed him to repay his bank loan and accumulate savings. The work was challenging and respected—Rohr was a major aerospace contractor, far more stable than the small aircraft companies where Randy had learned his trade.

The Next Chapter

By February 1968, Randy had saved enough money to move out again, this time with his friend John H. into an apartment in Pacific Beach. The departure was different from his early 1967 retreat—this time he was leaving from a position of strength rather than necessity, choosing independence rather than accepting defeat.

But the connections to 2119 30th Street remained strong. Randy continued bringing his laundry home—Betty's washing machine and expertise still superior to any laundromat, although he had to use the laundromat dryer in the next block. He came for occasional dinners, maintaining the family ties that had supported him through crisis. The sun room that had been his DXing headquarters, then his young professional's bedroom during the Sunrise Aircraft years, and finally his temporary refuge during unemployment, was abandoned and Betty immediately moved her enameling kiln and supplies into the sun room.

The House's Summary

From my perspective, watching Randy's professional journey from 1964 to 1968, I witnessed the complex reality of building a career. It wasn't a smooth upward trajectory but a series of advances and retreats, successes and failures, opportunities seized and disasters survived. Wagner Aircraft folded. Sunrise Aircraft failed to pay him. But each experience taught lessons and built networks that would serve him throughout his career.

Bob G's mentorship at Wagner in 1964 created the relationship that rescued Randy in 1967. Fred's old connections at Rohr, maintained over twenty-three years, provided the crucial introduction at exactly the right moment. Randy's willingness to work hard and learn, even at failing companies, built the expertise and reputation that made him hireable when crisis struck.

And through it all, 2119 30th Street served as his safety net and support system. When he needed to retreat and regroup, my walls welcomed him. When he needed encouragement and advice, Fred and Betty provided it. When he needed laundry done and a good meal, those services were always available. The house on 30th Street wasn't just where Randy had grown up—it was the foundation that made risk-taking possible, the safe harbor he could return to when storms arose.

The lesson I absorbed during those years was profound: success isn't about never failing, it's about having the support system to recover from failure and try again. Randy had talent, education, and work ethic, but he also had parents who would take him back when he was broke, who would work their connections to help him find opportunities, who would provide the stability that allowed him to rebuild and move forward.

By the time Randy moved out to Pacific Beach in February 1968, he was a different person from the enthusiastic college graduate who'd started at Wagner Aircraft in 1964. He'd learned that aerospace companies could fail, that promises weren't payment, that networks mattered as much as expertise, and that family support was the foundation that made professional risk-taking possible.

He'd also learned that Friday afternoon phone calls could change your life, that mentors remembered you years after initial meetings, and that sometimes the best opportunities came not from careful planning but from being ready when unexpected doors opened.

The sun room now held Betty’s enamel work, the dining room table still hosted family dinners when Randy came home. The adding machine in Fred's office still clicked its mechanical symphony, now occasionally discussing Randy's career challenges alongside insurance calculations and baseball strategies.

Randy's professional launch had been turbulent, but he'd survived and ultimately thrived. And I, having witnessed every stage from hopeful graduate to struggling employee to rescued professional, understood that the true measure of success wasn't avoiding difficulty but having the resources—financial, emotional, and familial—to navigate through challenges and emerge stronger on the other side.

The house on 30th Street had been many things to Randy over the years—childhood home, teenage headquarters, young adult launching pad, and temporary refuge during crisis. Now it was something different but equally important: the place he chose to visit rather than needed to inhabit, the family connection he maintained by choice rather than necessity, the foundation secure enough that he could build his independent life knowing it would always be there if he needed it again.

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3) The Google NotebookLM Video Overview of this story is below:

4)  These events really happened over a period of time and the names and events mentioned are real.  However, the dialogue during the events is historical fiction because I don't recall all of the details. 

This was a life changing moment in time -- if I'd gone to Thousand Oaks, I probably would not have met my wife Linda, would have worked through the military aircraft development cycles, would have lived in the greater Los Angeles area, and would have had a totally different life trajectory because Northrop's products were new to me.  I made a major decision, worked at Rohr for 35 years in commercial aircraft development cycles, married Linda, and stayed in San Diego for the rest of my life. 

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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Amanuensis Monday -- 1690 Mortgage Deed of Shubael Seaver Selling Land in Roxbury, Massachusetts Bay Colony to George Clarke

This week's document for transcription is the 1690 mortgage deed record for Shubael selling a messuage and three acres of land in Roxbury, Massachusetts Bay Colony to George Clarke of Boston. 

