Friday, June 21, 2024

52 Relatives: Emily Elizabeth (White) Barstow (1849-1936) of Connecticut

I have posted over 500 genealogical sketches of  my ancestors back through the 7th great-grandparents and a number of close relatives - see the list in 52 Ancestors/Relatives Biographies.  

This "52 Relatives" theme is a weekly series to document the lives of siblings of my ancestors with relatively short genealogical sketches, including important events, and with source citations.  These relatives lived and died within a family structure, and deserve a genealogical sketch - they were integral parts and important persons in the lives of my ancestral families.  I will post the sketches on my Ancestry Member Tree and in the FamilySearch Family Tree. 

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Emily Elizabeth White was born 15 October 1849 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut, the third daughter of Henry Arnold and Amy Frances (Oatley) White.[1]


In the 1850 United States Census, the Henry White family resided in Killingly township, Windham County, Connecticut).[2]   The family included:
  • Henry White -- age 26, male, a weaver, born Glocester RI
  • Amy White -- age 24, female, born S. Kingston RI
  • Ellen F. White -- age 5, female, born Killingly CT, attended school
  • Julia E. White -- age 3, female, born Killingly CT
  • Emily E. White -- age 1, female, born Killingly CT.
In the 1860 United States Census, the Henry A. White family resided in Killingly township, Windham County, Connecticut.[3]  The household included:
  • Henry A. White -- age 35, male, manufacturer, $1000 in real property, born CT
  • Amy F. White -- age 33, female, born CT
  • Ellen F. White -- age 15, female, born CT
  • Juliette White --age 13, female, born CT
  • Emily A. White -- age 12, female, born CT
  • Henry J. White -- age 7, male, born CT, attended school
  • Fred J. White -- age 1 month, born CT
Emily Elizabeth White married Marcus Barstow in about 1867,[1] probably in Windham County, Connecticut, but there is no marriage entry in the Killingly town records.  He was born 1 April 1845 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut, the son of Ebenezer L. and Huldah (Easton) Barstow.  Marcus died 2 August 1912 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut, and is buried in Cleveland Cemetery in East Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut. They had two children:
i.    Emily Elizabeth Barstow, born 15 September 1869 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut, died in infancy before 1 June 1870 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut.

ii.   Louis Sidney Barstow, born 2 May 1877 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut, died 5 September 1962 in Putnam, Windham County, Connecticut.  He married (1) Clara Amelia Bartlett in about 1897 in Windham county, Connecticut.  She was born 29 March 1879 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut, the daughter of Leonard and Patience E. (Slocum) Bartlett, and died 11 July 1906 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut.  Louis married (2) Grace M. Drabble before 1909 in Windham County, Connecticut.  Grace was born in April 1882 in Windham County, Connecticut, the daughter of John and Ann E. (Woodhead) Drabble, and died 14 December 1950 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut. 
In the 1870 United States Census, Emily and Marcus Barstow were enumerated in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut, in the household of E.L.. Barstow, the father of Marcus Barstow.[4]  Their information included:
  • Marcus Barstow - age 25, male, white, a Farm Laborer, personal estate of $150, born Connecticut, a male citizen of the US over age 21`.
  • Emily Barstow - age 21, female, white, works in a cotton mill, born in Connecticut.
There is no entry in the 1880 United States Census for the Marcus and Emily (White) Barstow family.

In the 1900 United States Census, the Marcus Barstow family resided at 10 Coral Street in Worcester, Worcester County, Massachusetts.[5]  The household included:
  • Marcus Barstow - Head, white male, born Mar 1846, age 54, married, for 33 years, born Connecticut, father born Massachusetts, mother born Connecticut, a Grocer, can read and write, speaks English, rents a home.
  • Emily Barstow - Wife, white, female, born Oct 1847, age 52, married, for 33 years, 2 children born, 1 child living, born Connecticut, father born Rhode Island, mother born Rhode Island, no occupation, can read and write, speaks English.
  • Louis S. Barstow - Son, white, male, born Apr 1878, age 22, married, born Connecticut, father born Connecticut, mother born Connecticut, no occupation, can read and write, speaks English.
In the 1910 United States Census, the Marcus Barstow family resided in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut.[6]  The household included:
  • Marcus Barstow - Head, male, white, age 65, married (first), born Connecticut, father born Massachusetts, mother born Connecticut, speaks English, a Farmer, works on a General Farm, on own account, can read and write, rents a home.
  • Emily E. Barstow - Wife, female, white, age 61, married (first), 42 years married, 2 children born, 1 child living, born Connecticut, father born Rhode Island, mother born Rhode Island, speaks English, no occupation, can read and write.
The Oatley Family book states that Marcus and Emily Elizabeth (White) Barstow were farmers, andl ived in "The Valley" area of East Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut.[1]

Marcus Barstow died 2 August 1912 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut.  There is no probate record in the Killingly, Connecticut Probate District records.  Emily probably lived with her son Louis Sidney Barstow on and off for the rest of her life.