[Suffolk County, Mass. Deeds 1669-1698:  pages 199-200, image 230 of 845]:

The transcription of this deed is (starting at the middle of the left-hand page of the image) with the assistance of FamilySearch Full-Text Search:

[Page 199, Image 230, starting near the middle of the left-hand page:

[in margin] Seaver to Clarke

To all Christian People to whom this present deed of Sale Shall come 
Shubael Sever of the Towne of Roxbury within their majesties Territory and Domi-
nion of New England Wheelwright Sendeth Greeting.  Know yee, that I the said 
Shubal Seaver for and in consideration of the full and just Sume of twenty and 
five pounds Currant money of New England to me in hand paid by George Clarke 
Boston in New England aforesaid Glover, the receipt whereof I the Said Suball 
Seaver do hereby acknowledge and myselfe therewith ^fully^ satisfyed and contented, and 
thereof and of every part thereof do acquitt Exonerate and discharge the said Georg 
Clark his heires Ex'rs Adm'rs and assignes for ever by these presents And there-
fore Have given granted bargained sold assigned and confirmed , and by these 
presents Doe fully freely clearly and absolutely give grant bargain sell assigne
 and confirme unto the ^before^ said George Clark his heirs Ex'rs Adm'rs and Assigns All that 
Messuage Tenement and land Scituate lying and being in Roxbury aforesaid in
which he the said Shuball Seaver doth now inhabit or Dwell in Together with three acres
of land thereunto adjoyning be the same more or less, the said houses Tenements and 
land being and lying at a place comonly called and known by the name of Stony River in 
Roxbury aforesaid being butted and bounded on the North by the land of John Curtis 
on the west by the land of John Pike, on the South by the High way or County Road 
& profits whatsoever to the said premisses belonging or in any wise appertaining. To have 
and to hold the said Messuage Land and Tenements and every part thereof toge-
ther with all the right title Estate claim and demand whatsoever of him the said 
Shubal Seaver his heirs Ex'rs Adm'rs and Assignes or from any other person or persons 
whatsoever of in or to any part of the said premisses unto the said George Clark his 
heires Ex'rs Adm'rs and Assignes to his and their own sole proper use and uses benefit and 
behoofe for ever, and the said Shuball Seaver for himselfe his heirs Ex'rs Adm'rs and 
Assignes doth covenant promise and grant to and with the said George Clark his heires 
Ex'rs Adm'rs and Assignes, That he the said Shuball Seaver is the right true and law-

[page 200]

full Owner of all the said Messuage Tenement and land adjoining, with all other the priviledges 
and appurtenances belonging or appertaining being scittuated butted and bounded as aforesaid 
and have in himselfe full power, good right and lawfull authority to grant bargain sell assigne 
and make over all the afore recited premisses unto the said George Clarke his heires Ex'rs Adm'rs and 
Assignes in manner as aforesaid, and that the Said Messuage tenements and lands with all other 
the priviledges and appurtenances are at the ensealing and delivery of these presents free and 
clear and clearly acquitted and discharged of and from all former and other gifts grants bargains 
sales, leases mortgages, Joyntures Decrees Wills, Estates, titles troubles Acts alienations and Incum-
bnances whatsoever. And the said Shuball Seaver for himselfe his heirs Ex'rs and Adm'rs doth 
covenant and promise that the said George Clarke his heires Ex'rs Adm'rs and Assignes by vertue 
of these presents from henceforth and for ever shall and may lawfully and peaceably have hold 
use occupy possess and enjoy all and every of the aforegranted premisses without any lett or 
hinderance of the Said Shuball Seaver his heirs Ex'rs Adm'rs and Assignes, and by them to save 
and sufficiently to defend the said George Clark his heires Ex'rs Adm'rs and Assignes against
all and every person or persons whomsoever claiming any right title or interest of or into 
the premisses aforesaid from by or under them, or from by or under any other person or persons whatsoever. And for the better securing and more amply sure makeing the premisses afore-
said unto the said George Clark his heires Ex'rs Adm'rs and Assignes against
all and every person or persons whomsoever claiming any right title or interest of or into 
the premisses aforesaid from by or under them, or from by or under any other person or persons
whatsoever. And for the better securing and more amply sure makeing the premisses afore-
said unto the said George Clark his heires Ex'rs Adm'rs and Assignes the said Shubael Seaver doth
covenant and promise to do all such lawfull and expedient things as shall be judged by men 
experienced in the law to be necessary and requisite, and farther it is mutually cove-
nanted, consented unto and agreed upon between said Shubael Seaver and George Clark 
that if the said Shubael Seaver his heires Ex'rs & Adm'rs Shall pay or cause to be paid unto 
the said George Clark his heires Ex'rs Adm'rs or Assignes the full and just Sume of Twenty 
six pounds and ten shillings in current money of New England at or upon the first day of 
May next ensueing the date hereof w'ch will be in the yeare of our Lord Sixteen hundred 
Ninety and one without fraud or further delay, Then this deed of Mortgage ^is^ to be utterly 
voyd and of none Effect any thing herein contained to the contrary notwithstanding.
But in default thereof to Stand remain and abide in full force strenth power and vertue.
In witness whereof the said Shubael Seaver have hereunto set his hand and seale
in Boston aforesaid the first day of November An'o Dom'i One thousand Six hundred and 
ninety. Annoque RR's et Regina Guilielmi et Maria Anglia &c Secundo. 
Signed Sealed & Delivered in presence of us /                             Shubael Seaver & a seale 
Rich'd Phillips the M mark of Jno Barber Jno Herb't  Coward 
April 27'th. 1692. John Barber made Oath that he Saw Shubael Seaver Signe Seal & Deliver this instrum't as his Act & Deed, and that he, Rich'd Phillips & Jn'o Herb't Coward subscrib'd as witnesses .
                                                                                                Jurat cor. Sam'l Sewall  Assist't
Shuball Seaver personally appearing acknowledged this Instrument to be his Act & Deed 
May 12, 1692                                                           Before me Saml Sewall Assist't
                                 Entred Aug 24. 1692      Joseph Webb Cler 

The source citation for this land record is:

"Massachusetts, Land Records, 1620-1986," Suffolk County, Massachusetts, mortgage deed of Shubael Seaver to George Clarke, executed 1 November 1690, recorded 24 August 1692; imaged, FamilySearch  (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-99ZS-B6CR?view=fullText : Nov 23, 2025), Image Group Number: 007442499, "Suffolk, Deeds 1669-1698," pages 199-200 (penned) (image 230 of 845); citing original records in Suffolk County Courthouse, imaged by FamilySearch.

This mortgage deed is for a messuage and land totaling three acres in Roxbury, Suffolk County, Massachusetts Bay Colony, owned by Shubael Seaver. It was sold to George Clarke of Boston for 25 pounds on 1 November 1690. It appears that Shubael Seaver agreed to pay 26 pounds and 10 shillings by 1 May 1691 to void the deed.  It is not known if he did that.

Shubael Seaver (1640-1730) and Hannah (Wilson) Seaver (1646-1721) are my 8th great-grandparents through their son Joseph Seaver (1672-1754) who married Mary Read in 1700.  

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Read other transcriptions of records of my relatives and ancestors at Amanuensis Monday Posts.

NOTE: Genea-blogger John Newmark (who writes the excellent TransylvanianDutch blog) started a Monday blog theme years ago called "Amanuensis Monday." John offers this definition for "amanuensis:"

"A person employed to write what another dictates or to copy what has been written by another."

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Sunday, December 14, 2025

Best of the Genea-Blogs - Week of 7 to 13 December 2025

  Scores of genealogy and family history bloggers write hundreds of posts every week about their research, their families, and their interests. I appreciate each one of them and their efforts.


My criteria for "Best of ..." are pretty simple - I pick posts that advance knowledge about genealogy and family history, address current genealogy issues, provide personal family history, are funny or are poignant. I don't list posts destined for most daily blog prompts or meme submissions (but I do include summaries of them), or my own posts.

Here are my picks for great reads from the genealogy blogs for this past week: 

*  Exploring Google NotebookLM’s New Infographic and Slide Deck Features for Genealogy by Diane Henriks on Know Who Wears the Genes In Your Family.

*  When Birthdates Don’t Agree: Analyzing and Correlating Evidence by Diana Elder on Family Locket.

*  Your Family Tree's Top 10s by DiAnn Iamarino Ohama on Fortify Your Family Tree.

*  Huge Find for Loyalist John Adams, Fairfield, CT to Canada 1783 by Linda Stufflebean on Empty Branches on the Family Tree.

*  Analyzing Crawford Network Using Google Vids and AI Pedigree Chart Failures by Marcia Crawford Philbrick on Heartland Genealogy.

*  Adventures in Ordering an Alien Registration AR-2 by Marian B. Wood on Climbing My Family Tree.

*  You're invited to try OpenTranscribe! by Dan Maloney on Genealogy Assistant.

*  What’s happening when AI restores a family photograph? and 12 questions that beat "how's work?" at that holiday gathering by Denyse Allen on Chronicle Makers.

*  When ChatGPT Invents Data Despite Clear Prompts by Doris Kenney on A Tree With No Name.