There is no entry in the 1920 United States Census for Emily (White) Barstow.  During the 1920s, there are several entries for Emily E. Barstow, widow of Marcus,  in the Danielson, Connecticut City Directories.

In the 1930 United States Census, Emily E. Barstow was enumerated in the household of Louis S. Barstow in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut.[8]  The household included:
  • Louis S. Barstow - Head, owns home, male, white, age 52, married, first at age 19, reads and writes, born Connecticut, father born Connecticut, mother born Connecticut, speaks English, a Farmer, works on a General Farm, Owner.
  • Grace M. Barstow - Wife of Head, female, white, age 48, married, first at age 24, reads and writes, born Connecticut, father born England, mother born England, speaks English, no occupation
  • Stanely S. Barstow - Son, male, white, age 20, single, reads and writes, born Connecticut, father born Connecticut, mother born Connecticut, speaks English, no occupation.
  • Hellen E. Barstow - Daughter, female, white, age 14, single, attended school, reads and writes, born Connecticut, father born Connecticut, mother born Connecticut, speaks English, Farm laborer, works on Farm, a worker.
  • Louis S. Barstow Jr. - male, white, age 5, single, reads and writes, born Connecticut, father born Connecticut, mother born Connecticut, speaks English, no occupation.
  • Emily E. Barstow - Mother, female, white, age 81, widowed, reads and writes, born Connecticut, father born Rhode Island, mother born Rhode Island, speaks English, no occupation, 
Emily Elizabeth (White) Barstow died on 26 November 1936 in Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut.[1,9\-10]  She is buried in Cleveland Cemetery in East Killingly, Windham County, Connecticut.[11]

SOURCES:

1. Harry J. Oatley, The Oatley Family in America and Their Descendants (Providence, R.I. : The Oatley Family Association, 1970), page 114, #500 Emily Elizabeth White family sketch.

2. 1850 United States Federal Census, Windham County, Connecticut, population schedule, Killingly town; Page 360, dwelling #582, family #635, Henry White household, online database, Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com); citing National Archives Microfilm Publication M432, Roll 51.

3. 1860 United States Federal Census, Windham County, Connecticut,  Killingly town, page 588, dwelling #851, family #925, Henry White household; online database, Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com); citing National Archives Microfilm Publication M653, Roll 92.

4. 1870 United States Federal Census, Windham County, Connecticut, population schedule, Killingly, page 80 (penned), dwelling #513, family #702, E.L. Barstow household; imaged, "1870 United States Federal Census," Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com);  citing National Archives Microfilm Publication M593, 1,761 rolls, Washington, D.C.

6. 1900 United States Federal Census, Worcester County, Massachusetts, population schedule, Worcester Ward 3, E.D. 1731, Sheet no. 16A (penned), dwelling #127, family #254, 10 Coral Street, Marcus Barstow household; imaged, "1900 United States Federal Census," Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com); citing National Archives Microfilm Publication T623, 1,854 rolls, Washington, D.C. .

7. 1910 United States Federal Census, Windham County, Connecticut, population schedule, Killingly, E.D. 575, Sheet no. 5A (penned), dwelling #121, family #142, Marcus Barstow household; imaged, "1910 United States Federal Census," Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com); citing National Archives Microfilm Publication T624, 1,178 rolls, Washington, D.C. .

8. 1930 United States Federal Census, Windham County, Connecticut, population schedule, Killingly, Enumeration District 10, page 11A,  Dwelling #256, Family #310, Louis S. Barstow household; imaged, Ancestry.com (https://www.ancestry.com);  citing National Archives Microfilm Publication T626, 2,667 rolls.

10. "Connecticut Vital Records — Index of Deaths, 1897-1968," indexed database, Connecticut Death Records Index (https://www.ctatatelibrarydata.org/death-records/), Emily Barstow death entry, 26 November 1936.

11. Find A Grave, indexed database and digital image,  (https://www.findagrave.com), Cleveland Cemetery, East Killingly, Conn., Emily Barstow (1848-1936) memorial #112407080.

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Emily Elizabeth (White) Barstow (1849-1936) was my great- grandaunt, the sister of my great-grandmother, Julia E. (White) Richmond (1848-1913).  One of the daughters of Thomas and Julia (White) Richmond was named Emily.  A grandson and a great-grandson of Thomas and Julia (White) Richmond were named Stanley.

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