*  Let’s Make a Resume for My Ancestor by Lisa S. Gorrell on My Trails Into the Past.

*  Wisconsin: Great Grandmothers and the Great Migration by Crista Cowan on Crista Cowan.

*  Walking the Western Front: My Journey Through History and Memory by Paul Chiddicks on Paul Chiddicks.

*  Fun Prompt Friday: Mickey Mouse Comes to Your Family Tree—Plus a Prompt That Makes AI Cite Its Sources by Steve Little on AI Genealogy Insights.

*  Using the FamilySearch Research Wiki – Part 1: Getting Started by Diana Elder on Family Locket.

*  Solving the Genealogist’s AI Dilemma in 2026 by Carole McCulloch on Essential Genealogy.

*  Can Gemini 3 do valid genealogical research? by James Tanner on Genealogy's Star.

Here are pick posts by other geneabloggers this week:

*  The Chiddicks Observer Edition 35 [8 December 2025] by Paul Chiddicks on Paul Chiddicks.

*  Friday’s Family History Finds [12 December 2025] by Linda Stufflebean on Empty Branches on the Family Tree.

*  This week’s crème de la crème -- December 13, 2025 by Gail Dever on Genealogy a la Carte.

*  GenStack [13 December 2025] by Robin Stewart on Genealogy Matters.

Readers are encouraged to go to the blogs listed above and read their articles, and add the blogs to your Favorites, Feedly, another RSS feed, or email if you like what you read. Please make a comment to them also - all bloggers appreciate feedback on what they write.

Did I miss a great genealogy blog post? Tell me! I currently am reading posts from over 900 genealogy bloggers using Feedly, but I still miss quite a few it seems.


Read past Best of the Genea-Blogs posts here.


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Have You Tried the Ancestry.com Member Tree Profile Advanced Search Feature Using the Genealogy Assistant Browser Extension?

My genealogical attention has shifted in the last year from doing actual genelaogical research 40 hours a week to doing it less than 10 hours a week.  Writing family stories, using artificial intelligence tools, has filled in the rest of the time, and more. 

I still check the major record provider websites for new features and new record collections of interest, and think "gee, I should write a blog post about that new feature when I get a round tuit..." and the "round tuit" is washed over in my memory by the real world and my AI story world. 

This week, I belatedly discovered the Ancestry Member Tree Profile "Advanced Search on Profiles" feature provided by Dan Maloney's Genealogy Assistant Browser Extension.    

This Genealogy Assistant browser extension is extremely useful, and costs $2.95 a month (or a one-time $29.95) to use it.   

Installing and activating this browser extension enables the user to do many tasks easily, and it also improves the user interface with some genealogy websites, especially Ancestry.com and MyHeritage.com. 

1)  For this post, I want to focus on the "Advanced Search" feature that appears on a person profile in an Ancestry.com Member Tree with the Genelaogy Assistant activated.  Here is a screenshot of one of my ancestors, John Marshman (1747-1806) in my Ancestry Member Tree:

That looks a little different from the profile without the Genealogy Assistant activated.  

On the second line down, do you see the "Advanced Search" button between "Search" and "Tools?"  I clicked on "Advanced Search" and could select which record provider I wanted to search from within my Ancestry Member Tree.  The sites that can be opened are:

  • Ancestry (Basic) (no login required if already logged in)
  • FamilySearch Records (requires login)
  • FamilySearch Tree (requires login)
  • FindMyPast (requires login)
  • MyHeritage (requires login)
  • FindAGrave (no login required)
  • Newspapers.com (requires login).
  • Search All Sites 
"Search All Sites" opens tabs on your browser for each of the sites.  

2)  Here's what I see on each tab opened by "Search All Sites:"

a)  Ancestry (Basic):

b)  FamilySearch Records (after login): 

c)  FamilySearch Tree (after login):  

d)  FindMyPast (after login):  

e)  MyHeritage (after login):


On this tab, the different family trees that can be accessed on MyHeritage are at the top of the list. If you only want historical records, then clicking the "Historical records" button on the left of the screen shows only historical records, as below.

f)  FindAGrave:  

g)  Newspapers.com (after login):  

3)  Note that the Genealogy Assistant for each record provider puts some information in the site search box.  Each record provider is different, so I have to be cognizant of what the search fields are for each provider.  I can modify those search terms if I wish.  Note that I am not changing anything in Ancestry.com, only on the selected website in a separate browser tab.

With each the different record providers on separate tabs, I can narrow the search as I wish.  For instance, on MyHeritage, if I just want to see "Newspapers," I can click on that category.  

4)  If I find something of interest, I can download an image or take a screenshot of a record, save it to my computer, and enter information for that person into my RootsMagic family tree program.  I could enter it into my Ancestry Member Tree and MyHeritage Family Tree. Of course, on Ancestry or MyHeritage, I can do it with one click to enter it into my Tree.  

5)  There are, of course, other record providers not on the list above.  I would like to have FamilySearch Full-Text Search, American Ancestors, GenealogyBank, Chronicling America, WikiTree, and Google on the list!  

6)  This Genealogy Assistant browser extension is a time saver for me - it's like one-stop shopping for ancestor information.  Thank you to Dan Maloney for coming up with an easy way to do more extensive genealogical research in a more organized and faster process.  

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Betty and Fred's Story: Winter 1941/2 ... and Waiting

The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my mother, Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #3 Betty Virginia (Carringer) Seaver (1919-2002) of San Diego, California. I also  wrote Betty's Story: The First-Year Art Teacher about the start of her teaching career.

The AI-assisted ABC Biography of my father, Frederick Walton Seaver, is in ABC Biography of #2 Frederick Walton Seaver Jr. (1911-1983) of Massachusetts and San Diego, California.  I also wrote Fred's Story: The Three-Day Cross-Country Escape  and Fred's Story: "I Need A Girl" about him coming to San Diego, and then wanting for a girlfriend.

Then I wrote:


                (AI NotebookLM Infographic - Betty and Fred's Story - Winter 1941/2 ... and Waiting) 

1)  Based on the biographies and the earlier stories, I asked Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to tell another story - what happened next (I offered some suggestions!)?  Here is the next story (edited for more detail and accuracy):


Fred and Betty’s Story: Winter ... and Waiting

Late December 1941 - Balboa Park

The week between Christmas and New Year's was a strange, suspended time. Schools were closed for the holidays, and Rohr gave its employees a few days off despite the wartime urgency. Betty and Fred seized the opportunity to spend as much time together as possible, both of them acutely aware that their future had become uncertain overnight.

On the Sunday after Christmas, they returned to Balboa Park—but this time not to the zoo. Fred wanted to see the museums Betty had grown up visiting, to understand the places that had shaped her.

They started at the Museum of Man, housed in the iconic California Tower with its distinctive dome and carillon, built in 1915 for the Panama-California Exposition. Betty led Fred through the exhibits on anthropology and archaeology, telling him stories about coming here as a child.

"I used to stand in front of the Maya artifacts for hours," Betty said, studying a carved stone head. "Trying to imagine what their lives were like, what they thought about, what they dreamed. I think that's when I first understood that art wasn't just about making pretty pictures—it was about communication across time and space."

Fred studied her face as she spoke, the way her eyes lit up with passion. "You should have been a museum curator."

"Maybe in another life. But I like teaching. I like seeing that same wonder light up in my students' faces when they discover something for the first time."

They climbed the tower stairs to see the view from above—all of San Diego spread out below them, the bay glittering in the winter sun, Point Loma jutting into the Pacific, the mountains rising to the east. Fred put his arm around Betty's shoulders as they looked out over the city.

"It's beautiful," Fred said. "Your city. Your home."

"Our city now," Betty corrected. "You live here too."

"I do. But it's different for you. You have roots here going back generations. I'm still just a transplant from Massachusetts."

"You're not a transplant anymore. You're part of the landscape now."

The next day, they visited the Natural History Museum. Betty showed Fred her favorite exhibits—the gems and minerals collection that had fascinated her as a child, the dioramas of California wildlife, the dinosaur fossils.

"You really do love rocks," Fred teased as Betty examined a display of local minerals for the third time.

"They're minerals, Fred. And yes, I do. Each one is unique, formed over millions of years by specific conditions. They tell stories about the earth's history."

"Everything tells you a story, doesn't it? Rocks, artifacts, animals, people. You're always looking for the narrative."

"Isn't that what life is? One big interconnected story?"

Fred pulled her close and kissed the top of her head. "I'm glad I'm part of your story."

"You're not just part of it. You're becoming the main character."

On Tuesday, they returned to the zoo—their third visit together, but Betty never tired of it. This time, they took their time, sitting on benches to watch the animals rather than rushing from exhibit to exhibit.

At the elephant enclosure, Betty told Fred again about riding the elephant as a three-year-old, and Fred listened as if hearing the story for the first time, asking questions about details.

"Were you scared when you got up high?"

"Terrified at first. But then I felt like I could see the whole world. Like I was queen of everything."

"You're still queen of everything," Fred said. "At least, you're queen of my everything."

They bought peanuts to feed the elephants, laughing as the massive trunks reached through the fence to delicately pluck the nuts from their palms.

"I want to bring our children here someday," Fred said suddenly. "I want to stand right here with you and watch our kids feed the elephants."

Betty's breath caught. It was the most specific Fred had been about their future, about children, about the life they'd build together.

"How many children?" she asked softly.

"I don't know. Two? Three? However many we're blessed with. Boys, girls, doesn't matter. As long as they have your heart and your curiosity."

"And your steadiness. Your kindness."

They stood there, imagining a future with children, despite the war, despite the uncertainty. Maybe because of the uncertainty—holding tight to the good things, to hope, to the belief that life would go on.


Wednesday, December 30, 1941 - Julian

On Wednesday, Fred proposed an adventure. "Let's go to Julian. I heard there's snow in the mountains."

Betty had been to Julian a few times as a child -- a small mountain town about an hour east of San Diego, famous for apple pies and, occasionally, snow. The idea of seeing snow with Fred was irresistible.

They left early, driving Fred's Ford up through the foothills, watching the landscape change from coastal scrub to oak forests to pine trees. The temperature dropped as they climbed, and Betty was glad she'd worn her heavy coat.

Julian was a charming old mining town with wooden sidewalks and historic buildings. But the real attraction was just outside of town, where a dusting of snow from the previous night's storm still clung to the ground.

Fred pulled over at a scenic overlook, and they got out to walk in the snow. Betty had seen snow before -- her family had taken trips to the mountains -- but this felt different. Special. She was here with Fred, and everything with Fred felt heightened, more vivid.

She scooped up a handful of snow and formed it into a snowball, then threw it at Fred. It hit him square in the chest, exploding into powder.

"Oh, that's how it is?" Fred said, grinning. He made his own snowball and chased her around the car, both of them laughing like children.

They ended up in a snowball fight that left them both breathless and covered in snow. Finally, Fred caught Betty around the waist and they tumbled into a snowbank together, landing in a heap.

"I surrender," Betty gasped. "You win."

"I always win when I'm with you," Fred said, and kissed her, cold lips warming against each other, snow melting around them.

They drove into town and had lunch at a small café, ordering the famous apple pie that Julian was known for. The café was crowded with other San Diegans who'd come up to see the snow, everyone in high spirits despite -- or perhaps because of -- the war news that dominated every radio broadcast.

"This time next year," Fred said as they shared their pie, "where do you think we'll be?"

Betty considered. "I don't know. The war will still be going on, probably. You'll still be at Rohr. I'll still be teaching."

"But we'll be together?"

"We'll definitely be together."

Fred reached across the table and took her hand. "That's all that matters. As long as we're together, I can face anything."

They drove back to San Diego in the late afternoon, tired and happy, their hair still damp from melted snow. At Betty's door, Fred kissed her goodnight and said, "Pick you up at seven tomorrow for New Year's Eve. Wear something fancy."


New Year's Eve 1941

Fred arrived at seven sharp on New Year's Eve, wearing his best suit. Betty had chosen a deep blue dress that brought out her eyes, and she'd styled her hair in soft waves. Emily's pearl necklace completed the outfit.

"You look stunning," Fred said, his eyes widening when he saw her.

"You look pretty handsome yourself."

They drove to the Red Fox Room on El Cajon Boulevard, where Fred had made dinner reservations. The hotel's dining room was elegant and crowded—everyone seemed determined to celebrate despite the war, or perhaps because of it. If 1942 was going to be a year of sacrifice and struggle, then at least they'd send 1941 off properly.

Over prime rib and champagne, they talked about the year that was ending. Fred had moved to San Diego in June 1940, but they hadn't met until March 1941. Everything that mattered had happened in the past nine months.

"A year ago tonight," Betty said, "I had no idea you existed. And now I can't imagine my life without you."

"A year ago tonight, I was at some boring party with colleagues from Marshall’s company, wishing I was anywhere else. Now I'm here with you, and this is exactly where I want to be."

They toasted to 1941—the year they'd found each other. Then they toasted to 1942, whatever it might bring.

After dinner, they drove to Rod and Eleanor Steddom’s house on Cooper Street in North Park. Eleanor had been Betty's sorority sister at State, Rod was an insurance agent, and she and her husband were hosting a New Year's Eve party for their friends.

The house was full of young couples—teachers and engineers, secretaries and accountants, all in their twenties and early thirties, all trying to have a good time while the shadow of war hung over everything.

"Betty!" Eleanor squealed, pulling her into a hug. "And you must be Fred! Betty's told us all about you."

"All good things, I hope," Fred said.

"All wonderful things. Come in, come in! We have music and dancing and terrible punch that Rod made."

The party was exactly what they needed—laughter and dancing and friends. Fred proved to be a surprisingly good dancer, leading Betty through swing numbers and slow songs with equal skill.

"Where did you learn to dance?" Betty asked, breathless after a particularly energetic jitterbug.

"My mother insisted. She said a gentleman needed to know how to dance. I fought her on it at the time, but now I'm grateful."

As midnight approached, everyone gathered in the living room. Rod Steddom turned on the radio, and they listened to the countdown from Times Square in New York.

"Ten... nine... eight..."

Fred pulled Betty close, his arms around her waist.

"Seven... six... five..."

"This is going to be our year," Fred whispered in her ear.

"Four... three... two..."

"I love you, Betty Carringer."

"One... Happy New Year!"

Fred kissed her as 1942 began, and all around them, couples were kissing and cheering and singing "Auld Lang Syne." Betty held onto Fred tightly, thinking about what the new year might bring. War, certainly. Change, inevitably. But also hope. Also love. Also this man who held her like she was the most precious thing in the world.

When they finally pulled apart, Eleanor was watching them with tears in her eyes. "You two," she said. "You're going to make it through this war. I can just tell."

"We will," Fred said firmly. "We have to. We have too much to live for."

They stayed at the party until two in the morning, then Fred drove Betty home through the quiet streets of San Diego. The city was blacked out—new regulations to protect against potential air raids—so the familiar landmarks were shrouded in darkness.

At her door, Fred held her close. "Happy New Year, sweetheart. May 1942 bring us everything we're hoping for."

"Happy New Year, Fred. I love you."

"I love you too. So much it scares me sometimes."


January and February 1942 - Back to Reality

The holidays ended, and reality crashed back down. Betty returned to teaching, facing students who were anxious and distracted. Several boys had older brothers who'd enlisted. One girl's father had been killed at Pearl Harbor. The news was full of Japanese advances in the Pacific—Wake Island, Guam, the Philippines falling one by one.

Fred's hours at Rohr increased dramatically. The company had won major new contracts for B-24 bomber and several other aircraft parts, production was ramping up to unprecedented levels. Fred started working six days a week, often pulling ten-hour shifts.

Their Wednesday evenings together became sacred—the one guaranteed time they had. Fred would come to Fern Street directly from work, often still in his work clothes, exhausted but determined to see Betty. They'd sit on the porch if the weather allowed, or in the living room if it was too cold, just talking, holding hands, being together.

"I miss you," Betty said one Wednesday in late January. "I know you're working for the war effort, and I'm proud of you. But I miss you."

"I miss you too. This isn't how I wanted our courtship to go. I wanted to take you dancing, to movies, on picnics. Instead, I'm stealing an hour or two on Wednesday nights."

"It's enough. It has to be enough."

But Betty was starting to feel the strain. She'd been expecting – hoping -- that Fred would propose soon. Her father had given his blessing at Christmas. Fred had talked about marriage, about children, about their future. But the proposal never came.

Maybe he was waiting for the right moment. Maybe he was worried about the war. Maybe he was having second thoughts.

Betty tried not to let these doubts consume her, but they gnawed at her in the quiet moments.


February 14, 1942 - Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day fell on a Saturday, which meant Fred could take the day off. He'd been mysterious about his plans, telling Betty only to be ready at five o'clock and to dress nicely.

Betty spent the afternoon getting ready, changing clothes three times before settling on a rose-colored dress. She'd been hoping – praying -- that tonight might be the night. Valentine's Day seemed like the perfect occasion for a proposal. Romantic, memorable, significant.

Fred arrived promptly at five with a bouquet of red roses -- expensive in February, Betty knew, but Fred had splurged anyway.

"Happy Valentine's Day," he said, kissing her cheek. "You look beautiful."

"Thank you. Where are we going?"

"It's a surprise."

He drove them to La Jolla, to a small French restaurant perched on a cliff overlooking the ocean. Betty had heard of this place -- it was exclusive, expensive, the kind of place people went for special occasions.

For proposals, Betty thought, her heart beating faster.

They were seated at a table by the window, with a view of the Pacific stretching out endlessly. The sunset was spectacular -- orange and pink and purple streaking across the sky.

"This is beautiful," Betty breathed.

"You're beautiful," Fred replied. "The view is just a bonus."

They ordered carefully from the French menu -- Betty chose coq au vin, Fred ordered beef bourguignon. The food was exquisite, the wine perfect, the ambiance romantic. Everything was exactly right for a proposal.

Except the proposal never came.

They talked about work -- Betty's challenging students, Fred's increased responsibilities at Rohr. They talked about the war news, which remained grim. They talked about their families, their friends, their hopes for when the war ended.

But Fred didn't reach into his pocket for a ring box. Didn't drop to one knee. Didn't ask the question Betty was desperately hoping to hear.

After dinner, Fred suggested a movie at the theater in La Jolla. They saw "How Green Was My Valley," a beautiful, melancholy film about a Welsh mining family. Betty cried at the end, though she wasn't entirely sure if she was crying about the movie or about her disappointment.

On the drive home, Fred was quiet. Betty tried to hide her letdown, but she must not have succeeded because Fred suddenly pulled over near Mission Bay and turned off the engine.

"Betty, what's wrong?"

"Nothing. I'm fine."

"You're not fine. You've been quiet since dinner. Did I do something wrong?"

Betty felt tears prick her eyes. "No, you didn't do anything wrong. That's the problem."

"I don't understand."

The words came tumbling out before Betty could stop them. "I thought you were going to propose. Tonight. Valentine's Day, fancy dinner, perfect setting. I thought tonight was the night, and I got my hopes up, and I know that's not fair to you, but I can't help how I feel."

Fred's face registered shock, then understanding, then something like pain. "Oh, Betty. I'm sorry. I didn't realize -- I thought we had more time."

"More time for what? We've been together almost a year. You've talked about marriage, about children, about our future. My father gave you his blessing. What are we waiting for?"

Fred took both her hands in his. "We're waiting for me to have enough money for a proper ring. We're waiting for me to feel like I can provide for you the way you deserve. Betty, I'm working every hour I can at Rohr because I'm trying to save up. I want to give you a ring that shows you how much you mean to me, not some cheap band that I grabbed in a panic."

"I don't care about the ring. I care about you. About us."

"I know. But I care about doing this right. My father died when I was young, and I watched my mother struggle to make ends meet. I swore I'd never put my own family in that position. I want to be ready -- financially ready -- to be a husband, to support a family."

Betty felt her anger deflating, replaced by understanding. "Fred, I don't need expensive things. I just need you."

"And you have me. Completely. But give me a little more time to get everything in order. Please?"

Betty nodded, tears streaming down her face now. "Okay. I'm sorry I pushed. I just -- I love you so much, and I want to start our life together."

"We have started our life together. The proposal is just a formality at this point. You know I'm going to ask you. You know you're going to say yes. The only question is when."

"Soon?"

"Soon. I promise. By spring at the latest."

Fred wiped away her tears with his thumbs, then kissed her gently. "I love you, Betty Carringer. More than I have words to express. You're going to be my wife. That's not a question -- it's a certainty. Just give me a little more time to do it properly."

Betty nodded, feeling sheepish now for her outburst. "I love you too. And I'll wait. For as long as it takes."

They sat in the car for a long time, holding each other, watching the stars come out over Mission Bay. The disappointment of the evening had transformed into something else -- a deeper understanding of each other, a commitment renewed.

"I'm not going anywhere," Betty said softly. "Even if you take until 1943 to propose, I'll still be here."

"I won't take until 1943. Scout's honor."

"Were you a Boy Scout?"

"No, but it sounds reassuring, doesn't it?"

Betty laughed, the tension finally breaking. Fred started the car and drove her home, and at her door, he kissed her goodnight -- long and deep and full of promise.

"Spring," he said. "By spring, I'll have everything ready. And then, Betty Carringer, I'm going to ask you to marry me in a way you'll never forget."

"I'll hold you to that."

Betty went inside, her emotions a tangle of disappointment and hope and love. Valentine's Day hadn't brought a proposal, but it had brought clarity. Fred wanted to marry her -- there was no doubt about that. He was just being Fred: careful, responsible, wanting to do everything right.

She could wait a little longer. She'd waited twenty-two years to find him. What were a few more weeks?

Upstairs in her room, Betty looked at the wooden box Fred had made her for Christmas, running her fingers over her carved initials. Fred was a man who did things with care, with thought, with purpose. When he proposed, it would be perfect because he'd made sure of it.

Spring, he'd said. By spring, they'd be engaged.

Betty could wait until spring.


To be continued...

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2) Here is the Google NotebookLM Video Overview about Fred and Betty's activities in the winter of 1941/2 in San Diego: 

3)  This story is historical fiction based on real people -- my parents -- and a real place. I don't know the real story of these events -- but this is how it might have been. Claude is such a good story writer!  I added some details and corrected some errors in Claude's initial version.

Stay tuned for the next episode in this family story.

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